tum toh chale pardes...kya tum pardesi ho gaye???

Hello to all SGPians

Now that Ishaan-suhana has moved to Mumbai and staying apart from their family,miss their family especially Suhana as she is the one who is all alone at home and Ishaan is at office,so Ishaan can somehow manage as he is indulged in office acitivities n that helps him to divert his mind.

Now coming to the topic

Its part and parcel of our lives, we have to leave our parents and in fact our parents did the same to our grandparents. Being a girl or boy, no matter in some or the other way every one goes through this rough phase. There are many reasons, some has to leave because of higher education or other has to for advancement in his career, while girls have to leave the parents after marriage. EVERYONE goes through this sooner or later and it's always VERY difficult in the beginning! But once you go there and adapt the area and you'll rarely be home-sick!

A family is responsible to builds up a person's personality. How you behave and what you become in life is very much dependent on our family life. Family is a place where we can be ourself. It is a place where there's are no terms and conditions,can live the life we want & everyone is there to help you. Family supports us when in troubles and helps us endure through tough times & bring joy and pleasure into life. We are closer to our parents and siblings as compared to any other person in the world. As we grow up there are many changes and we find good friends, spouses, kids and colleagues to share our lives with. Although time brings this change but the importance of family remains there.

Initially Kashyap family was against Ishaan moving to Mumbai for promotion but this is the genuine reaction of most of the parents as they can't think their life without their children, but gradually they accept the truth as the time passes they too understand and in fact feels proud of their children as even they want to see their children successful. Here where Kashyaps were against initially,there are many who themselves wants their children to go further. For all this Phase is not same, some might have to go against their parents while some do it because of their parent.

Most of the SGPians are staying away from their parents. So now I want u to share ur Stories. How difficult was it for you, how u convinced your parents, how u adapted absolutely different surrounding, how u managed to come out of homesickness, and how much u miss your family. Do u feel that even though u achieved so much in life but still incomplete without your parents.

This is my first discussion thread, please do comment and share your views

Great topic Meens👏..I have my story ready in my mind of-course😆..Will write it down here asap

i hate long posts but still good post meenakshi

Excellent post Meenu , very well written. I will write soon.

Originally posted by: shilu999_balani

hi meenu your post is very nice and meaningful... every person at some point of their lives goes thru this phase and to every person has a different approach to this separation... it will be interesting to read stories and experiences of our members of SGP fan club... althou my separation was a very long time ago 35 years...so maybe cannot now account my feelings of that time
but look at the other pehelu... what a parent goes thru when the child goes away either for higher education.. or marriage and once they go they very rarely come back...how the parents cope up with this separation is something i can talk about ...believe me it is very hard... it really breaks your heart but for the kids sake as we say dil pe pathar rakhkar bhej dete hain...here in japan we are still aliens althou we have stayed here for so long and the kids althou born here are still aliens and japan doenst offer much to aliens... so there was no choice but to send them abroad...
at first ghaar katne ko dorta tha... but slowly and gradually we get used to it... and now after 10-12 years...we sort of get resigned to it ... but thanks to the invention of the computer and skype...and viber and tango... the world has become very small so it doesnt hurt so much now...

Originally posted by: Rubaldhillon

Excellent post Meens😊

Since it was not so long post i read it 😆nd will comment on later 😃

@meena...hey im 59 years old...next year i will be hitting the big sixty...im proud to tell my age...not hide it... as ive gone thru a lot and come out of it without a scratch...i had the added burden of taking the decision alone...my husband was totally against sending the children away...so i was always scared that the kids dont go wayward then i would have faced my husbands wrath... but i had faith in my upbringing of my children...they turned out good...now both have good jobs in the states, married /kids...so now im at home stretch and enjoying myself chatting with you wonderful friends...thank you guys...