What is the point of getting married?

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Jugnu_244

@Jugnu_244

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#91

Marriage whether its love or arrange it needs sincerity and trust and love for partner. and marriage for me its a bond of love between two person. and each and every person needs a partner. its the most beautiful relation between two person . when one loves u when one shares when one cares when one cries just only with u and share his orrow with u. that's the best feeling!!! and i can say this!!!

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P1nk

@P1nk

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Posted: 14 years ago

#92

Originally posted by: Summer3
So if there is suffering in marriage, who suffers more ?
Yes marriage can be the greatest blessing or the biggest curse.

The kids and the inlaws from both sides. 😳

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Summer3

@Summer3

Trailblazer

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: P1nk

The kids and the inlaws from both sides. 😳

Yes it is always the poor kids.

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Fahima

@famzii05

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#94

marriage is a big respnsibility!! well i guess one day or another you want to settle down and live a responsible life? if you have a partner but ur not married ur relationship holds less value because ur not tied to promises, trust and all. when you have kids, they would be illegitimate children! and what the point in arguing, some poeple marry, some dont!! marriage is all about trust, love and respnsibility!! u cant just be in relationship that you know one day it will end! in a marriage you make it work, there are ups and downs...u work together, as a team to make this realtionship of your sucessful... and when ur not married theres no sense of bonding...you might be with one person one day, another person another day...i am in favour of marriage! and you get married also to produce offspring! haha (no offense intended here)...this is entirely my opinion!

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423728

Hibernated

Posted: 14 years ago

#95

Call me old fashioned, typical, cheesy or the ultimate Cinderella but I like the thought of Marriage. Despite the wastage of money, the stress of finding a wedding dress and the good old narrowing 700 guests into 300 (Causing many ladies to huff in offense for not being chosen to attend) - All of those factors will personally be worth it when I walk down that aisle, in my damn perfect white dress (Wanted to wear black but my mum almost fainted. How can I explain that black makes me look slimmer!), with the little children guiding my way by throwing red rose petals on the ground. The Kodak moment will be when my husband stands at the end of that aisle, his face brightening when he marks my entrance and he would say to himself 'Damn I'm one lucky man'. 🤣

Okay dreams apart. I find myself more comfortable and secure with the notion that my husband and I have established and formally named our relationship to the world, to ourselves and in God's eyes. This does not mean that live in relationships or even boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are any different. To each to their own. If I find a guy whom I can willingly share my life with - I would marry him within seconds.

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Heart

@Heart

Explorer

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#96

Originally posted by: goneforever
Marriage obviously bring happiness to some, but not everyone. Single people are also happy. What is the point of getting married? Sure, you have a life partner. But, it has to be someone you know really well and are comfortable with. Arranged marriage fails miserably in this day and age. Only love marriages are successful, but not always. The divorce rate is so high then it was 10 or 15 years ago.

Please share your thoughts. Is there a point to marriage? 😲

At a certain point in life, everyone will want to settle down.. to be with someone and that is the point of being married. When you know that you love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with that person, and you want to have kids with that person.. you want to get married! Yes, I agree it has to be someone you are comfortable with; someone who understands you and someone you know you can't live without..

Well, I don't think all the arranged marriages fail miserably; there are people I know.. with extremely successful arranged marriage.. So nope, it doesn't fail all the time, though I feel that love marriage is more suitable. I mean, you know that guy and you love him.. and you two decide to get married when you know that you can't live without each other. IDK why the divorce rates are so high though.. Maybe it is due to miscommunications. Everyone is so busy in their respective lives now days.. that they hardly get any time to spend together. That definitely creates misunderstandings. So, yeah.. that's my take on marriage! Yeah, there is definitely a point to marriage.. but only with the right person, and at the right moment!

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