Mansi - Aarti's friend ? - rangmunch tv article

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Saturday, 17 March 2012 11:31

Mansi of Punarvivaah – Better foe than a friend?

In the world of soaps, it is not a rare occurrence to come across a character that totally confounds us in a queasy sort of a way. Whenever the said character appears on screen, we are hard -pressed not to throw up with anger and annoyance building inside us. Mansi is one such character in the recently released show, Punar Vivaah, on Zee TV.

Before I proceed, a short recap of the show for non-punarvivaah viewers: Aarti the protagonist of the show is a divorcee and a single mother of a four-year-old son,Ansh. She lives with her in-laws who treat her more like their daughter and are now in the process of getting her married to Yash, a widower with two little daughters. Aarti, still pines for her ex-husband, but agrees to marry Yash solely for her son. Mansi is Aarti's best friend who is constantly by her side and plays an important role (to our dismay) in her life to the extent of shaping her perceptions regarding Yash.

And here lies the problem. At every single step, Mansi is the only voice Aarti gets to hear besides her well-wisher – her mother-in-law, Shobha. Unfortunately, Mansi is projected as a character that is shallow and insensitive. She mostly comes across as a delusional nymphomaniac who is constantly misguiding her friend. She repeatedly projects her disillusioned view of love and relationships on to her friend. Her twisted view of a woman's sole purpose in a man's life raises a red flag in Aarti's mind about her expected role as Yash's wife. Mansi further succeeds, though unintentionally, in creating a wrong image of Yash in Aarti's mind.

The shadows under Aarti's eyes, her pursed lips, furrowed brows, anguish in her voice, tension in her body, and even the shudder that runs through her every time anyone talks about her impending marriage to Yash is evident to a naked eye. Yet, here is her supposed best friend who cannot even see what's right in front of her let alone have the sensitivity to gauge her friend's plight and her internal battle to accept the inevitable. A friend's insensitivity especially in a situation Aarti is in is inacceptable to me as a viewer.

This restlessness when I see Mansi has pushed me to question Aarti's judgment regarding her choice of friends. It even makes me wonder about the complete disconnect between them. How can a person be so unaware of a friend's emotional battle or be insensitive towards a friend's feelings? I wish Mansi would for a minute snap out of her own pigeonhole of a delusional world and stand as a true support for her friend.

