Puner Vivah ... 04/10/2012 with Eva...

Eva, enjoyed your take. Just like old times. 😊

I agree with you on a lot of issues and I disagree with some. 😛

Aarti is shown to be obsessed with Ansh. Maybe being a single mom she feels she alone can do everything for Ansh. When there are two parents involved in child rearing you tend to divide responsibilities. Aarti never had that opportunity. Dubey's will always be grandparents. From personal experiences I can tell that no matter how much help you have from grandparents ultimately the responsibility of bringing up your child lies on the parents shoulders. And grandparents always tend to be indulgent and the parents have to struggle to balance it out with strict disciplining. In Aarti's case she never had that support from Prashant. So, I understand why Aarti feels she has to do everything for Ansh. Once she starts feeling comfortable and thinks that both Yash and she are parents to Ansh, I think she will have no issues sharing parental responsibilities with Yash and also with the rest of the family.

In my opinion, I think we need to cut Aarti some slack. She has been in the Scindia house only for few hours. She has never really warmed up to anyone. Gayatri, today spoke to Aarti very sensibly but I doubt if Aarti can forget everything Papa and Mama Scindia put her and Shobha through the last few days with the name change and kanyadaan. It will take her time to feel comfortable around them. Vidhi and Pankaj has helped her feel that she can rely on them to a certain extent but it is very obvious that Gayatri has the final say. In fact taking into account all the instances where the senior Scindia's have dealt with Aarti, I think Aarti has been very very gracious.

When you say Aarti needs to adjust to being a wife and a DIL, I completely agree but then again it has only been few hours and I think it is very difficult to give up responsibility of Ansh to others and start behaving like a dutiful wife and DIL. But she will get there soon. That is her strength.

Also, if she has to accept that she in now more than just a mother to Ansh so does the Scindia family. Agreeing Ansh to enter the family is not enough. Yesterday, I was pretty annoyed at Yash when he suggested that he is tired of all the rasams and he wants to go to his room. Just like how Aarti has responsibilities towards Yash and his girls so does he towards Aarti and Ansh. After watching how Gayatri treated the soosoo incident and how Vidhi who wanted to help but whose help was vetoed by Gayatri, Yash too could be a little more pro-active in helping Aarti feel comfortable the first night at Scindia household especially with helping her out with Ansh's sleeping arrangement and all. So I think both Yash and Aarti are still very much in a world where their own worries are the most important and the following weeks will show us how they start thinking about their significant other and all three kids as a family. But all this could have been avoided if Yash and Aarti had spoken to state clearly why they are entering this marriage. I fault both for that but more Aarti than Yash.

Coming to Ansh, yes I totally agree, he is severely lacking in manners when he speaks to Gayatri and so is Payal the way she is with Aarti. I am hoping that they show ArYa together reprimanding the kids and drawing boundaries that they cannot cross.

Now coming to the SR scene, I absolutely loved the fall and the roll and the eye lock and the mangalsutra tangling and all no matter how cliched they were. I also don't mind Aarti's accusatory looks and Yash's confusion. I think they have a wonderful chemistry and it will only get better as the show progresses and both charcaters start realizing that they have feeling for each other. But then that is the romantic in me and you know that part of me pretty well, don't you. 😆

But I do agree, I want the show to move on. I want to see ArYa's day to day interaction between themselves, with the kids and with the rest of the family. Today, I am a very happy viewer with all the ArYa scenes showing how out of depths they are with each other yet they are unavoidably getting pulled towards each other both emotionally and physically. 😃

Originally posted by: evasumi

04/12/2012...

1.

Even she did not pay attention after Ansh was taken from her... Yash was waiting for her to extend her hand and she was looking at Ansh who was sleeping peacefully.. Man Yash was so irritated that he took her hand and opened the thread in a quick jerk.. and she started to give him that stupid look as if he is a characterless man.. oh please Aarti dear come out of your stupid Mentality clouded by your worthless stupid friend...

2.

The roll on the floor was neither hot nor humorous for me just stupid incident... so well if Aarti and Yash feels something out of that than it is great but please I do not want to see the same old accusing look from Aarti and frustration from Yash... Those things are being repeated so much that it is redundant now..

3.

CVs need to take the story further...

They have already established the misconception in Aarti's head repeatedly

They have already established that Ansh is a spoil brat and mannerless kid

They have already established Gayatri having prejudice for Aarti

They have already established that Aarti and Yash got a chance of a life time to get married again

They have already established the fact that Aarti and Yash just got married for their kids...

NOW PLEASE MOVE ON... You have the team of talented actors and crew use them to their fullest...