at times women r worse than male chauvinists

bonnefille called me male chauvinist ... & till 2day not a single mod has edited it

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I request mods not to ban prasad's id . He is miffed as recently a spate of posts attacked him for chauvinism .

Prasad I request you to calm down . devashree is a very good mods . So are Resham and jnawaz . Of recent, they have tried to be utmost fair . Its not easy for them , it really is not . We must not forget that they do this thankless job for free , rarely get praised , but always get attacked for various issues .

I know prasad , the absolute warning Thread got closed down and you cud not have your say there . So u made this thread . Had you talked to me about this I would have told you to let it be and not stretch issue further .

I request with joint hands to both parties ...prasad ...to calm down as i now how hurtful it is to be accused of chauvinism when one is actually speaing of the opposite and supporting woman ...and all 3 mods ...pLease spare his id and let him too understand that objectivity is not all lost in this forum yet .

I feel very very sad to see this hurt on both sides .😔 All I say is please ...NO MORE .

Prasad I assure you , even if these mods step down and others come , they will be neither better nor worser . These people r ok and r trying their best . Mistakes happen from both ends , Both have to let go .

i totally agree with u aunty ... i dont even have any strong desire that bonnefille shud get warnings ... i am not that type who interferes everywhere

Originally posted by: prasad1991

many were affected by her premarital sex ... but atleast she decided to give birth to sachin's aakhri nishani where she was not at all bound also ... a rich girl coming to stay in a low middle class chawl ... if a woman wants that her child shud be born in his dad's home ... is she wrong ... & women & female mod bashing her

varsha just slept with satish ... she aborted baby ... didnt care for satish ...etc etc ... varsha was much more worse as compared to shravani's pre-marital sex ... shravani completed all her responsibilities towards both sachins

no question was raised on varsha's irresponsible sex ... bcoz she was ARCHANA'S mother's daughter

Hmm, selective memory much? Many people voiced their dislike of Varsha's decisions as well, and she was not put up as some devi for any of her actions. No, she did not have a hate club, but she was certainly bashed for her decisions. Though I do find it interesting that you try to present yourself as some advocate of women, but use such degrading language towards Varsha. Why not try to understand what may have been going on with her emotions as well?

One more thing, why do you always bring up the Shravani hate club? If you hated it so much why didn't you do anything about it at that time? It takes seconds to become a member and report something or make a post. You use that as your one back up for anything you want to say, but you did nothing yourself to stop it; just complaining about it later does not make you any better or more conscious of it than the rest of us.

Originally posted by: prasad1991

bonnefille called me male chauvinist pig ... & till 2day not a single mod has edited it

Originally posted by: toothbrush13

Hmm, selective memory much? Many people voiced their dislike of Varsha's decisions as well, and she was not put up as some devi for any of her actions. No, she did not have a hate club, but she was certainly bashed for her decisions. Though I do find it interesting that you try to present yourself as some advocate of women, but use such degrading language towards Varsha. Why not try to understand what may have been going on with her emotions as well?

One more thing, why do you always bring up the Shravani hate club? If you hated it so much why didn't you do anything about it at that time? It takes seconds to become a member and report something or make a post. You use that as your one back up for anything you want to say, but you did nothing yourself to stop it; just complaining about it later does not make you any better or more conscious of it than the rest of us.

i was not a member that time ...& do the mods need somebody else's reports to close down a wrong thing

Some members have trouble communicating in refined language, that doesn't mean their POVs are automatically wrong. I'm a woman, neither a feminist nor a chauvinist; and I didn't find Prasad's comments against Varsha degrading. Just like Shravani's premarital sex is a fact and a regular word; so is Varsha's "sleeping with" Satish or having sex. That's normal, isn't it? Sex may be awkward to talk about for some people, but it's not degrading to talk about it. Degrading is when we abuse somebody, real or fictional, for having such thoughts as abnormal when it is anything but. I request people to see beyond the sometimes somewhat crude language, at the opinions of the members.

About Shravani's hate club that seems to come up very often recently; I came to the forum long after it was closed, but it's interesting that I can still look it up and read the comments on both the character and actor if I want to. And there are some real degrading comments even on the physical appearance of the actor; and they will be out there as long as the threads are not completely removed. Just goes to show that everybody,even normally good people, can get carried away and use crass language at times. So we should not judge others when the same thing happens.

ooops sorry people ... i was way too hurt & angry while reading that

Oh wait if you had so much problem with hurt by that comment then why did you not raise this point in PR Grievance Thread where you have defended your MID accusation. What was need to make new thread on this now and make to look yourself as most innocent person.

If you really had problem with Sharavani hate club then why is that I don't see any post of yours in anyone of those thread opposing it and you say it now when it all done. Why didn't you make separate thread asking for closing it?

Edit: Ofcourse talking about sex is not bad. Infact nothing is bad for person from his own view point! 😆