remember those times when:
(1) jai gifted bani bangles and made an excuse to ask her out on a date
(2) he was so excited planning for their date and was so nice and gentle with her at the restaurant
(3) he was blushing when masi caught them arguing abt his red scarf
(4) he was blushing when masi told him to give the saree and jewellery to bani for the engagement ceremony
(5) he got impatient and took bani out of rano's room just to talk to her about anu
I mean from all this it is atleast clear that he has started to like bani in a very different kind of way. and he has started to "respect" her.
when he thinks abt last night, he doesnt even once mention how he felt abt last night. he is only thinking abt bani- the state she was in, how he could have helped her, how he might have taken advantage of her, what she might think of him now. But not even once did he say "How he felt" or "What he thought abt last night". Why......why......why did Ekta only make him concentrate on bani's feelings and not his own feelings.