Does dadi really know her grand-son?

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Anita Patel

@Anita1118

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: mayadika11
here the family is interfering too much...
they should leave it...and let maaneet alone handle it...
bco'z forcing is just worsening the situations more...
let maan naturally fall in love with geet...and he will eventually...
bco'z maaneet r bound by fate...and they r meant to be together...

i agree dear...with no interference...think about it...maan wont get frustrated...not yell at geet no tears in geet's eyes...family won't feel helpless and maan will have his space to fall in love with geet all over again...and once that happens everyone will be happy except for naintara of course😆😆

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kiran khurana

@.Kiran.

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: Anita1118
I like your point of view...and whatever you said is correct about Maan and dadi...but I still do feel that not once in all of this time has dadi even sat down calmly with maan and tried to understand his feelings...what he is going through...everyone is very adamant for maan to accept geet...but no one is willing to accept maan's memory loss...since when has maan been able to do anything because someone forced him to...the whole family knows that dadi is the only one who maan will bend for and they use or try to use that to make him do what he doesn't feel right doing...i agree dadi yelling at him for accusing Geet was completely right...but i still think they should have showed dadi at least think of Maan and talk to him...dadi's only convo's with maan are that geet is your wife and u have to accept that...but even after Maan explained his feelings his inner-ladayi no one understood him...even when dev talked to him...he said, "aap ko kuch yaad nahin to iss mein geet ki kya galti hai?" did dev not think," ke iss mein maan ki bhi kya galti hai?"

i hope I didn't offend you by my POV...but I must say that Geet is the only one who is trying to give Maan space...she just wanted him to break her fast...and I wish they would have shown him do it and then ask for his space

Anita Exactly my thoughts dear!:-) No one really talked to him or shared his feelings..didn't ask him how he feels! I've always seen dadi going to geet & talking to her calmly...make her understand & all! But Not for once, I've seen dadi talking to him or thinking from his POV!! I would've really appreciated her yelling today ONLY IF she was shown talking to MSK or understanding him for once before!

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Anita Patel

@Anita1118

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#53

Here is what I think everyone needs to realize...there is no maan's pain or geet's pain here...it is maaneet's pain...they both are suffering...Geet wants maan to remember her as his wife...his life...and Maan wants to remember the exact same thing...everyone has said that Geet is his wife...and he accepts that, he is just not able to accept the relationship because he can't remember anything...there is a difference...its a fight between mind and heart...his mind has accepted it but his heart is not able to...as far as breaking the fast, maan...a man of principle...what is right and wrong...should have done it...I agree...would have saved a lot of headache😆😆 aur geet becharin 8 din se bhuki hai...to agar maan ne pehele hi pani pila diya hota tho usse chakar tho nahin aata na????😆😆 sorry...jokes apart...

dadi...dev...nandini...lucky all mean well...they all want maan and geet to be happy...i just think everyone is focusing on that rather than why maan is acting the way he is...think about it...maan who is used to having everything under control...doesn't have his own life under control right now...and because he can't remember his past year of his life...that is not either Geet or Maan's fault...maan's outburts are due to his frustration...its not right to take it out on Geet...but that is what it is...he can't handle the fact that he doesn't have control of his own life...he can't remember Geet...

he did explain why he didn't want to break the fast...not wanting to give Geet false hopes because he is not ready to accept the relationship, and I just wished someone would have taken that into consideration...the fact that maan did open up his feelings...his thoughts...in front of everyone...think about how hard that must have been for him...

Geet is suffering and that is for sure...because uske aansoon ke saath even I cry😭😭😭 she is not wrong for what she wants either...but I think now...she needs to just let Maan be...I know she will tell him to break her fast for dadi's sake and then will distance herself from him...giving him the space and time he needs...cause we know...if anyone knows Maan...its Geet😊

so the point of this long post is that why are we fighting we all want the same thing...maan and geet to be together...and we all a re here because we love maan and geet...yeah some love maan more and some love geet more...but nonetheless, we all love maaneet...and we should not be fighting amongst ourselves...

ladayi naintara aur dev pe chhod dethe hai...kyunki vaise bhi aaj kal un dono ke beech bohot kuch ho raha hai😆😆

I hope I did not offend anyone...if I did, I am sorry

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Papon Tabassum

@paponecon

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#54

do u know when i finished the yesterday episode, i was thinking eaxctly the point which u raised up...i also didnt like dadi warned him for this way...maan loves dadi most and dadi also...they have a good understanding always dadi knows maan very well...before geet maan was always exactly on that attitude...and now maan is also suffering a lot as well as geet but their situation is totally opposite...geet suffers coz her loved one who loved her most has now totally forgot her and she believes that her love will come back him...and maan now totally has forgot geet...he is always moody so much attitude proudy arrogant and a determined person...when someone is totally unknown to u and people say that he/she is ur loved one ur life partner, its totally unexpected for a person like MSK who is very independent decision taker in his life...now gradually he is starting attracted to geet and after yesterday incident he was totally feeling remorse and his inner turmoil was totally visible on his face...really very good acting guru...and as dadi knews him so much she had to understand his inner turmoil...maan is now in a condition that i think after come back sense of geet and passing sometime maan would go to geet and break up her fast himself but now the interfere of dadi in this way geet has now compelled to go to maan for breaking her fast to drop her self respect and now maan has also compelled to break her fast...if dadi didnt interfare then their love must bring them close itself...one time dadi said geet that they should not bring any third person into their relationship...then why now dadi interfare in this way..ok she could talk with maan and try to understand his mental situation first...but this emotional blackmail is not suited with maans dadi...maan is a very direct person and he learned everything from his dadi...nywy i loved the yesterday episode.really enjoying this ML track...

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Papon Tabassum

@paponecon

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: mrs.MSK_GurTi

Anita Exactly my thoughts dear!:-) No one really talked to him or shared his feelings..didn't ask him how he feels! I've always seen dadi going to geet & talking to her calmly...make her understand & all! But Not for once, I've seen dadi talking to him or thinking from his POV!! I would've really appreciated her yelling today ONLY IF she was shown talking to MSK or understanding him for once before! i agree with u...

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Lyla Khan

@Echoesofpassion

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#56

You took the words right out of my mouth

This is exactly what i was thinking

Very nice post

I agree with everything you pointed out

Awesome episode but that was the one thing i didnt like

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DoItAlready

@DoItAlready

Stunner

Posted: 14 years ago

#57

u hv written exactly my opinion😳

love ur post dear

superb👏

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kiran khurana

@.Kiran.

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#58

Thanks guys...I really didn't expect ppl to agree with me! But I'm glad there are some ppl who feel MSK's pain too & agreed with me!:-)

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Alamelu

@Alamelu

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#59

interesting topic...today nt said something interesting to maan...that inspite of having so many people, he was all alone...dev and others have tried talking to maan, but he was not very receptive tillnow, he either shut them off ... definitely his family is with maan, but he also needs to open up to them ...

earlier he opened up a little to dadi, but then he always opened up maximum to geet only... hopefully he will get back to that...

overall, i feel really bad for both maan and geet...they both are going through a hard time in their own way...maan does not realize his comfort is when he is with geet ...she is his comfort, his everything...when he realizes that all will be ok even if he does not get his memory back...

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