if Rashi n urmilla succeed

Rashi fans don't read as this is not for you.

If Rashi n urmilla succeeds in causing a separation, will it be separation of business, house etc or will it be pujas, meal times but still be in the same house.

I can see Rashi sleeping in family waiting to get meals whilst gopi cooking but cannot serve hetal, jigar n chirag. will they realise how they have been decieved, will it be jevade jigar ke papa or jigar this time round.

on the other hand gopi will be cooking but feeling bad for her kaki kaka n devar ji she will make extra for them but kokila will say no, will baa eat some days with the kokila n family n other days with hetal n family.
the kalakaris that rashi may do is pretend to do all the cooking then sneak in n change the dishware saying she cooked like she did the dokla but it was really gopi who cooked n rashi took it, leaving kokila to have a go at gopi who knows she is innocent n does not know how to prove it, n when rashi says to her that she is saving her marriage blackmailing gopi again

Wow so many possibilities, if the family agree to live in the same house but not eat together, that won't be what Rashi is aiming for, she wants to have equal rights to perform puja's and also be given the same respect as Gopi, that can happen if the families just sit down and think through it properly, as Rashi is not willing to accept Gopi is her Jethani, her excuse is that Gopi is her younger sister, and for so long Rashi was given the respect at her pihar and now that she is married it's the other way...so perhaps the family will consider her request and they will change how their do things in the future, so that's Rashi winning a small victory.

Agree with Nafisa that having to live separately is not what Rashi is aiming for. It is about equal rights and going a bit further, the Modi Bhavan keys..

We have seen in the generation of Kokila and Hetal that the keys are with Kokila but the first honors go to Hetal and Chirag, them being the elder of the two couples.
So I am not sure, even if they do sit and talk, what will come out of the discussion. Also, most rituals in India usually are actually performed by the eldest.. They will not and cannot change the rules just because Rashi feels bad to be doing things after her younger cousin. As for the keys of the house, I think Baa gets to decide that being the matriarch of the family..

If they do split, I do not think it will go so far as to cook separately. The lines of duty will just be drawn firmer and thicker with Kokila restricting Gopi from doing all work like she does now..
So it will be that Gopi will do the cooking but will not take the clothes off the terrace and so on..
This is the exact thing Naani predicted would happen when she came her during the Sandook track.. Hopefully sense prevails and someone stops this nonsense from happening.😕

very nice post suk...

Cool OP.

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Cool OP.

I have nfi where Rashi gets the idea that she is entitled to do anything first.

The wife of the eldest male is always accorded his status. Irrespective of her age. Everyone else falls in line thereafter.

In any event MM is not her pihaar. She left that when she got married. Time to get used to it!

It's a pity her mil is failing to show her the light though...

@Munni and Dhabu.. I agree with you guys.. Koki does give due respect in the matter of rituals and rights to Hetal and we know why she is incharge at home..

As Munni rightly pointed out, the relation between Koki and Hetal was different. But I think Rashi and Urmi are thinking in a different line..
Chirag and Parag are brothers. But Aham and Jigar are cousins. Yes. Their family is a joint one and they all live together and have for years.. Hence Aham is considered the eldest. And Actually he is the eldest male heir of the Modi's. It is exactly like in Mahabarata.
Yudhistar was the eldest although he was the son of Pandu. But Dhuryodana argued that the throne needs to be his because he was the son of the eldest son..
So in this case Rashi's argument is that she is the DIL of Chirag the eldest hence all rights need to go to her.
The only dampener to this is that when clans are considered, it does not work that way. Usually the eldest son is the first male born in the next generation of the family. So however we make an argument Rashi is still the younger DIL who will have very different rights and responsibilities when compared to Gopi..

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

@Munni and Dhabu.. I agree with you guys.. Koki does give due respect in the matter of rituals and rights to Hetal and we know why she is incharge at home..

As Munni rightly pointed out, the relation between Koki and Hetal was different. But I think Rashi and Urmi are thinking in a different line..
Chirag and Parag are brothers. But Aham and Jigar are cousins. Yes. Their family is a joint one and they all live together and have for years.. Hence Aham is considered the eldest. And Actually he is the eldest male heir of the Modi's. It is exactly like in Mahabarata.
Yudhistar was the eldest although he was the son of Pandu. But Dhuryodana argued that the throne needs to be his because he was the son of the eldest son..
So in this case Rashi's argument is that she is the DIL of Chirag the eldest hence all rights need to go to her.
The only dampener to this is that when clans are considered, it does not work that way. Usually the eldest son is the first male born in the next generation of the family. So however we make an argument Rashi is still the younger DIL who will have very different rights and responsibilities when compared to Gopi..

She might come close to separating the family, but I doubt she will succeed. Something will get in her way...I want it to be Gopi...but let's wait and see...