friendship wont work
let me explain why
friendship is like being in preschool and marriage is like being in university
a university student cannot go back to preschool - it is boring and will result in the student rejecting the system
any learning experience for a university student will have to be at the university environment - BA to MA to phd
the only person i can see acting as a reasonable counsellor in this situation is shubhankar
both parties respect him, he is not suffering from post marital stress and he has no hidden agenda to distract his efforts
the first step is that priya has to decide if she REALLY wants to reconcile
if no then be positively clear and all bets are off. no mixed signals
if yes, then she NEEDS to give another chance to Aditya. it is the only way. she cannot ask him to keep his distance, that is not a step in the right direction
she has to consider another chance. she has to gamble
that is what life and marriage is ALL about. the DAILY gamble
one cannot play a high stakes game by investing in fixed deposits. the logic is faulty
fixed deposits and such are for retirees not young people looking to plan for their retirement
friendship before loving works for shubhankar because he has everything to win and nothing to lose
for aditya he has as much to lose as he has to win and besides he is already deep into the relationship system, his past positive contributions will be worthless if he has to go back to step on
Edited by --Hope-- - 13 years ago