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Posted: 13 years ago
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I feel that Simar is being unfair. She misunderstood Roli twice, didnt even try to listen to what her sister had to say. Now when Roli pointed a finger at her, she is going to all levels to prove herself innocent. She should have investigated properly before insulting and blaming Roli.
Roli's behaviour is justified to some extent, she is just a kid who is trapped in the family life and her only support (simar) misunderstood her and stabbed her in the back by telling what she did to pari and uma.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes ur right if sim understand roli before that toh yeh problem start he nahi hoti.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Misunderstanding will happen but insulting, Roli is disgracing simar in every aspect.I am proud of simar today for giving saree to roli and also says i have to stop the misunderstanding.Sujatha words also says simar will never forget her elder sisters responsibility.Roli not even trying for that she really want to take up the sister-in-law role and her only intention is to disgrace simar in every case and gain credit from that.Now that mataji joined roli i think they will surely throw simar out and roli will be the main cause for this.Prem also is not supporting simar.I feel very sorry for simar but truth is on your simar God will one day help you.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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exactly truth is truth aur sim ko truth jaldi pata chale toh accha hai tab pata chalega sim ko ki who was wrong she aur roli ? sim always trying to prove herself mahan thats why she give the saree aur rahi baat elder sister responsibilty then u know batter how she taking care of her younger sister by slaping and by telling in front of everybody that roli apni thought nahi change kersakti and as elder sister u not trusted ur own littele sis and now she wants ki roli uss per trust kare why ? and every time sim think about herself from begning when sim leave the prem and show that she married with sid that time sim think abot prem not roli jaise he sim ko pata chala roli and prem ka div ho gaya hai quickly she got married wit prem she not think a single time for roli ki uss ka kya hoga and right god is there so sid came for roli and roli get a nice husband so as simer fan u discribe sim as rosid fan i explain my Roli .😊 no fight for that .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes Nickpick Slapping a sister is also sometimes a responsibilty of a sister to keep in right track.Also I dont want to fight but telling my view Now roli is really trying very hard to become mahan as simar has no intention in that.as soon as she saw the saree she thought for herself this is rolis favourite color.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ansooty

I feel that Simar is being unfair. She misunderstood Roli twice, didnt even try to listen to what her sister had to say. Now when Roli pointed a finger at her, she is going to all levels to prove herself innocent. She should have investigated properly before insulting and blaming Roli.
Roli's behaviour is justified to some extent, she is just a kid who is trapped in the family life and her only support (simar) misunderstood her and stabbed her in the back by telling what she did to pari and uma.



Roli herself admitted that she would make life hell for bhabi's and was laughing and enjoying the entire thing so simar doubted her...simar listened to what roli said but roli is not believing simar but everyone else...that is the difference...if tomorrow simar says that she did everything wrong to roli then roli's behavior and anger will be totally justified but not now...basically they just proved that roli is the weaker sister and fell into their trap easily...one thing is that simar slapped roli once but roli did much worst to simar and even though simar will forgive her or already has but when the truth comes will roli be able to forgive herself???...

but i agree with you that she is just a kid trapped into a huge family...and that part is injustice...roli really thinks this is school or something and she can keep doing tit for tat the entire time...

i cant believe her parents allowed her to be married...she is soo young...somebody needs to tell her to stop acting like a grandma...


P.S. I am not Indian but in Indian household do Jetani's really have the right to bully and insult their devrani this much...like touching their feet even if they are younger that is ridiculous
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sskfanTest

Yes Nickpick Slapping a sister is also sometimes a responsibilty of a sister to keep in right track.Also I dont want to fight but telling my view Now roli is really trying very hard to become mahan as simar has no intention in that.as soon as she saw the saree she thought for herself this is rolis favourite color.

Slapping a sister without evidence is the responsibility of a good older sister & Simar is such a good older sister, who slaps her younger sister for no fault of Roli's, does not tust Roli even when Roli begs Simar that she is not at fault...jeez what an epitome of a perfect sister!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv4games



Roli herself admitted that she would make life hell for bhabi's and was laughing and enjoying the entire thing so simar doubted her...simar listened to what roli said but roli is not believing simar but everyone else...that is the difference...if tomorrow simar says that she did everything wrong to roli then roli's behavior and anger will be totally justified but not now...basically they just proved that roli is the weaker sister and fell into their trap easily...one thing is that simar slapped roli once but roli did much worst to simar and even though simar will forgive her or already has but when the truth comes will roli be able to forgive herself???...

but i agree with you that she is just a kid trapped into a huge family...and that part is injustice...roli really thinks this is school or something and she can keep doing tit for tat the entire time...

i cant believe her parents allowed her to be married...she is soo young...somebody needs to tell her to stop acting like a grandma...


P.S. I am not Indian but in Indian household do Jetani's really have the right to bully and insult their devrani this much...like touching their feet even if they are younger that is ridiculous


its the one thing that i am unable to understand, i think its customary in india to touch elder feet and take their blessings and when they come at that point ages dunt matter as they show in most of their dramas and movies the only thing that matters is the relation ship... i know that simar is elder sister of roli but in her own house now they are in thier sasural and every place has its own rules and laws that has to be followed .. sim had not been asked to touch roli'c feet daily it was just for once ... why every one is making it a big issue for once at that time roli is justified as jethani i think she had total right of that
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv4games



Roli herself admitted that she would make life hell for bhabi's and was laughing and enjoying the entire thing so simar doubted her...simar listened to what roli said but roli is not believing simar but everyone else...that is the difference...if tomorrow simar says that she did everything wrong to roli then roli's behavior and anger will be totally justified but not now...basically they just proved that roli is the weaker sister and fell into their trap easily...one thing is that simar slapped roli once but roli did much worst to simar and even though simar will forgive her or already has but when the truth comes will roli be able to forgive herself???...

but i agree with you that she is just a kid trapped into a huge family...and that part is injustice...roli really thinks this is school or something and she can keep doing tit for tat the entire time...

i cant believe her parents allowed her to be married...she is soo young...somebody needs to tell her to stop acting like a grandma...


P.S. I am not Indian but in Indian household do Jetani's really have the right to bully and insult their devrani this much...like touching their feet even if they are younger that is ridiculous

Roli does not have any enemity with the sister-in-laws, she mixed something in their cream because these ladies were trying to harm Simar(burn her legs); Roli was just giving them a taste of their own medicine...but what does Simar do? Despite knowing everything Simar backstabs poor Roli and goes and tells the Bhabhis everything who in turn go and threaten Roli. Had Simar given any thought to hers and Roli's r'ship she would not have done this, plus Simar refused to beleive Roli about the heater incident even when Roli said to her that she is not at fault & slapped Roli for no fault of hers...you reap what you sow. All the evidence now points towards Simar & and why should Roli not believe that Simar is at fault when she has concrete evidence that Simar tried to ruin her life; This is the reason why Roli allowed Simar to touch her feet as well.
In Indian families no one harasses anyone like this, people like Mataji and just exist in the tele world. In your country is Tv a very accurate reflection of reality?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If you compare what simar did to roli or roli did to siamr , i think roli exceeded her limits and she did turn negative for her only sister.Poor sim has to face everything from all the bhabis and the most terrible roli bhabi.

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