Today was M.Y.O.B day for Aditya

Originally posted by: FIZK6

Hope ... what Devyani meant was, from her experience Brahma only wanted her physically and never bothered to find out what she wanted or felt. It just came out wrong. Aditya is different, but to him he thinks getting intimate will solve their problems, that is not the case.

Aditya is not like Brahma, all those things you mentioned prove it.
Priya said he sees her and not her feelings. Aditya expresses his love differently. He's never forced himself on her, infact hes even backed off till she was ready. But now he thinks if they get close everything will be hunky dory.
Devyani also mentioned the same, he needs to understand Priya has been through alot, physically, mentally and emotionally.

Devyani telling him hes like Brahma could be the turning point to make him think if he is like is dad. He definitely does not want to be like him and will do everything to make sure he doesnt become like his dad.

Fizi

she was wrong. what she meant and what she said were two different things

aditya is not and never will be brahma

when he makes loves to priya he does so to demonstrate his love and caring. If priya does not understand this then it is her shortcomign as his partner. she needs to deal with her own shortcomings.

all those situations with eyelocks he did not engineer. he is keepign his distance. he cannot be blamed for being attracted to his wife and I am sorry but the friends things after marriage is very corny. anyone who has been married and is in a healthy relationship knows that reverse engineering strictly friendship only into a marital relationship is very chick flick movie not real life. I thought that this show was supposed to show mature relationships.

not everyone wants to have a platonic relationship with their wives and women hate feeling undesirable to their men. believe me if he ignores her completely she will be doign abother rendition of touch me touch me touch me. she wants her cake and she wants to eat it too and I am not feminist enough to think that is fair.

when brahma made love to his wife he was lookign for a suzie doll replacement

he did not care about her before, after or during the love making

if devyani cannot see the difference between her husband and her son then it is her failure as a mother

she is a woman who has goen to emotional trauma in her own marriage she is the LAST person credibel to give advice on aditya and priya

brahma and she had different relationship issues and aditya and priya have different issues

she cannot blame aditya for brhama's problems

her analysis, her solutions and her statements are wrong, hurtful and below the belt. honestly, I was really ashamed of her today as a mom.

she needs to butt out. If she wants Adit to respect Priya's space then stop being and idiot and throwing him into Priya's space with offers of tea that even Imli could have delivered

Sevyani needs serious mental counselling so that she herself is stablized.

I always disliked this woman then I started sympathizing with her but today was just wicked


I know mine is an unpopular opinion but it is how I feel
As for Priya

her issues and the way she communicates them makes no sense to me but as logn as she and Aditya figure it out themselves more power to them

I agree Hope..Devyani should mind her own business

Originally posted by: --PiaSenGupta--

I agree Hope..Devyani should mind her own business

She ruined Vidya's life ..

When Uttara does not want the child she forced her to keep the child ,,Now this

Devyani we are tired of ur Deviness ...Spare us

Pia

you know when Priya said to Aditya you see but you don't understand I wanted to say right back at you sis

Devyani is a horrid mother

she has formed her own little joy luck club with three women who are running away from something or have their own agenda

I can understand that Aditya wronged Priya and now he is has to either fix it or walk away. his choice but to be his mom and be against him when he needs you the most is unforgivable

how dare she tell him he is his dad. what a pathetic excuse for a mom.

who saved priya when she wanted to commit suicide

who went looking for her rapist

who fell for her manipulations when she wanted uttara to remarry as a bandaid solution to brahma's infedelities

who moved heaven and earth to make sure she was safe while mommy was hunting for alimony

who stayed by her bedside when she was shot by a villian she opposed on her own initiative

Originally posted by: FIZK6

Maybe nothing more needs to be said by Devyani to Aditya or Priya. After what she said to Aditya hopefully he will talk to Priya and ask her if she thinks the same.

I wouldnt exactly say she was interfering. She is Adityas mother and as a mother it is her right to make him see right from wrong. She cant just standby and watch Aditya Priya not solve anything between them. Sometimes a third person is needed as a mediator and she does know them both very well.

she was not being aditya's mother she was being priya's mother and advocate

her statement was uncalled for.

aditya was never, is not and can never be Brahma

this awful statement should never be part of any discussion re Adtiya and Priya's problems

Aditya does not need anuoen to tell him stupid baseless statements and get him to waste his time self reflecting on crappy debate topics

Originally posted by: FIZK6

Hope ... yes Aditya has been there for Priya, but he also hasnt when she needed HIM the most.

He cares for her, he loves her alot but there is lack of communication between them.

Yes Priya should have stayed back and talked to him, when she went with the tea. But i guess the CVs have planned that for another day and i hope its soon.

What i found embarassing as well as Aditya was when Devyani told him how he has touched Priyas body many times and but has not touched her inner self ☺️ 😆

Maryada surely lives up to its name of being a bold show.

once Fizi

once he was wrong

he had his own conflicted mind to deal with

yes he was wrong

if a balancing act needs to be done then all his rights should be measured against his wrongs and a net wrong or right be taken like balance sheets

harping on about one wrong with no clear repentance solutions in mind is crappy

she was not talking about Priya she was talkign about herself

that is what angered me

brahma raped her everytime they had sex

Aditya never raped priya

when he saw priya cry or whatever he backed off each time

she was a willing participant everytime they had sex

there is no comparison and making it where it does not exist is a cheap red herring

priya should never have been sent with the tea

that was wrong

both need time to disengage

why does priya care NOW where he was all night

why did she not care when she was having fun at the breakfast table

it is this eat my cake and have it too which bothers me but then again Aditya seems like he wants something more inspite of the odds so either he does what she wants (notice how it is not what the marriage needs or they both need but what she wants and his mother wants) or he just drop it and walk away

find another soulmate

unfortunately we know he cannot do that so there

if I see Aditya become emasculated or trying to be unreasonably complacent or compromising it will be a turn off