Ahem and love: what is it with her?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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We have gone back to bits and pieces of scenes with Ahem. Today's scene lasted only a miniscule minute and a bit with Gopi.

This scene begs some questions: Why did he stop midway and continue to ask her what happened? Why is he still wondering about is wrong with her? Why did he not question her about her changed behaviour towards him? Why is he not taking a stand to find out? Why does he not have this fire in his belly to want to know why she is keeping away from him? What is stopping him?
The response Gopi gave to his question still did not satisfy his heart, body, soul and mind instead it left him perplexed more than before. Will this be enough to grant him to corner her and get to the bottom of it?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey Swasthi, great post.

Yeah we had may be less than a minute and I figured with the current track this is what we will get until things start to build up.

He was quick to take steps towards her when she yelped in pain but I think he stopped because he is unsure of her. For the past two days he observed her strange behavior and knows something is wrong but her denial is making him unsure of how to reach her. He knows that something is not right with her but still did not do anything. I think he really hasn't put all the events together yet.

With his mom's punishment then letting him go to office, the land deal and puja he has been preoccupied. I think once he starts putting things together he will take a step to talk to her.

Soemthing is sure to push him to edge and make her talk to him. It may be whatever happens when Gopi goes to visit Urmi or the next Urshi kalakari. At this point all we can do is speculate and wait because we we only see few moments of Gohem scenes with this track.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dunno Swasthi seems like they still need a long way to go in trusting and understanding...
they seem to pull away from each other at the first prick...so making it easy for others to come inbetween...and may be that is the point to learn to trust their instinct and to go with it...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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As usual nice post swathi... but today i am not happy the way CV is potrating gohem releationship... why always gopi and ahem releationship has to suffer... now both jigar and rashi they r doing fine as if nothing has happned between them...koki is mad and gohem.hetal is happy with her son and DIL...common i need to see the normal couple closeness like sit and talk about the day and fighithing over small things and clear the misunderstandings an all...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very Good Questions Swasthi.. Why did he not immediately reach her and ask her what is wrong? Maybe because he is still not sure of her. And he does not know what is wrong.. How can he?
Everything seemed to be alright just a couple of days back. Even when his mom punished him, he had himself assured her that she was not at fault. He still does not understand that Gopi does not work that way.
Today he vocalized his observations and his confusion was evident.. He now knows that something is not right.. Even in his happiness to work, he noticed her behavior the previous day. And again today.
I am not sure if he will first corner her and ask her forcefully. That may come only if this continues for longer. But first, he will opt for a smarter solution. Maybe make her face him and talk to him using some reason. Only if these fail will he do the cornering and use force...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Swasthi, in the recent past if it had to do anything with Gopi he was alwsys hands-on & attentive ensuring her attention was also always on him...maybe Gopi is currently confusing him but the question is why is he letting her get away with it if it is troubling him...yes it is definetly troubling him but why is he not acting it...what is stopping him...does he want her to come & discuss what is troubling her ...if he knows her well then he will know that may never happen...so what is it that will trigger him to question her??
If he had questioned her immediately then she would have also know how important she is for him but now will the delay play a role on their relationship?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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wonderful analysis swasthi...we all need ahem to be more forceful and passionate...he seems at a loss as to how to deal with her...i wish by friday ...he would atleast make her look at him and speak with him...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well, if he's being more and more perplexe, I'm sure by the end of the week he'll do somethin about it...
by the way nice analysis !
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Posted: 13 years ago
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aswasthi wonderful post and wonderful questions ...

- Previously when he was at his nastiest best... she was there to attend him and try to look into his eyes expecting something ...a smile or an appreciation in return...

- from navrathri onwards the relation changed for the better and the best...she became his shadow at home.. followed him...attended him... smiled at him... discussed things with him... became an integral part of him...

-now she is not looking at him,... avoiding him...no smile on her face and what is stopping him...yes he is in a most confused state with her change in attitude... he is seeing this behavior of hers for the first time ever...

-should i ask her... will she share with me..did someone say something to her...why is she behaving so weird . is it ok if i force her to tell,...or should i talk to her in the night when she comes into the room...are the questions he is facing on one side and the office work in the new project on the other side

- but i am sure my Ahemji will get the reason from her in his own style😃

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Posted: 13 years ago
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We have gone back to bits and pieces of scenes with Ahem. Today's scene lasted only a miniscule minute and a bit with Gopi.

We definitely need more Gohem scenes to make it worthwhile to keep us interested.

This scene begs some questions: Why did he stop midway and continue to ask her what happened?

I felt the reason he stopped midway is he knows his presence is causing her to cover her face from him, so he thought if he isn't in front of her face she will comfortably tell him what is wrong. I felt that was the reason he stopped short of coming to ask her, that question was asking what made you scream out and also what is the matter with you.

Why is he still wondering about is wrong with her?

With her not telling him, he thinks it's him, and his questioning himself what he has done to cause her to withdraw from him in this way.

Why did he not question her about her changed behaviour towards him? Why is he not taking a stand to find out? Why does he not have this fire in his belly to want to know why she is keeping away from him? What is stopping him?


I have two different possible reasons, one his afraid what the answer is going to be, is it she doesn't want to be with him any longer, has the fact he took on the household duties, that a woman does, lessened the respect she feels for him. So he is afraid of the answer, that's why he doesn't ask. This is one reason, but it could just be that he is under the same rock she is under, meaning the promise to Kokila to work, similarly Gopi is under that promise not to distract Aham from working, Aham knows if he goes to find out what's wrong with Gopi he won't be able to brush it off, he will have to get involved as a result his focus from work will again be less and he will focus on her and her worries.

Aham is hoping perhaps that the problem will go away on it's on, Gopi will talk to the women of the house his mum or kaki and she will be fine, when he comes back from work one of these days she will be the way she was before with him...someone else having sorted out the issue with her, I know we don't want the second reason, as our hero is behaving in this way, wanting someone else to deal with the issue, but I've often thought Aham's character is as close to any regular man as possible and they do this, when the wife has an issue, they hope it will go away or someone else will help sort it out with you.

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