Indira's self respect or ego???

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Posted: 14 years ago
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What do u think guys.?Is Indira ego or a girl of self esteem and self respect.In today's episode Rishi was so helpful.He cleared the misunderstanding of ishaan.Indira must have thanked him.But she didn't do that .She taunted rishi for her assignment.
The next day when he came to help her saying himself as assistant to Indira.She would have worked with him.Again i felt her ego came in between.She wants her job,money and when ppl are offering her helping she could have taken it.
Frm this episode,I felt that Though Indira has self respect and self esteem but she has ego to.A strong headed girl.May be due to this strong headed ness and her rude words making her away frm all ppl and bringing problems to her always.I feel bcoz of this nature,even her family failed to understand her love and concern.Their insensitiveness towards her,made her pay her smile.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think Indira had been solving her problem by herself all alone than suddeny outsider like Rishi entered in Sharma house as tennant and started interfering...he took Munna out from the jail against her wish, due to that her own family went against her , even the most closes person Ishan stopped talking to her.. She did not deserve that sort of treatment from her useless family , she was hurt when mother, brother n naphew were blaming her for Munnai being in the prison n praising outsider Rishi .. It is highly annoying n irritating, Rishi approach was wrong when he helped Sharmas ...
Indira is strong headed person not like dukhiyari ladkee😆 , Girl like Indira ke liye uske Self Respect sab kuch hai and its not about her ego , its about suddenly outsiders intereferece in her house as well as office against her wish.. it is highly irritating ...she never had anyone to help in her life n sudden appearance of Rishi is not digestable for her .
She is not egoistic .. agar rahti to she would not have bothered about her family, she wouls not have gone to see Munna in the prison .. But why will she speak to someone who has entered in her house as a tennat n now acting like a decision maker against her wish 😕 I did not like this side is Rishi Kumar ..Tennat ko Tennat kee tarah rahna chahiye ... But for that we need to know the Real story of Rishi Kumar 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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well indu is a self-dependent girl for sure...but sometimes i feel that her ego become a problem but only sometimes...she thinks that if one man was wrong then all men are wrong...she don't want to give anyone anychance to hurt her n her family due to which she is ignoring the good ones too and also hurting her family...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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you cant face this chauvinist world and handle your 'ever so ready to create problems' family without a strong ego. so it doesnt matter if you call it self respect or ego, at the end of the day its important that indira keeps all the ropes in her hand.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -roshnee-

you cant face this chauvinist world and handle your 'ever so ready to create problems' family without a strong ego. so it doesnt matter if you call it self respect or ego, at the end of the day its important that indira keeps all the ropes in her hand.



u r so right
in today's world if a girl have to live in such conditions then she willingly or unwillingly have to live kicking others😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Indira is a strong and self-dependent girl
8 years back when she needed help...there was no one to help or support her
she has been solving all her problems herself nd now she thinks that she doesn't need anyone's
help nd especially Rishi's help.
this is why she is refusing his help...now its upto you if you want to call it her ego or self-esteem😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The thing is, Indira doesn't know Rishi at all. We the audience are seeing the mystery side to him, the fact that he is somehow interested in Indira, and are speculating about him being her love interest, etc. But she only sees a man she got off on the wrong foot with, but had to keep as tenant due to financial issues. She gave him clear rules, and defined his space.

He kept interfering in her life, asking questions about her father, her birthday etc. Then he went and released her brother from jail and became a hero for her family. Everyone just forgot that Munna forged papers, and treated her like pariah for not supporting him in his crime, and this tenant started behaving like he was her family's saviour and she the outsider. Today, yes, he was nice to her, but at this moment, if I were her, I would be thinking what his ulterior motives are. And if a tenant had made random flirty comments at me after a simple accident (god that scene was unnecessary, it doesn't happen in real life, if a girl slips and lands in someone's arms, there is mutual sorry and thank you and they move on!) he would be out on his butt. 😡

Look at this from Indira's point of view-- this man is her tenant, not her future love interest. Why should she like his interference in her family and her family's easy acceptance of him?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i would not call this ego. if she had ego she would show off how she takes care and single handed supports the family. she would taunt them on every turn but she does not do that. she just likes everything in order and discipline and looking at her family i can easily say that if she goes even a little bit soft on them, they would walk all over her. so far rishi's help is concerned, i would say that he is an outsider. her own family does not help her in anyway and suddenly an outsider enters and starts helping? that would feel annoying to any independent girl like indira who has made her own choices throughout her life. her family members are not responsible in any way. give me one name that even thinks of trying to help or understand indira. when she behaves strictly her stupid mom says that she is too proud. i mean why wouldnt she be proud? whatever power she has over her family, atleast she does not abuse it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It's definitely self respect.. afterall rishi is an outsider and he is suddenly is interfering in indu's personal matters.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i dont get it. whenever something like this comes up and it is a woman involved, people start questioning her ego issues and when a male character does that people go gaga over his attitude and arrogance.

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