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All I can say is, now Archana knows how it feels to not be trusted, tables have turned. Manav never forged signatures of chawl people and he did not forge signature on Divorce papers, yet he is Always suffering. The only persons my heart goes out to is Manav, Ovi, Teju and Sachu, they are the ones who have suffered because of all this mess. They suffered because Sulo won't allow her daughter to grow up and make her own decisions, and because Archana chose to believe strangers over her husband and trusted her sister and never respected Manav's feelings.
Manav was a broken man after his wife filed case against him saying "I trust you but, the 'Proof,' is against you, and touch his feet before going into court. Then he lost Soham same day he lost the case in court. After all of that he still thought of sending Archana tickets to go to Canada with him, he cannot be blamed if he trusted Savita, in the 'Painful Condition,' he was in at the time. Who could think straight and rationally after all of that? The last thing on his mind, is that Savita would deceive him, he was too busy feeling same about Archana, So, I can never understand how the 'blame game,' comes into play with Manav. If a wife files a case against her husband, without even trying to find out the 'real issue,' ruining his reputation and endangering his job security, why in the world would he be surprised if his Mother came home with a story that his wife wants out of the marriage? If someone can do that to someone they love, the person they hurt, will believe anything about them. Hypothetically speaking (example), when a woman's husband cheats on her, and she stays with him, then later someone tells her that she saw him with another woman and believes he is cheating again, wouldn't it be normal for her to believe this person, since he has done this before? So, I will never blame Manav for believing Savita's first ploy, nor this second one of forged divorce document. Yet, Archana has the Gal to be upset that Manav did not believe her not sending the divorce papers, when the she chose to believe strangers over him, that is so Double Standard and the heights of Hypocrisy. Archana weaved her own web, I hope she never comes out of it, until she is ready to acknowledge her faults. However, I know the Cvs will never give me this satisfaction.
Just my Two Cents, don't care to convince anyone.
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