Mansi's characterization raises a few questions in my head for the creative team ofPunar Vivaah. Her presence and her annoying views are certainly pushing the pre-marital track in a certain pre-planned way. Was her character deliberately planted there to be obnoxious enough to achieve a certain purpose or is there more to it? If there is, you are off the hook hoping you will bring out a different side of mansi as a friend in the near future. But if not, as a viewer, I wish you treat us better than to thrust a character such as Mansi at us just for the heck of it.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Seriously, I hope Maansi serves some purpose in this show...her first scene was amazing and I loved her character but now she is getting on my nerves...CVs better give her a good role or else please say tata bye bye to her at the earliest...
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well written article👏
especially,
If there is, you are off the hook hoping you will bring out a different side of mansi as a friend in the near future. But if not, as a viewer, I wish you treat us better than to thrust a character such as Mansi at us just for the heck of it...
Great work!!
I hope Mansi gets lost😆
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I do think that as irritating as Mansi is (I literally cringe every time I hear her voice now!) she has served at least one or two purposes well. Besides the two scenes where we saw that Mansi may actually have a heart with a tiny bit of concern for her friend, I have a general dislike for this character but I can't deny that she has been a rather useful character...
1) To illustrate the contrast between Aarti and Mansi: right from episode 1, we got to see how Aarti has values, sensibilities, and thought processes that counterbalance Mansi's. Their personalities are diametrically opposite, and while it made me admire Aarti for being a sweet, grounded, strong woman despite all her pain, my irritation with Mansi started at the first mention of her theories and just kept growing. If anything, introducing Mansi in such a way, with all her besharam qualities, has elevated Aarti a lot in my eyes, and I had already loved Aarti's personality a LOT before Mansi started beating us over the head with her fundas.
2) To sprinkle that discomfort and prejudice about Yash in Aarti's mind: I can see what the intention is, and I like the concept of this, however unbearable it may be to actually watch. Aarti is already broken from her first failed marriage, through no fault of her own. Those resounding comments from our (not-so) favorite Vimla ji about Aarti's inability to hold onto her husband fall in the same sort of category as Mansi's comments about marriage. For someone like Aarti, who has lost faith in the institution of marriage due to her bitter memories, this is just adding another insecurity to the pile as far as Aarti is concerned...And we've seen this physicality issue come up even before Yash's proposal, with that awful Raghudayal's behavior. After something as horrible as that experience, it's only natural that Aarti's sensitivity would be heightened and that she would jump to conclusions. Since she's not willing to talk to Yash about this due to the fact that there's no emotional attachment to him, and since Yash's silence isn't helping matters, they're stuck in a stalemate until the marriage, probably. It also doesn't help that the one time they were going to actually speak, fate intervened and they were robbed of their ability to speak as they looked at each other...Something deeper and more significant connected them then, and they just couldn't say what they had wanted to say. Now, I suppose Aarti's misguided prejudice is going to be shattered through observations and interactions with Yash, and that's something that I'm already enjoying.
I'm genuinely looking forward to the day when Aarti strongly puts Mansi in her place and tells her what Yash is really like. It's already great to see how even Aarti is getting irritated with Mansi's constant stuck-record statements - all it takes is a few terse words in a clipped voice and a brief yet exasperated gaze on Kratika's part to convey that annoyance in Aarti's demeanor, and I love it!
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now aarti is getting married to yash so mansi should stop telling aarti her faltu knowledge or negativity about men specially about yash..😡
mansi should have sense that after aarti's marriage she should not visit aarti frequently..😕
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Thanks for sharing!

This article is basically a summation of what everyone here has been complaining and ranting about for the last 2 weeks ever since Maansi's character has started going down the drain to the point where we have to literally cringe every time she opens her mouth because we have no idea what nonsense she'll be coming up with next!

Borna has basically summed up all my thoughts on the Maansi front, so there isn't much left to say except for the fact the one thing Maansi is definitely going to accomplish is that after completely degrading Yash in Aarti's eyes, it is going to her same words that are going to elevate him and make her respect him even more. As Yash one by one proves all of Maansi's theories on men to be completely inaccurate, he is going to slowly be breaking down all the walls Aarti has build up around her heart. Maansi has set up the ground for all these misunderstandings, and when you enter a relationship having such a low opinion of someone, every good thing that person does seem much bigger than it actually is. Had Aarti been indifferent to Yash and had none of these misconceptions been drilled in her head, she wouldn't find his kindness or gentlemanly behavior as significant as she will now, he is going to be taking her by surprise at every turn and it's those shocks that will completely alter Aarti's perception of Yash, and it will happen much faster. So I think despite the fact that she makes me want to close my eyes and ears every time she comes on screen, Maansi will be the biggest catalyst in Aarti's acceptance of Yash, and she will find herself being drawn to him despite all her efforts to keep her distance! Right now she thinks she has him all figured out, but once his actions starts surprising her, the mystery and intrigue around him will increase, and it is only natural to be drawn to things we can't understand!

@I'm genuinely looking forward to the day when Aarti strongly puts Mansi in her place and tells her what Yash is really like. It's already great to see how even Aarti is getting irritated with Mansi's constant stuck-record statements - all it takes is a few terse words in a clipped voice and a brief yet exasperated gaze on Kratika's part to convey that annoyance in Aarti's demeanor, and I love it!

This is something I am dying to watch as well! I think the first time Aarti will end up really defending Yash and his character will be in front of Maansi and seeing her put Maansi in her place will something definitely worth watching!

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