Originally posted by: bhavli
I don't believe its about becoming the ideal "TV" bahu...yes that is what set's her apart of the other four, but if she wants to bring in her idea of fun and happiness, she needs gain that trust where her actions won't be questioned. I feel she's known Kartik's stand on the relationship from day one yet she goes against it.
About girl changing...well, its about adapting, which she is far from! She doesn't need to change herself at all, just accept some things before she can implement change. When things have been a certain way for a very long way, change doesn't come over night. She means well but when its done with resistance from everyone, its not going to be effective. She has to gain the trust and then lead change not lead change and then go out looking for trust!
I honestly can't stand the fact that she continuously has to lie for something to be done, because that is not how its done. No one has to be the ideal person but gaining respect and trust is not unattainable!
all persons are not like minded.
the lovely character is different from all other leads.
but what is difficult to understand is-- karthik knows how is lovely character.she can go to any length to get what she wants.he has only chance in mandir where if he told truth then this marriage would not have happened.
but when decided to marry then accept her as person.not try to change.
that is very difficult.persons qualities rarely change.
so he don't have any choice.he has to accept that lovely is his wife.he married her knowing she is jhooti .
by the way what i liking in this serial is
lead role is quite strong compared to any other serials.
Edited by 100raj - 14 years ago