Justify: ASR childish behavior

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Friends:

I know there r lots of posts showing frustration from yesterdays episode. Esp. we r surprised with the level of rising Khushi's antics in the show.

But this Q is still sitting in my mind and needs clarification from experts of the forum😉

1) the whole win and loose game started by ASR. At midnight after getting up from the bed he started telling Khushi that dont think u won. There starts our KKG thinking of winning from now onwards..The seed is planted by ASR.

2) If Khushi slapped him for Machar, what is the reason ASR called off Sangeet ceremony..Is it solely because of SLAP or his jealousy..WHAT???????????????? How will u justify his sangeet ceremony call off behaviour??? ITS GIVING ME HEADACHE??????????? NOT considering family's happiness when it comes to take revenge with Khushi???
"OK U SLAPPED ME..HERE I GO TO TAKE UR HAPPINESS...ISnt it childish too???


Please do comment and answer with humor and sensibility..no bashing please...

I am also not liking this epitome of comedy drama..but i want certain things to clarify for my own shake for better understanding.😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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For ur 1st point:
I think so ASR has always been like this...From the first episodes also we can see that ASR wanted Khushi to loose and give up and leave the office

For ur 2nd point:
I think so he cancelled the sangeet b/c she slapped him...and also maybe b/c he is jealous of NK!!...but again ASR has always been like this!!...he doesnt know how to convey his feelings...so he has his own style of getting angry at KKG!!!...but 1 thing which i didnt understand is y did akash agree to cancel his own sangeet???...i mean how can 1 agree so easily for his sangeet to get cancelled???

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Wow in the sea of Khushi bashers and CVs bashers some one thinks differently

I appreciate...

Actuallly for change i wanted to put tipic...encouraging those of bash CVs and Kushi for every single thing that happens
Even i didn't like the slap...but i prefer to wait and watch as i am sure there will high level drama soon with the Shyam revelation and a probable balme on Khusi

I wanted to put across all the points that these will people put!!!

Like banning the show

Calling Khushi Names

Justifying whether Khushi deserves his mother Kangan and Naniji affection etc.

And then of course baming the CVs that the situation is still where the CVs began with...I dunno how!!!

Would Khushi have slapped ASR in the beginning... and walked away unscathed or would ARnav bothered to hide in blanket just because of Khushi wanting ...when he is not bothered about even shouting at his own sister or arguing with Nani fo rhis points do you think he would be afraid to walk out Khushi house !!!!

there is change guys i know its rather gradual...but trust me once Shyam revelation and tears happen

We will begging for at least comedy if not romance!!

And come one don't say you were plain annoyed when you saw that slap or the reactions of both...I tell you my hubby is pretty MC and traditional person (add to it the fact that he hates serials!!!!) and even he smiled the way both leads performed

He says both are really good performers!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Not a very mature thinking of Arnav. This is no way to settle his score with Khushi. Undoubtedly, he was pissed off for 2 reasons - 1. the slap from Khushi, which knocked the daylights out of him 2. NK supporting Khushi for a competition obviously roused his jealousy. He, therefore, had to refute Khushi's idea and call off the sangeet altogether.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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1) ASR tells her don't think you won because he knew he had lost. He knew he was wrong. He had told that it would be Khushi who would mess up and land in front of him. But it turned out to be him. ASR who always was in control of everything, actually messes up and lands in front of Khushi at midnight. So he turns the tables on Khushi. Plus, it is in his character to not accept defeat.
2) He calls off the sangeet because of the slap. He wanted to stop Khushi's competition plans. I don't think he realized that his family would be hurt if the plans are cancelled. He just reacted in anger. And like Khushi once said: When ASR is angry, he doesn't think straight.
One more thing...this win-lose game is nothing new. It was there from those 1 lakh challenge days. Otherwise which responsible employer would hire an employee just to prove her wrong and make her resign the job...It is not good for the progress of the company. But ASR did it because he wanted to prove that he is right and plus KKG isn't the type to back down either..
Edited by S.Stephy - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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good post
If khushi is OTT and jumpy then arnav is no less i feel both are immature
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It's in his nature, its not surprising actually. Arnav can't take defeat. Or doesn't like losing, so its his way to cover it up. It was all a joke, whether from his side or hers. Moreover I think every show goes through such a phase, its pointless to blame any character at all.

Hopefully this is all only till this shaadi or rather the sangeet. But honestly they could have taken the story ahead in a much better way after LA's exit :(
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ss374

For ur 1st point:
I think so ASR has always been like this...From the first episodes also we can see that ASR wanted Khushi to loose and give up and leave the office

For ur 2nd point:
I think so he cancelled the sangeet b/c she slapped him...and also maybe b/c he is jealous of NK!!...but again ASR has always been like this!!...he doesnt know how to convey his feelings...so he has his own style of getting angry at KKG!!!...but 1 thing which i didnt understand is y did akash agree to cancel his own sangeet???...i mean how can 1 agree so easily for his sangeet to get cancelled???

@black: Its because of Arnav that his wedding had been fixed. So Aakash might have felt that if Arnav doesn't want the sangeet then so be it...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The only time ASR becomes childish when he encounters with Khushi.

Otherwise he seems to be sane person in the whole serial.

Sorry to say Khushi is behaving like a child right now. Hope the cv's show her mature soon. That Khushi who was mature and a little childish seems to have disappeared.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i don't wanna justify neither of them because there's no justification since whatever khushi & arnav does get brushed off saying; oh that's typical khushi, she's just a normal 18 year old kid. oh that's typical ASR, he's had a troubled past etc

i find them both extremely kiddish and stupid with their actions and words based on last night's episode

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