How to love

Yes, Myra you're right. Although Rohan had a relevant model of constant love, fidelity, burning, between Dev and Radhika, he did not learn anything from this lesson. He still tried to get Radhika, he does not understand that even if they had a woman's body by force, his heart he not may have never. And this fact doesn't mean <love> , means lies life.

Myra for me none of the Purohit boys knows what real love means..Rohans love is selfish and it is due to the way he was brough up. On friday I saw the first steps of Dev in realising what love means, that love does not mean that one takes the other fro granted...Long time back I did a character analysis of all three...I did it when they showed Radhika telling Dev on the eve of her marriage with Rohan that it is not possible for her to marry Rohan and Dev was very rude to her and Radhika left helpless crying...

Nice post about Rohan yes Rohan has been spoiled since a kid! Yes in a way Padma is blamed for it, just look how she acting now, it is no suprised what happen to her son!! And of course big influcence of Maheswari!

Rohan is a good guy. here i wish to give u p[eople a reference of ramayan. Raavan was a great rakshash but he had very good qualities in him. he was a good king and also a good protector and also a very great battle man. but his only want for a married woman spoiled his whole empire.

Rohan used to have every thing but his only one wish for Radhika spoiled his whole world. He was good at heart but some times some of our bad qualities come to our risk.

Coming to Dev he was learning abt love now only let him take his time

Originally posted by: misti73

Myra for me none of the Purohit boys knows what real love means..Rohans love is selfish and it is due to the way he was brough up. On friday I saw the first steps of Dev in realising what love means, that love does not mean that one takes the other fro granted...Long time back I did a character analysis of all three...I did it when they showed Radhika telling Dev on the eve of her marriage with Rohan that it is not possible for her to marry Rohan and Dev was very rude to her and Radhika left helpless crying...

Here is the link to the thread, incase you are interested.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/chhoti-bahu-sawar-ke-rang-rachi/1672941/thoughts-29-4-11

Misti,dev atleast as a kid even though he hadnt any of his parents has more values that the other boy,yes he is learning the meaning of love now but he has it in him to understand it...not like rohan...thanks for the link,great points u made there 😊

Again a logical topic Myra. Its a good thought on how you described their different ways of expressing love. Surely Ro got everything he wanted and so he knows how to snatch it but Dev learnt how to sacrifice only. Being the same father's son, their rearing had made their differences.

yes myra ,he is pampered and obsessive.Whatever thing he has choosen for himself,has to be only of him. and regarding bh's intention and radhika knowing ,its not due to love or trust but bcoz he is a better manupulator as misti said .Also he passed through the torture of bh,so he knows that bh can do this.
Regarding dev ,love he knows .He loves radhika a lot but obligations guiltness make him weak .First time ,he didn't accept radhika under obligations and also he himself was living like a servant ,with no future and he didn't know radhika that much .But when she was living in PB ,he got to know her ,how simple pure heart she is.she doesn't need anything than love of him,how much she loves him,yes she can face each and every situation with him.Initially he didn't want to make her life as a servant with him.but after knowing her and after listening from her mouth that its better to die than living in fear and until when she will face this.He decided to run away.
Second time ,he has lack of confidence and u can say trust too. But whatever it is ,love was there.We can't say he didn't love her in my view.

Originally posted by: ashna26

Nice post about Rohan yes Rohan has been spoiled since a kid! Yes in a way Padma is blamed for it, just look how she acting now, it is no suprised what happen to her son!! And of course big influcence of Maheswari!

Thank u, she doesnt c it bcoz she's too busy in worring for bh...