Mirror Mirror on the wall. Aham is the dumbest of - Page 2

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Sorry Tina but your defence fails. You see when you love someone. You will do anything to be with them. Mummy or no mummy. And besides no matter what mummy says now. Once you are married and the first grand-son comes along mummy will forgive you anything.

And then as well. Mummy is for today and tomorrow. Sooner or later she goes to mummy heaven and you are left to spend the rest of your life with someone you despise just because mummy chose them? I think not. Rather make your own choice. Have your own regrets. Mummy may not like it but she will get used to it.

Unless you are a spine-less jelly fish ala Aham. In which case you will if mummy asks you to jump in the fire then you must do that too!

This mummy mummy excuse is not cutting it!

Originally posted by: 5cents

Lolz you cracked me with this mummy mummy thingy 😆. The problem is again with the mom's. If woman like KOki brought up their sons better, then they'll not be tied to the apron strings of their moms anymore😉.
About Ahem not marrying Anitha is ...he never loved her whole-heartedly. It was a simple infatuation just a puppy love😕. That's why he could give it up so easily.
Wait & watch Gopi leave ...he'll get her back from hell 😛 as he has fallen for her hook, line and sinker. Head over heels in love 😳

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Off don't get me started on this one. That is whole thread on its own. It pee's me off royally to see woman commit the same mistakes that their mil's did. Bring up their sons like princes. Moan like hell that their mil's did it and now they are forced to bear the consequences. And then turn around and bring up their own sons in the exact same manner! How dumb can you be? And they all do it even the ones saying they don't or won't! 😡 😡 😡

I don't have an issue with that. I know he never loved Anita. But damnit be a man and end things properly. Then you can actually face her two years later with no guilt or recrimination!

That I can agree with 200%! 👍🏼

Originally posted by: 5cents

Shaun, what is it with this color coding? I have to be plain black & white only... work ethics😉
Yes, I completely agree here with you. Some of my colleagues think that making your husband help you with your household is not good... I'm scared to tell them that my hubby helps me all the time 😳 'coz they don't get the whole point and they think i make him do the chores. Some of my relatives from India don't let the boys help with dishes ...girls can help. Princely boys huh. specially woman putting her leg on axe thing!😡

Heaven help us from such women... I say, coz they aint churning out real men for sure
GRRR

Thx to Koki's upbringing he was rude, obnoxious and selfish. With Gopi's love he has turned into a compassionate man 😳. Give him time he'll be fine and guilt free. 😉

Originally posted by: Sandy914

yes.. back here for protect/defence ahemji ;)...wait do i really need to this job, because he is macho,strong and looks like a good body builder, but still i had to do this bcoz he is emotionally weak.. he can't see any body in hurt state, especially by him( agree he did hurt gopi, but that was anger, i feel that is showing of his love towards gopi, don't forget he did felt bad for her many times, defended her from his mother)...

In other words a big macho man with the emotional maturity of a 10 year old?

So now Ahemji had no intention to come to this marriage, bcoz family had forced him, he had come..

I cannot for the life of me remembering anyone holding a gun to his head? 😕

there he saw anitha, she got hurt bcoz of him, so my poor boy is in guity(become emotinally weak, and brain is not functioning properly)..

Agree

so subconsciously he was looking for gopi, help her when they are entering in hall, even after when photographer asked them for photo, with out any hesitation he put his had around gopi and posed for pic..
when congratulating Anitha, he told his wife name.. he never forget her how much he disturbed..( So i strongly says he loves gopi only not anitha, and all these not speaking business is only because of his guilty and regretting for what happened in the past..

Agree

now u say why didn't he comeout after seeing anitha there in the clock room? I felt like he doesn't have any bad intentions and i felt like he was about to say sorry to Anitha what happened in past.. but great business man very bad at talking or consolling and expressing his feelings.. i.e is the reason he doesn't move from there.. and helping Anitha is just friendly manner.. any body would do that..

The road to hell is paved with good intentions. The man had almost 2 years to apologise. He didn't. His fault. Why choose her wedding day to take her back to the past which she would rather forget?

falling on bed when anitha fell on him.. we really don't know with what force anitha fell on him(see big body builder can't handle her).. and later why did he done late to get up from the bed.. already told my ahemji's brain is stop functioning..(i think for everyone it will happen, we really don't know what to do, when it happen suddenly that too when you are in a disturb mood)

They should never have been in that room together long enough for any falling of any kind to happen!

he had done only one mistake that is breaking up with Anitha.. that too in very bad condition(kind of dumping her).. so he is just feeling guilty/ regrets( where some people never show, even bcoz of them others put their life in danger)..

Guilt and regret should be made up for. Had he done this initially this entire situation could have been avoided. he chose to ignore it and let it fester like an open wound.

and i feel u got more angry becoz of the shadows on curtain.. think who created that kind of akward situation..

Immaterial

The guy is just perfect gentle man.. he has to be strong emotional, not to take blame on him for what ever happened..( just like gopi)..

A perfect gentleman never ever ever ever compromises a lady! Sorry but your genteman isn't worth a frog's @rse 😆

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Oh and gentleman never slap their wives either. Irrespective of circumstance. It's what seperates them from the rest.

@sandy. You get brownie points for trying! 😃

Originally posted by: Sandy914

Agree.. he had done mistake for slapping his wife.. but he also regrets for that.. and i say.. the one who scolds you more.. will love you more.. from ahem's perspective if he took such a step it is only because, at down the heart he thinks she only his/his property,

Slapping is onething.. but i am sure he will feel the pain of her's.. the one who can accept their mistake.. they are most perfect and gentleman :P

Congratulations sandy. You have just made "I hit you because I love you" a valid excuse for domestic violence. Woman all over the world will be thanking you for showing them the light. Being a gentleman means never committing the mistake in the first place. When you do you lose your place in the club.