well said!!👏👏Originally posted by: scorpiongal
I personally never ever felt that Tapasya and Ichcha had such a screwed childhood that i cud justify these definitions of Uttaran, for both of them.And even if they had... it still wudn't be enough for defying the parameters of humanity, logic and rationality.If you justify this change in these parameters, because they had a problematic childhood, then You wud be forced to justify all terrorist activities around the world, you wud be forced to justify evey rape, every killing or even honor killings and everything else...because everyone of them will justify their brutal thinking ans acts on the basis of so called mishaps that their life brought to them.Children, in either general or specific terms, is pathetic to be considered uttaran (even for a good cause).i DO give my food and clothes to needy people, and I prefer to give them wholeheartedly instead of thinking as i m doing a favor on them. It's the Nature's call and the Duty of privileged to help less privileged..without thinking that if they cud ever pay it back to you.IF You don't.. it's up to you. and though there is lot that can be said on this topic, but i don't want to discuss things on personal basis, neither i intend to discuss the show or it's characters.my post was simply against that so acknowledged definition of uttaran and i still maintain that.