Thats why she got so angry when Jagya started about Anandi trying to trap him.
Anandi may not be doing this physically or deliberately.
Mentally she is close to him and Jagya also knows this though he wont admit it.
Two silent hearts separated by an evil force.
Notice that when Gauri says the same things Anandi does not show any temper.
One feels the hurt when one is hurt by the loved ones.