Does dadi really know her grand-son?

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hey guys!:-) I really liked today's episode but there are some things I didn't like! First of all, I loved the beginning...GC was outstanding with his expressions! Felt bad for MSK... cvs portrayed his inner turmoil & helplessness really well!! Loved when MSK says if he has lost his memory...what's Geet's fault in it? I really wanted to hear that & today I got to hear it!:-P Loved when that poor husband comes to him for money to help his wife... that made MSK realize what he was doing & what he needs to do!:-) I also loved when Maan didn't believe NT & says geet would never do such thing. That was totally unexpected!!:-O & thn unfortunately, geet faints resulting in MSK's anger! :( I felt so bad for geet...poor girl has to again bear those harsh words. Later MSK realizes what he did & feels guilty!:-) I loved that scene & also the scene where Dev slaps NT! That was a nice build-up for Maha-episode totally well-deserved slap for NT! BUT what I didn't like was Dadi yelling @ MSK & once again forcing him to break Geet's fast! The reason I didn't like it was cuz Since the day MSK got to know about his ML I have NOT seen dadi, going & talking to him about his suffering or anything. It's a good thing both geet's family & MSK's family are supporting Geet but dadi needs to go & talk to Maan. She should've tried to think from his POV & talk about his feelings! Afterall, he's her grand-son & she says she knows him more than he knows himself! If it was so, she shouldn't have forced him to do stuff she has been asking him to, she shouldn't have asked Geet to fake her illness & make MSK break her fast! I think GEET KNOWS MSK MORE THAN ANYONE IN THIS WORLD! Dadi hasn't tried to talk to him & make him understand calmly && now she comes out of no where & yells @ him when he already has realized him mistake??Sorry to say, but I HATED that! Once again, she is forcing him ... I would have really liked if Maan himself has gone & fed geet!

I didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings! It's just my POV & I'd love to read urs too! Comments are always welcome! Sorry if my post did not make any sense...I just had to vent it out!:-)

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gshow2011

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Posted: 14 years ago

Well the whole family is iin pain. they can't see injustice against anyone of them. It will take time for everyone.
Geet should realize maan needs space.
maan should try not to fig out his past memory but see Geet for who she is and what is good about her.
dadi has to give her son some time and space but she is afraid it will be too late especially wit hNT around.

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: gshow2011
Well the whole family is iin pain. they can't see injustice against anyone of them. It will take time for everyone.
Geet should realize maan needs space.
maan should try not to fig out his past memory but see Geet for who she is and what is good about her.
dadi has to give her son some time and space but she is afraid it will be too late especially wit hNT around.

Yess I know the whole family is pain but more than everyone MSK is the one is pain! Everyone is trying to support geet but no one goes & talk to MSK! Everyone tries to give him lectures or force him to do stuff except GEET! If dadi can't give him space, atleast she can share his pain or atleast talk to him just like does with Geet or she should stop forcing things on him!! Is that too hard to do??

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Mehek25

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Since the day MSK got to know about his ML I have NOT seen dadi, going & talking to him about his suffering or anything. It's a good thing both geet's family & MSK's family are supporting Geet but dadi needs to go & talk to Maan. She should've tried to think from his POV & talk about his feelings! Afterall, he's her grand-son & she says she knows him more than he knows himself! If it was so, she shouldn't have forced him to do stuff she has been asking him to, she shouldn't have asked Geet to fake her illness & make MSK break her fast!

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Lovely post dear. The lines I have reproduced above are what I also perceive is the actual reason behind Maan's refusal to accept Geet as his wife. I have mentioned something similar in a post I made after yesterday's episode. All are concerned about Geet but no one is even bothered to find out what turmoil Maan is facing because of his ML. no wonder he literally hates Geet. No reason but it is simply his reaction to the action of others.

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362035

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: mrs.MSK_GurTi
Hey guys!:-) I really liked today's episode but there are some things I didn't like! First of all, I loved the beginning...GC was outstanding with his expressions! Felt bad for MSK... cvs portrayed his inner turmoil & helplessness really well!! Loved when MSK says if he has lost his memory...what's Geet's fault in it? I really wanted to hear that & today I got to hear it!:-P Loved when that poor husband comes to him for money to help his wife... that made MSK realize what he was doing & what he needs to do!:-) I also loved when Maan didn't believe NT & says geet would never do such thing. That was totally unexpected!!:-O & thn unfortunately, geet faints resulting in MSK's anger! :( I felt so bad for geet...poor girl has to again bear those harsh words. Later MSK realizes what he did & feels guilty!:-) I loved that scene & also the scene where Dev slaps NT! That was a nice build-up for Maha-episode totally well-deserved slap for NT! BUT what I didn't like was Dadi yelling @ MSK & once again forcing him to break Geet's fast! The reason I didn't like it was cuz Since the day MSK got to know about his ML I have NOT seen dadi, going & talking to him about his suffering or anything. It's a good thing both geet's family & MSK's family are supporting Geet but dadi needs to go & talk to Maan. She should've tried to think from his POV & talk about his feelings! Afterall, he's her grand-son & she says she knows him more than he knows himself! If it was so, she shouldn't have forced him to do stuff she has been asking him to, she shouldn't have asked Geet to fake her illness & make MSK break her fast! I think GEET KNOWS MSK MORE THAN ANYONE IN THIS WORLD! Dadi hasn't tried to talk to him & make him understand calmly && now she comes out of no where & yells @ him when he already has realized him mistake??Sorry to say, but I HATED that! Once again, she is forcing him ... I would have really liked if Maan himself has gone & fed geet!

I didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings! It's just my POV & I'd love to read urs too! Comments are always welcome! Sorry if my post did not make any sense...I just had to vent it out!:-)

very nice post dear...👏loved it...agree with u completely...u have said it all...

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Princess DD

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Posted: 14 years ago

Loved your take however i wouldn't agree to what you said about Dadi..

I feel its high time Dadi made Maan realiize his mistake... The reason i say so is because MSK is stubborn and he needs someone to show him light... He does make mistakes but does not accept them soon or rather does not realize what he did unless someone makes him realize.. As much as i wanted Geet to take the initiative i loved what Dadi did today..

Since the day MSK had his ML dadi did not force Maan, rather she even went ahead and told Geet that she would be with her whatever he decision, when they realized Maan had an ML ( by decesion i assume she was ready if Geet wanted to stay away from MSK) But Geet said that she would never leave the house..

Secondly for MSK to realize or feel about Geet, he needs to know her, and to know her he needs to be around her. Had it not been for Dadi, Geet would have left after the office fiasco and MSK would not even have bothered to get her back. So i'm happy that Dadi fell ill and MSK was forced to get her back... Atleast that way they are around each other. After that again i did not ever see Dadi forcing MSK unless the this vrat thing.. Where she was right again. Only what was needed of MSK was to open her fast. Coz even though he does not remember anything Geet is his lawfully wedded wife and he cannot deny her rights. When he denied then too she did not force him but again when he accused Geet today, i guess that was when Dadi felt that it was a limit. Well he is realizing it slow that if he does not remember things its not Geets fault and i guess somewhere his family is playing a part in it. He always seem to be wondering why Dadi favours Geet so much? (food for thought)

Dadi made it clear once again today that MSK at times does not judge people correctly, if i remember in the era of the outhouse scenes too, when MSK was harsh with Geet, Dadi scolded him saying he is judging Geet wrong and every girl is not Sameera, if she did something wrong he cannot judge everyone as her... it was Dadi who was the catalyst who did not let Geet leave and thus MSK ultimately did realize his love for Geet...

So all in all i feel MSK is a stubborn guy who needs some kind of push at times. And Dadi did that correctly today. It may be emotionally blackmailing him but i feel that was again required.

BUT the best thing today i guess was Geet does realize that Maan needs space so tomorrow i predict she will just ask Maan to break her fast for the sake of Dadi and tell him that she understands he needs time and space and start distancing herself. (Hopefully)

Again this is just my point of view... 😳

Edited by Azmatazz - 14 years ago

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manny136

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Posted: 14 years ago

I hope with dadima saying she won't eat as well geet will now decide to ask maan to break her fast for her sake and she should now stay away from him, let him come to her if he wants, you r right its not fair for maan to be pressurized like this but its also not right tht geet gets insulted and has to follow him around like a puppy waiting for some little scrap of care from him. they both need space and less interference only then they can come together own their own terms.

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kiran khurana

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Posted: 14 years ago

@Mehek: Thanks hun! & I was totally pissed to see dadi yelling when she doesn't even care care what he's going through!! No wonder he doesn't like Geet & is rude to her every now & thn! Now that he is understanding her she comes & once again force him to break her fast!!

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maanluver

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Posted: 14 years ago

usaid really true that not only geet but even MSK in in pain n that dadi shud try n understand wat Maan is goin thru also although iluv dadi but i think she needz 2 talk 2 Maan calmly

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Deva

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Posted: 14 years ago

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msk never shares his pain with daadi...even if she tries to console him..or sooth him..maan hides his emotions from her and try to act normal before her...maan's daadi knew this quality of her grandson...

yes she was pushing him into relation...can we blame her?...no...in that all i can see is her urge to see them happy...she is trying to make things better between them...by her own way..in all these she is failing to understand maan needs time to think...and analyze his situation...

she knows her grandson well...thats why she is trying to protect their relation..if daadi would have not been there...MSK would have kicked geet out of the house long time ago..when he came to know she was his wife...post ML..

for now...it seems that dadi's actions are stupid and making maan to hate geet more...but in due course..everyone will understand her...