Guys dont hate me but I am getting so sick of Sand

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am really fit up with the way Sandy treats or how she is with Surj. He is being such a caring loving, husband to her. He has saved and has sided with her in each and every step and he has defended her in everything possible. Yet she is so stone cold heart person.

Come on Any other girl would have melted a long time back seeing of how he cares for her. Okay he is not educated like her, fine i get that but education is not everything, money is not everything. He is loyal, caring, loving, sweet handsome joyful peaceful person and which women would not want that as characters in a husband.

She needs to get over this whole thing and get over it quick. She has only two choice.

1. if your going to stay with your husband and you do not want your family name to be ruined and you do not want to get a divorce then i think she needs to start to give her husband and her relationship with him a chance and start to be a wife to him.

2. if she does not want this relationship and only wants to stay for the sack of keeping the family or her family name then i think she needs to pack her bags and leave him.

She has been with him long enough to know what her husband likes to eat, drink. what are his favoire foods and which are his clothing and all. He know and remembers each and everything of hers but yet she acts so stupid and dumb for never remembering anything important about him. A husband and wife is not just about physical intimacy its about knowing each other so well that you can read each others thoughts. you know what he loves and he know what you love. You remember the little details about each other and your there for each other in each every step of your life.

Sandy is in my opinion not a very good wife. She is educated but what is education good for when you cannot see in front of your face your husbands needs and wants. She cannot cook, clean, she doesnt smile, talk or anything.

I am just tired of watching her sulking face all the time. If i was in her shoes and my husband went out of his way and hut himself to get me to attend and get my college award i would have run out of that college and ran right up into his arms and hugged him and told him that I love him and and so greatful for having someone like him in my life.

WHat does she do ummm nothing.

Why did she stay back in the family, why is it so important for her to remain the bahu of his family, why remain the wife of his man who she has no relations with. He sees her as his wife, she on the other hand does not see him as her husband.


At the end... can someone please tell her to stop sulking all the time she doe snot look nice when she does that to smile. In the holi festvial everyone else is having a fun time and enjoying each other but she is the only one standing in the middle like a swore thumb, confused look on her face. It was as if someone had a gun on her head and told her to apply color and have fun. No smile at all to expression of fun and joyful and happiness at all.
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sitakshii thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
#2
most of us feel the same
feeling extremely sad and terrible for suraj who is such a wondeful human being
what sandhya think of herself ..she has the right to hurt her hubby every time ...he is the only one on this Earth who loves her from his soul...

SANDHYA plz leave SURAJ and and go away with your brother ...
dont spoil Surajs life ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with you both. The awkward moments and faces sand is doing are getting really boring.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#4
What if it was only someone's nightmare??

Either Sooraj, Sandhya or Babho's??

Or may be: Sandhya is overwhelmed by all the family's negativity...

Remember, they are meant to be together. May be Preety, the friend will come up with a suggestion...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Basically you've put down my exact thoughts. Sandhya is seriously getting on my nerves lately. Esp the whole Holi thing.. if she's so smart and independent, how come she can't even enjoy Holi on her own? Just stood there like a dumbo. Given how much Suraj takes care of her, he definitely deserves WAY better than Sandhya.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I really don't understand why she's still hanging by a thread in that house.
She doesn't care for Sooraj..
Is she staying there just to get the torture from Bhabo..?
I felt so bad for Sooraj..
I mean, that guy remembered about her Prize function, got his hand cut on purpose so that she could receive her prize on time.
And I think she forcefully made Sooraj to wear helmet just for the rules and not for his safety.
I'm just so irritated with the ending of today's episode that I'm beginning to think badly of Sandhya now.
And her expressions are to die for ...😡


Don't get me wrong, I like Deepika, but I just dislike Sandhya's charecter sketch, when she's with Sooraj. Other scenes with other members are all perfect.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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you are not alone in this ship. many are riding the ship of this feeling along with you. you have pretty much summed up all the feelings of mine and everyone. good post.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It's sad but I'm starting to agree with Bhabo that maybe Sandy really is the wrong spouse for Suraj.

Also, the CVs really need to work on her range of facial expressions. I know she won't be joyous as she is in danger of being kicked out of the house soon, but surely at Holi she would allow herself to have a little fun.

She is stifling her husband with her rules and her sour demeanor.

Please CVs, make her character a bit affectionate with this poor guy. He's enduring so much and receiving nothing in return.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent post...đŸ‘đŸŒ

You voiced what many of us are feeling about Sandhya after today's episode. Poor Suraj...đŸ„ș
Suraj is such a sweetheart...and this girl doesn't even let him touch her shadow...now that is going to a twisted extreme...đŸ€Ș
Just why is she in this marriage?...Because she needs a roof over her head?...Or wants to use Suraj to fulfill her dream of becoming and IPS officer first?...Shame on you Sandhya, for not recognizing what is truly important in your life. 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I won't hate you at all because I absolutely agree...there's me thinking maybe she'd see how much Suraj loves her when Bhabo embarassed her but no...she doesn't care at all. Proved it today.

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