Indra's perspective

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think many fans me included are upset with Indra's behavior towards Rishi despite all he's doing for her. Am not justifying her behavior just explaining it as I see it from her point of view...

It's obvious that Indra has some emotional issues due to the incident where the father she idolized walked out on them; it has left an emotional scar in her. It has altered her personality and sucked the life out of her... Even Vidith was not there to feed her emotional needs...hence, she is the way she is; she lacks emotional intelligence...

So, when another person whom she opened up to hurts her that too in the form of rendering her brother in a wheelchair, as well as breaking her trust of him and hope of a real life free of family burden, she will naturally bounce back into her hard shell...going back to square one with her thoughts that she cannot trust any man...n vent out anger on that person...

Moreover, she's angry with herself for feeling something and going against her initial belief, so I think she's doing all this to prove otherwise to herself...

She does love him and that's another reason why she is this hurt...It is not simple especially for someone like her to easily forgive, and she right now is blinded by her anger. For her to forgive him this fast, she would need to go against her character...I believe she will see Rishi's love and all he has sacrificed for her, most importantly his self respect and realize his worth...

We have to wait n watch...

Please understand I'm not discussing right and wrong just my p.o.v

please no bashing anyone 😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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indira needs time--

waqt har zakham ko bhar deta hai.

insaan waqt ke saath har baat bhol jaata hai--bholana insaan keliye bhagwaan ka diya huwa wardaan hai.

indira is hurt--she lost faith --so now it is not easy for her at this moment forget everything -- that to so soon.

she is also going through emotional turmoil.

uski zindagi main bade bade hadase horahe hai.

so she is doing right as per her pov--

and rishi understands this--
so other day he said--main aap ke liye poori zindagi intazaar kar saktha hoon.

so both are right in there places--
and both are not forcing other to accept there pov immediately.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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both are rt in their place.
with time everythng will be fine.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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as i mentioned in another post the person whom we love most only has the power to hurt us most...so her naraazgi doesnt mean she doesnt love rishi...

also we as audience know that rishi has done all this for vidith bhaiya ...so we trust rishi..but indira doesnt know that...its only rishi who has just told her that ...that also without any proof and after the sad way the truth was revealed to her on her shaadi ka mandap...not only hitler ...any sane girl will not believe rishi so easily and forgive him...so i feel the way she reacts is fully justified ...after all rishi has lied to her so many times even if his intentions were good...she will certainly forgive rishi in the future when the proof is revealed by either rishi or by any circumtance what al rishi has done to repent...😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Syamanthra


It's obvious that Indra has some emotional issues due to the incident where the father she idolized walked out on them; it has left an emotional scar in her. It has altered her personality and sucked the life out of her... Even Vidith was not there to feed her emotional needs...hence, she is the way she is; she lacks emotional intelligence...

So, when another person whom she opened up to hurts her that too in the form of rendering her brother in a wheelchair, as well as breaking her trust of him and hope of a real life free of family burden, she will naturally bounce back into her hard shell...going back to square one with her thoughts that she cannot trust any man...n vent out anger on that person...

Moreover, she's angry with herself for feeling something and going against her initial belief, so I think she's doing all this to prove otherwise to herself...


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Good post Syamanthra👏


Indira has indeed retreated into her shell. I would say that she is trying her best to retreat into her old shelf but she can't. Rishi still manages to get to her. She can't take her eyes off of him, can't stop herself from seeking comfort of his arms.

I see it as "Indira" versus "Hitler Didi" struggle where Indira is "heart" whereas "hitler" is all "hurt" and "ego". Her Hitler personna is desperately trying to push Indira way back into the background, but Indira is refusing to stay put.

And Indira has been thru so much trauma in recent past. Calamities are raining on her one after the other with no breather in between

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jjkg




Good post Syamanthra👏


Indira has indeed retreated into her shell. I would say that she is trying her best to retreat into her old shelf but she can't. Rishi still manages to get to her. She can't take her eyes off of him, can't stop herself from seeking comfort of his arms.

I see it as "Indira" versus "Hitler Didi" struggle where Indira is "heart" whereas "hitler" is all "hurt" and "ego". Her Hitler personna is desperately trying to push Indira way back into the background, but Indira is refusing to stay put.

And Indira has been thru so much trauma in recent past. Calamities are raining on her one after the other with no breather in between

Thank you 😊
I agree with your every point, there is indeed a battle going on within her...
Yes, she is never given a chance to reflect on herself or past events...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ 100raj and LoveKriyansh,yes, u guys r right, they both are right from their own perspective...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaya123

as i mentioned in another post the person whom we love most only has the power to hurt us most...so her naraazgi doesnt mean she doesnt love rishi...

also we as audience know that rishi has done all this for vidith bhaiya ...so we trust rishi..but indira doesnt know that...its only rishi who has just told her that ...that also without any proof and after the sad way the truth was revealed to her on her shaadi ka mandap...not only hitler ...any sane girl will not believe rishi so easily and forgive him...so i feel the way she reacts is fully justified ...after all rishi has lied to her so many times even if his intentions were good...she will certainly forgive rishi in the future when the proof is revealed by either rishi or by any circumtance what al rishi has done to repent...😊

Yes, we tend to get hurt the most by d people we love n at a certain times its normal for an emotion to temporarily override another, in this matter anger over love or ...
and yes, Rishi's lies also contributes to her inability to trust him now...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nicely Drafted Post Syamanthra!!!

Kaya & jjkg has very well put their PoVs ... I think you & other members tried to explain both side of coin.

Keep It Up Guys!!!👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post... I completely agree with you.

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