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sskfanTest

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Slapping a sister without evidence is the responsibility of a good older sister & Simar is such a good older sister, who slaps her younger sister for no fault of Roli's, does not tust Roli even when Roli begs Simar that she is not at fault...jeez what an epitome of a perfect sister!!

yes I think simar is a good sister because siamr too has no fault in the courier issue and roli too did not trust simar.simar told sorry also to roli but roli is too much.Dunno howmuch my simar has to face from this sister.Better roli slap simar and she can do it when she make her touch her feet but disgracing everytime is more pain.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sskfanTest
If you compare what simar did to roli or roli did to siamr , i think roli exceeded her limits and she did turn negative for her only sister.Poor sim has to face everything from all the bhabis and the most terrible roli bhabi.

its very hard to beleive anything you say because by your own admittance in another post you said you have eyes only for Simar and for no one else so you cannot see Roli's pain( should I pull up that post?) when you have such a myopic viewpoint you should not be coomenting on how the other characters are.

I dont think Roli has done anything to Simar which Simar does not deserve. Simar's fans just dont like the boot on the other foot.

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sskfanTest

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

I watch only simar does not mean I cannot understand the show.You too said you watch only for rosid that means you cant see what simar is going through.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: sskfanTest
I watch only simar does not mean I cannot understand the show.You too said you watch only for rosid that means you cant see what simar is going through.

I had asked you a question in another post, if you could not see how hurt Roli was and you had responded that you could not because you only had eyes for Simar and non one else. Its hard to take your perspective when you by admittance,are claiming a myopic point of view.

I watch the show for Rosid but can see the other characters and am not impervious to their pain which is why I believe that Roli is correct in her behaviour and actions.

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Luv4games

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: lifeisloving

its the one thing that i am unable to understand, i think its customary in india to touch elder feet and take their blessings and when they come at that point ages dunt matter as they show in most of their dramas and movies the only thing that matters is the relation ship... i know that simar is elder sister of roli but in her own house now they are in thier sasural and every place has its own rules and laws that has to be followed .. sim had not been asked to touch roli'c feet daily it was just for once ... why every one is making it a big issue for once at that time roli is justified as jethani i think she had total right of that

it is not about where they are...that is just a lame excuse...simar is older than roli and from what i have heard the young touch their elders feet to get blessing...before simar and roli were SIL's they were sisters...simar is older than roli...so that relationship means more...what if there is a tradition in somebody's sasural that a mother has to touch her daughter feet when she goes to their house...should the daughter allow it just once because it is her sasural tradition...simar is also like a mom to roli since they were always very close and simar took care of her...how could she ask her elder sister to touch her feet...should they forget their relationship of so many years for the relationship of a few months...it doenst matter if it is once or twice...it is not right and very disrespectful...even if roli and simar were not sisters then somebody older in age should not touch a younger's feet...if this actually happens to people then i feel really bad for them and hope they stand up for themselves...and if the purpose is to get blessing then that didnt happen...roli wanted simar at her feet to disrespect her and not bless her...first the older bhabi's used to insult roli and simar because they were lower in relationship and now roli is doing the same to simar...what kind of justice is this???

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Luv4games

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: upra

Roli does not have any enemity with the sister-in-laws, she mixed something in their cream because these ladies were trying to harm Simar(burn her legs); Roli was just giving them a taste of their own medicine...but what does Simar do? Despite knowing everything Simar backstabs poor Roli and goes and tells the Bhabhis everything who in turn go and threaten Roli. Had Simar given any thought to hers and Roli's r'ship she would not have done this, plus Simar refused to beleive Roli about the heater incident even when Roli said to her that she is not at fault & slapped Roli for no fault of hers...you reap what you sow. All the evidence now points towards Simar & and why should Roli not believe that Simar is at fault when she has concrete evidence that Simar tried to ruin her life; This is the reason why Roli allowed Simar to touch her feet as well.
In Indian families no one harasses anyone like this, people like Mataji and just exist in the tele world. In your country is Tv a very accurate reflection of reality?

it is not just about the show but in this forum many people actually support roli and feel that since she is jetani simar has to touch her feet and always be inferior to her...of course hearing things like that will make an outsider feel that this is the reality in those households...it is not just few people but majority of the forum who feel it is totally ok to do such an act and are making excuses for roli or even the whole act saying it was a tradition so both sisters have to follow it...so even-though tv doesn't reflect reality but people's thinking does...so the question does arise, do people actually do things like this in their families because it is a tradition even if that means disrespecting somebody...

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uma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Its a religious and a cultural thing...the Bharadwaj's are Hindus and in terms of relationships the sasural r'ship always takes precedence over the relationships from your maternal family. Second point when Simar touched Roli's feet, Roli had just found out that Simar had betrayed her ( all the evidence indicates that Simar is at fault) by keeping the letter from Roli so when Simar was actually touching Roli's feet all she could think of was the letter and nothing else so she allowed her. BTW have youmbeen seeing the show from the begining? Simar like a mother to Roli...what a joke. How did she prove she was a mother to Roli ..by running away to dance on her wedding day and making her younger sister take her spot, by slapping her younger sister for no fault of the younger one, by backstabbing the younger one, by not trusting a sibling who has done so much for you..sure this is how mothers are. Jeez!! Roli is totally justified in her behaviour and is a victim of circumstances and is acting accordingly so how is Roli wrong. This is just my POV..no offense.

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sskfanTest

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Always rolis fans say roli is not aware when simar is touching her feet but if she is not aware her reaction might be different but it is not she indeed blessed her with her hand.Roli is backstabbing simar and can be seen from the cooking episode.Roli is purposefully giving hardtime to simar but simar did not.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: sskfanTest
Always rolis fans say roli is not aware when simar is touching her feet but if she is not aware her reaction might be different but it is not she indeed blessed her with her hand.Roli is backstabbing simar and can be seen from the cooking episode.Roli is purposefully giving hardtime to simar but simar did not.

thats where you are wrong Roli walked away before she had to bless Simar. Roli was shattered & did not heed when Mataji was telling Roli to bless Simar. Watch the episode again but kya faida by your own admission aapki nazar Simar se hategi hi nahi and you will not be able to grasp the reality of the situation.

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sskfanTest

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

You did insult me here upra.I watch it for simar and I told you already does not mean I cant understand what is going on.For me siamr is right and for you roli is right .end of topic.

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