Originally posted by: pretty54
I am really fit up with the way Sandy treats or how she is with Surj. He is being such a caring loving, husband to her. He has saved and has sided with her in each and every step and he has defended her in everything possible. Yet she is so stone cold heart person.
Come on Any other girl would have melted a long time back seeing of how he cares for her. Okay he is not educated like her, fine i get that but education is not everything, money is not everything. He is loyal, caring, loving, sweet handsome joyful peaceful person and which women would not want that as characters in a husband.
She needs to get over this whole thing and get over it quick. She has only two choice.
1. if your going to stay with your husband and you do not want your family name to be ruined and you do not want to get a divorce then i think she needs to start to give her husband and her relationship with him a chance and start to be a wife to him.
2. if she does not want this relationship and only wants to stay for the sack of keeping the family or her family name then i think she needs to pack her bags and leave him.
She has been with him long enough to know what her husband likes to eat, drink. what are his favoire foods and which are his clothing and all. He know and remembers each and everything of hers but yet she acts so stupid and dumb for never remembering anything important about him. A husband and wife is not just about physical intimacy its about knowing each other so well that you can read each others thoughts. you know what he loves and he know what you love. You remember the little details about each other and your there for each other in each every step of your life.
Sandy is in my opinion not a very good wife. She is educated but what is education good for when you cannot see in front of your face your husbands needs and wants. She cannot cook, clean, she doesnt smile, talk or anything.
I am just tired of watching her sulking face all the time. If i was in her shoes and my husband went out of his way and hut himself to get me to attend and get my college award i would have run out of that college and ran right up into his arms and hugged him and told him that I love him and and so greatful for having someone like him in my life.
WHat does she do ummm nothing.
Why did she stay back in the family, why is it so important for her to remain the bahu of his family, why remain the wife of his man who she has no relations with. He sees her as his wife, she on the other hand does not see him as her husband.
At the end... can someone please tell her to stop sulking all the time she doe snot look nice when she does that to smile. In the holi festvial everyone else is having a fun time and enjoying each other but she is the only one standing in the middle like a swore thumb, confused look on her face. It was as if someone had a gun on her head and told her to apply color and have fun. No smile at all to expression of fun and joyful and happiness at all.
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