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Posted: 13 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: --Hope--



understand what fizi
Understand that getting physically close to her is not the solution to their problems.

cvs need to explain that

her compliant seems to be the old incident nothing new since then The above

when I as the average woman don't understand how can he as a man

men dont work on the emotional plane like us they work on the physcial plane this is reality

if we want them to travel to our plane we need to show them the way, the ladder, teh destination

remember men and directions their default programming does not allow them to ask fora map which is why they have to use the trial and error way

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Posted: 13 years ago
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friendship wont work

let me explain why

friendship is like being in preschool and marriage is like being in university

a university student cannot go back to preschool - it is boring and will result in the student rejecting the system

any learning experience for a university student will have to be at the university environment - BA to MA to phd


the only person i can see acting as a reasonable counsellor in this situation is shubhankar

both parties respect him, he is not suffering from post marital stress and he has no hidden agenda to distract his efforts

the first step is that priya has to decide if she REALLY wants to reconcile

if no then be positively clear and all bets are off. no mixed signals

if yes, then she NEEDS to give another chance to Aditya. it is the only way. she cannot ask him to keep his distance, that is not a step in the right direction

she has to consider another chance. she has to gamble

that is what life and marriage is ALL about. the DAILY gamble

one cannot play a high stakes game by investing in fixed deposits. the logic is faulty

fixed deposits and such are for retirees not young people looking to plan for their retirement


friendship before loving works for shubhankar because he has everything to win and nothing to lose

for aditya he has as much to lose as he has to win and besides he is already deep into the relationship system, his past positive contributions will be worthless if he has to go back to step on
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Posted: 13 years ago
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the first step is that priya has to decide if she REALLY wants to reconcile

if no then be positively clear and all bets are off. no mixed signals

if yes, then she NEEDS to give another chance to Aditya. it is the only way. she cannot ask him to keep his distance, that is not a step in the right direction

she has to consider another chance. she has to gamble

that is what life and marriage is ALL about. the DAILY gamble


from Hope

I think Aditya may immerse fully in his political work and be away as Shubhankar is there to take care of all of them.😉

Lucky Shubhankar.😉


Edited by rightnow - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: --Hope--




Fizi

she was wrong. what she meant and what she said were two different things

aditya is not and never will be brahma

when he makes loves to priya he does so to demonstrate his love and caring. If priya does not understand this then it is her shortcomign as his partner. she needs to deal with her own shortcomings.

all those situations with eyelocks he did not engineer. he is keepign his distance. he cannot be blamed for being attracted to his wife and I am sorry but the friends things after marriage is very corny. anyone who has been married and is in a healthy relationship knows that reverse engineering strictly friendship only into a marital relationship is very chick flick movie not real life. I thought that this show was supposed to show mature relationships.

not everyone wants to have a platonic relationship with their wives and women hate feeling undesirable to their men. believe me if he ignores her completely she will be doign abother rendition of touch me touch me touch me. she wants her cake and she wants to eat it too and I am not feminist enough to think that is fair.

when brahma made love to his wife he was lookign for a suzie doll replacement

he did not care about her before, after or during the love making

if devyani cannot see the difference between her husband and her son then it is her failure as a mother

she is a woman who has goen to emotional trauma in her own marriage she is the LAST person credibel to give advice on aditya and priya

brahma and she had different relationship issues and aditya and priya have different issues

she cannot blame aditya for brhama's problems

her analysis, her solutions and her statements are wrong, hurtful and below the belt. honestly, I was really ashamed of her today as a mom.

she needs to butt out. If she wants Adit to respect Priya's space then stop being and idiot and throwing him into Priya's space with offers of tea that even Imli could have delivered

Sevyani needs serious mental counselling so that she herself is stablized.

I always disliked this woman then I started sympathizing with her but today was just wicked


I know mine is an unpopular opinion but it is how I feel
As for Priya

her issues and the way she communicates them makes no sense to me but as logn as she and Aditya figure it out themselves more power to them



Aditya is not like bramha,
bramha was a treat to watch but aditya ko jhelna padta hai. . .
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Posted: 13 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: maryadalover



Aditya is not like bramha,
bramha was a treat to watch but aditya ko jhelna padta hai. . .





