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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good Post Syamanthra. You described Indira's POV really well and I agree with you completely. When you are hurt this much by someone you used to idiolize, it scars you emotionally for a ver long time. Its hard to trust sumone again and when that person has also hidden things from you, you dont know how to react and go back into your defenses to protect yourself.
Her family, the ones who should have always supported her, betray again and again so how can she trust a stranger who in her POV betrayed as well just because she apparently says so. He doesnt have any proof.
Both are right in their own places and I also think that the writers are sticking with her character.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sanam-

Lovely post. And good assessment of Indira's perspective 😊

I have to be honest, there are times when I become a bit frustrated with Indu's behaviour towards Rishi. But there's a reason for the way she is and it's had an impact on how she deals with emotions.


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Rishi has redeemed himself and made amends for his mistake. Indu sees everything and she knows that he's doing alot for her and her family. But she needs to come face to face with her inner turmoil. Indu needs to go through a process of understanding her feelings for Rishi and then appreciating him as an individual.

There will come a time where she will realize that he's her soulmate and once that realization happens, only then can she respect and admire him the way he does.Indu needs clarity in her mind before she can listen to her heart.



aptly put, Sanam👏

I am also of the opinion that Indira has really not fully accepted her love for Rishi. When she does that, then and only then will she truly appreciate Rishi and accept him warts and all.

Perhaps appreciation for Rishi feeds her acceptance of love, and each feeds of the other till both acceptance and appreciation become two pillars that define Rishi for her.

I am awaiting the day when she feels as desperate for him as he is for her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sanam-

Lovely post. And good assessment of Indira's perspective 😊

I have to be honest, there are times when I become a bit frustrated with Indu's behaviour towards Rishi. But there's a reason for the way she is and it's had an impact on how she deals with emotions.

Inder Sharma and how he ditched her and the rest of the family has been the major cause of negativity in her life. From the flashbacks we can see that she was close to her papa. But he broke her trust and it's resulted in her losing faith in relationships.

Vidith not being around also made things difficult for her. But she has always looked up to him and has considered Vidith her last hope. So yeh when the man you fall in love with turns out to be the one responsible for your brother's condition, it's never going to be easy to come to terms with that.

Although we are seeing a softer side with Indu when she comforts Mandira, most of the time we've seen Indu struggle with her emotions and finds it hard to connect with others. Conveying her emotions is not her strength. And yeh she does love Rishi, which is precisely why she feels pain.

Rishi has redeemed himself and made amends for his mistake. Indu sees everything and she knows that he's doing alot for her and her family. But she needs to come face to face with her inner turmoil. Indu needs to go through a process of understanding her feelings for Rishi and then appreciating him as an individual.

There will come a time where she will realize that he's her soulmate and once that realization happens, only then can she respect and admire him the way he does.Indu needs clarity in her mind before she can listen to her heart.



Lovely post Sanam. The points in bold lessened my anger towards indira which i felt after watching yesterdays episode 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Superb post syama.. I hope it would help many people to lessen their anger and clear their MU about indira..

Its realy difficult to trust someone when you are completely broken.. Coz if this time it does than u'l be shattered completely..
Thats what is happening with indira.. Shez realy struggling with her feelings towards rishi.. It will take time for all her emotions to get crystal clear..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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awsome post syama and very nice comments by other too 👍🏼

well time will heal all the pain and then indira will realise her love for rishi and then she vl forgive him
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sanam-

Lovely post. And good assessment of Indira's perspective 😊

I have to be honest, there are times when I become a bit frustrated with Indu's behaviour towards Rishi. But there's a reason for the way she is and it's had an impact on how she deals with emotions.

Inder Sharma and how he ditched her and the rest of the family has been the major cause of negativity in her life. From the flashbacks we can see that she was close to her papa. But he broke her trust and it's resulted in her losing faith in relationships.

Vidith not being around also made things difficult for her. But she has always looked up to him and has considered Vidith her last hope. So yeh when the man you fall in love with turns out to be the one responsible for your brother's condition, it's never going to be easy to come to terms with that.Yes, this will be difficult for anyone to digest
Although we are seeing a softer side with Indu when she comforts Mandira, most of the time we've seen Indu struggle with her emotions and finds it hard to connect with others. Conveying her emotions is not her strength. And yeh she does love Rishi, which is precisely why she feels pain.
Rishi has redeemed himself and made amends for his mistake. Indu sees everything and she knows that he's doing alot for her and her family. But she needs to come face to face with her inner turmoil. Indu needs to go through a process of understanding her feelings for Rishi and then appreciating him as an individual. Yes, she needs to tame the turbulence within and come to terms with herself only then she can accept Rishi
There will come a time where she will realize that he's her soulmate and once that realization happens, only then can she respect and admire him the way he does.Indu needs clarity in her mind before she can listen to her heart.

Thank you Sanam, am sure your post would have help many understand Indra better 😊
Edited by Syamanthra - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: loveinshi

Superb post syama.. I hope it would help many people to lessen their anger and clear their MU about indira..

Its realy difficult to trust someone when you are completely broken.. Coz if this time it does than u'l be shattered completely..
Thats what is happening with indira.. Shez realy struggling with her feelings towards rishi.. It will take time for all her emotions to get crystal clear..

Ty 😊
Yea, she needs to heal within first and she is indeed trying to protect herself from futher hurt. For her its self preservation
Edited by Syamanthra - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -shalz-

awsome post syama and very nice comments by other too 👍🏼


well time will heal all the pain and then indira will realise her love for rishi and then she vl forgive him

ty Shal, 😊
Yes other members have contributed valid points too...
Time will surely heal, unfortunately its luxury for her...
she never had space n time to review her emotions...
she's constantly bombarded with problems...

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