Jo rekha Shyam paar kiye, wo Arnav paar nahi karte

Originally posted by: JWMRK

Hiya all😃

If you have ever been in a single theater screen in India...especially in the Western and Northern part of India...the middle 6-7 odd minutes of today's episode qualify as ..."seeti maar, paisa vasool, fultoo fatak" moments.

😆I know exactly what you are talking about!!!!

Barun Sobti...like really...what happened today is called "JW Alert No 1: Do not show this clip to the real life ASR" moment🤣

Ok Barun...I admire you more for your acting and the fact that in real life you are a man whom a woman would ideally want😊...simple, hardworking, unassuming, friendly and on the basis of what is available on the public news, a man who is cultured and loyal to a single woman...qualities that most adult women would know are not very common and therefore desirable😳.

I say this again, and I know you agree, we don't need barun/asr to be shirtless and flaunt his ribbed body to make an impact. I definitely liked what i saw, but it was completely unnecessary!! He is beyond talented and that alone has me BISSed for life😉. On the other hand, if that was to make an impact on Khushi, we did get a fleeting 5 seconds of it before we went back to Swami 101!! If this was a start...let's see where this goes.

I don't think you are the most good looking man I have seen...ooops...sowwie😛...but yes I find you very attractive☺️...That said ...there is only one problem though...All of the above works till one watches your "eyes meet voice meet attitude meet male persona"☺️v ...unfortunately all of that happened at once today...and then its only the... "JW Alert No 1: Do not show this clip to the real life ASR" moment😆

Anyways moving on...

Regarding most of the shenanigans and ASR's response to it😳

Adhjal gagari chalakat jaaye😆😆

Meaning, whose who have little knowledge... keep showing it

Alternatively,

Pratakshya ko praman ki avashayktaa nahi

Meaning, facts do not require proof to stand correct

Koi Shak😳...Fair enuf😳

Anyways moving on

When you throw pearls...hopefully you get a swan😃

Loved loved loved the ASR, Amma, Buaji bonding today👏👏👏

And naam mein kya rakhha hai yaaron...Amma ho ya Aunty...its the emotion and "little everyday gestures and respect" that count.😳

I loved it that ASR tells Amma he is going for a jog...a simple little gesture and protocol...one that all of us do when we step out of the house and which we tell to a person we love or respect or whom we think is our own😊...I loved the fact that Amma and ASR had a simple Q&A on will he have tea? or that he will shower and have breakfast...or that Amma watches for him and his needs😊...I loved it that Buaji too looks out for ASR ...and that he too does not mind that extra few minutes wait for Buaji to finish speaking😊...I love that he realised he made a boo boo with the AC ...and therefore then tried to comfort the elder Gupta ladies👏👏😊

If he had stepped over their feelings yesterday, he was now aware of it, and was trying to ease the pressure off of them, and in the process, off of himself. I liked that aspect.

(although pehli baar India mein suna ke AC ki wajah se puri lane/ mohalla, estate ki electricity chali gayi😲😲😲...)

Hmmm...hey ..the above saying...suddenly reminds me of another saying...

When you throw peanuts ...you get monkeys🤣🤣🤣

Jo rekha Shyam paar kiye, wo Arnav paar nahi karte😳

The obvious righteous message is Khushi saying she won't cross the physical line...2.67 minutes later she just did😃...

Ok no problem...perhaps the message was she wont cross the mind wali "Arnav Maryada"...well that also she just did the minute she said "no point thinking about Shyam"😆...

Hmmm...

So then...whose Maryada are we watching all along😳...and whose Maryada is not being crossed😳...whose Maryada is still intact😳

Me thinks its Arnav's

Lakshman Rekha, in modern contemporary Indian society parlance and everyday talk, refers to a strict convention or a rule, never to be broken. It is the ethical limit of an action, which when not followed ...may lead to undesirable consequences.

So what is this "Maryada" when it comes to Arnav...is it

"Love your woman and her primal chastity"😳...or

"Don't abuse what is most sacred to a woman"😳...or simply

"Tigers hunt...not prey on dead meat"😳...or then is it

"Main aaj bhi phaike hue paise nahi uthataa"😳😳

or is it simply this

"I want you Khushi...I desperately want you...in all the possible ways a man would want his woman...but you can't handle this truth...and I can't run away from the truth😳...the truth that unfortunately we live in a world that has responsibilities...those responsibilities that we are born with...

You curse me...you despise me...you want to make me a human...Perhaps you can do that becuase you have that freedom...a freedom of not having to do what I do...a freedom of not having to choose "you" who is my life over someone I am bound to by my birth...

You are constantly words like "zindagi" "vishwas" "pyaar"...they sound good...a nice tagline...Unfortunately, I was never given the time nor the space to experience these taglines...becuase two zindagis that a 12 year old depended on vanished from this earth one fatal evening...one zindagi who has only pyaar for me is being taken for a ride by her vishaas se bhara hua husband...so no... ...I cannot cross the line...at least for now...the line which will give me my life...but take my sister'.😳"

Beautifully written!! It is such a struggle to endure a constant tug of war between what you know (atleast, what he thinks he knows) and what you feel. You know what you have to do, but it is not necessarily what you want to do. You are just a step away, and yet you know you couldn't go any closer.

The line...Rekha...Arnav Rekha😳

Cheers darlings and a great weekend😃

JW