Cry me a river, build a bridge and get over it! - Page 3

Originally posted by: firefly99

I am not saying that Rounak is a criminal I just pointed out the crime i-e committing suicide is equivalent to killing urself and killing is a crime and thankfully he wasn't successful in killing himself I know person think of or tries to commit it in extremely depressed mental state and Rounak also faced bad consequences BUT they were not THAT bad that he should opt for suiciding and won't agree he was justified for his action khair it was his past even for me Panna should atleast try to give him a chance although its very difficult but she shouldn't be rude to him the changed and determined person unlike earlier will regain the lost respect.

Originally posted by: ice.maiden

As usual I loved your title Sheemu 😃 Really? Thankyou ji. I wanted to make it different and so I thought of this as it means that accept what has happened and move on.

My opinion about this issue is this:- Forgiving and forgetting are two different things.. Panna or even Raunak's parents will never forget what Raunak had done.. The parents have already forgiven him..But for Panna to forgive him is not so easy IMHO.. I have seen situations like this.. Things like this take a long long time to heal.. But at the same time, she can be nicer to him.. But acceptance will come only once she forgives him completely.

Originally posted by: madhu_d

@sheemu : Nice post asusual..

I will go along with Tabz & @icemaiden..it takes time to heal things... not that much easy to forgive and move on as expected by rounak.. but she can be nice to him..thane maarne ki jaroorat nahi hai...

Originally posted by: abhi786

Sheemu Good Post.. i didn't saw friday episode.. But I can tell that whatever Panna is doing wrong...What's the difference between her and rounak..

What actually Panna want.. she want to move away from rounak, or she want to start a new life with Rounak.. I think she should just think once what She really wants, if she is continuing like this with rounak.. the distance between them would increase more and it's becomes painful to fill the gap later... Now Rounak is trying to fill the gap between them.. Now she should also try to move a little and forget the past .. It's time for her to MOVE ON...

Originally posted by: iruaG

I seem to have missed this post 😆

I also think that Panna's current attitude toward Raunak is wrong. Yes, he hurt her, and what he did was completely wrong but Panna's attitude is wrong too. People deserve to be given a second chance because everyone makes mistakes, even Panna. As long as one is mindful of the fact that he made a mistake, and is willing to make amends for it, he should be given a chance. And here its not like he was unfaithful to her, he's just a weak person who shirked his responsibilities and ran away. That is a mistake, but not an unforgivable one. 😛

Yes, Panna comes from a broken home and her parents' bad marriage must have had some effect on her psyche. But one cannot base one's own marriage on one's parents' marriage. Panna ought to realize that there's a big difference between her father who willfully deserted his family when they came in the way of his ambition, and Raunak who merely shirked his responsibility toward his family but at NO point did he ever think of leaving Panna for the psycho Peeya.🤢

Problems in relationships occur because each person is trying to focus too much on what the other person does not have. Affection should be valued, not perfection. Also when Panna married Raunak, she married him for better or for worse. So if he's a weak person, as in if he's a person who shirks his responsibilities, then Panna should realize that this is what he is. Its not like Panna is the perfect woman either. Earlier she never cared for her in laws. But she learned her lesson. Similarly Raunak too can learn from his mistakes.

A marriage is something that needs to be worked upon constantly. It is the duty of both the persons to keep a marriage going. It saddens me that Panna has stopped working on her marriage. If its really getting too much for her to handle, then its best that she should end things amicably and move on.