You are so right. I am older that my husband's bhabbi , by 18 days ... I do not feel like rashi.Cool OP.
I have nfi where Rashi gets the idea that she is entitled to do anything first.The wife of the eldest male is always accorded his status. Irrespective of her age. Everyone else falls in line thereafter.
In any event MM is not her pihaar. She left that when she got married. Time to get used to it!It's a pity her mil is failing to show her the light though...