Brahma was a treat to watch??Do you have a Maryada that is being beamed only to your TV set?
Are you not reading all the eminently sensible well argued posts on this thread? Or you are deadpanning immaculately & I'm insane not to recognize the obvious?! BAH!
Edited by znursingh - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Some months back there was an episode
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Is it just me or did others too want to throw a remote or some equally stong object at the tv when devyani was giving another bhashan today?

the woman just does not get it

absolutely not

it is very irritating to watch now

and priya

I don't know about this girl yaar

is it me or does she seem over the top with the grievances

she blames adi's ego but people with egos do not broach conversations they shy away from them

since the seperation who has been broaching conversations and who has been adopting the defeatist attitude and shying away from them?

I feel like today is the day when I tell myself "Get Out while You are Ahead Hope". the pandering has already started, what next? this all seems very one sided

yesterday it was passion, then it was her past, then it was her mission, today it is ego, tomorrow it will be his nose hair, then it will be the way he closes the toilet lid, then it will be the way he gets out of bed or off any pieces of furniture or the books he reads or the show he watches or his choice of career or his political affiliations or his views on abortion

is there an end. it has always been something or the other

why do they always show the female leads of the shows as high maintenace, perpetual saga queens and never satisfied until everthing they encounter in life is transformed by their association or presence

there are so many many strong, independent, reasonable Indian woman out there whoa re seekign to be equal to men not to dominate them in their relationships - why oh why does not a single Indian show focus on one such woman as a character model?

Star Plus we all know the dhukda of these women did you have to waste an entire first half in recalling old issues that have now ended or been resolved?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: znursingh





Brahma was a treat to watch??Do you have a Maryada that is being beamed only to your TV set?
Are you not reading all the eminently sensible well argued posts on this thread? Or you are deadpanning immaculately & I'm insane not to recognize the obvious?! BAH!



Hi there:

@ bold - Thank you
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Posted: 13 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: maryadalover


Aditya is not like bramha,
bramha was a treat to watch but aditya ko jhelna padta hai. . .



My sympathies😃

I think you mean Viswajeet is a treat to watch on screen but RaQesh is not

each to his own
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Posted: 13 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: --Hope--

Is it just me or did others too want to throw a remote or some equally stong object at the tv when devyani was giving another bhashan today?
Havent watched it on TV yet so dont know 😆
Seriously now, this is where our views differ. I didnt think of it as a bashan, but a mother telling her son right from wrong. She wants whats best for her son. And if a mother doesnt point out his mistakes, then who will?.

the woman just does not get it

absolutely not

it is very irritating to watch now
But it seems to have done the trick.
and priya

I don't know about this girl yaar
Even i felt she was going a bit far by not talking to him, but looks like the CVs have left it for tomorrow, fingers crossed.
is it me or does she seem over the top with the grievances

she blames adi's ego but people with egos do not broach conversations they shy away from them

since the seperation who has been broaching conversations and who has been adopting the defeatist attitude and shying away from them?

I feel like today is the day when I tell myself "Get Out while You are Ahead Hope". the pandering has already started, what next? this all seems very one sided

yesterday it was passion, then it was her past, then it was her mission, today it is ego, tomorrow it will be his nose hair, then it will be the way he closes the toilet lid, then it will be the way he gets out of bed or off any pieces of furniture or the books he reads or the show he watches or his choice of career or his political affiliations or his views on abortion
I dont think it will go that far 😆
is there an end. it has always been something or the other

why do they always show the female leads of the shows as high maintenace, perpetual saga queens and never satisfied until everthing they encounter in life is transformed by their association or presence

there are so many many strong, independent, reasonable Indian woman out there whoa re seekign to be equal to men not to dominate them in their relationships - why oh why does not a single Indian show focus on one such woman as a character model?

Star Plus we all know the dhukda of these women did you have to waste an entire first half in recalling old issues that have now ended or been resolved?




It made Aditya realise that he probably did not understand Priya and now he is going to do something about it. I dont think it will come to a point where Aditya gives in all the time. Priya will meet him half way and anyway she has always pampered him, even now, so its a habit of hers and hard to give up. Well, just hope the CVs do it the right way and dont let us down.

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