Baapji will love Kastur

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Elizabeth Darcy

P.S. We're not sure about the complete story are we? We don't know what kind of interactions Mohan and Kastur had, whether they were friends, how that match was fixed yet. For all we know Kastur probably had a crush on him from afar and that crush culminated into girlish hopes when the alliance came through before he left. It's possible, and remember she's still 19 and one can still hold a torch for someone one liked long ago even at that age. It's not even like she's stalking him or doing crazy things besides imagining him all over the place, which would be completely natural if she had feelings for him and then her family members decided to initiate a match that early. I'm not sure it qualifies a 'get a life' yet, really 😆

LOL I don't know about you but at that age, (15), I could hardly have had a crush that lasted more than a week, let alone 4 years 😛

How can she stalk him? He wasn't even there the 4 years.. But she has his pic with her wherever she goes, she dreams about him, talks about him (jai sree mohan), imagines him everywhere, and even loses her strong will around his mother in fear of a broken alliance/marriage

But you're right, we need more of a back story before we can speculate further 😊

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Shobhana

@-Shobhu21-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Welll Baapji will certainly like Kastur...

But I srsly hpe Kastur finds better companion whenever she goes to that house...

I mean I think almost evreyone there doesnt like Baapji...

Hes sometimes just so madly rude...

And as far as I can speculate now...Mohan hates Baapji too...

So if Kastur ends up supporting Baapji...she might end in a trouble...

But If Baapji seeing Kastur being sooo supportive of others... Tries just to stay quiet and learns that he is not exactly doing the right thing...well Ill love Kastur for quietening Baapji

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farhana

@Rakhie_08

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Kastur will be able to form a better relationship with Baapji than anyone else in the family has as yet.

She is still rooted in her culture enough to satisfy him, but no so much that she won't be able to see what he's really like.

Although it is too early to say with certainty, but Kastur, while following traditions and rituals, seems to also understand that perhaps they can be changed and adapted. She is about following the spirit of the law, as opposed to Baapji who seems to have dispensed with the spirit and is a firm believer in following the letter of the law.

Baapji's acceptance and favouritism of Kastur (which I'm sure will happen) will not go down well with the rest of the family initially. But once she starts softening him and brings about a change in his attitude and therefore the household for the better, they'll appreciate it.

We've already seen an indication of what might happen yesterday. When Kastur convinced Jeetu to attend Sonal's seemant. Jeetu said 'people should learn from you the art of convincing others'. And who do we know that is the biggest hurdle to everything in everyones life? Baapji!

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Anu Elizabeth Antony

@Elizabeth Darcy

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: _Anonymous_

LOL I don't know about you but at that age, (15), I could hardly have had a crush that lasted more than a week, let alone 4 years 😛

How can she stalk him? He wasn't even there the 4 years.. But she has his pic with her wherever she goes, she dreams about him, talks about him (jai sree mohan), imagines him everywhere, and even loses her strong will around his mother in fear of a broken alliance/marriage

But you're right, we need more of a back story before we can speculate further 😊

Exactly my point re, I know not many of us out there would really live on a crush for more than a week or a month or so, but it is possible without the person being weird or obsessed per se. There are people out there, normal, smart people, who will remember people they care a lot for (from afar too) with that much love and fondness and believe they will never change, and dream, talk, eat, sleep those people...I was giving stalking as an example, hehe, though of course in this age of FB and Twitter stalking someone who is far off isn't a very big deal 😆

I think Kastur's fear is as much due to Saroj's own persona as to the fear of the alliance breaking -- remember Saroj's aggressiveness is a mask to society and people who wear a mask of aggressives tend to show more aggressiveness per se than someone who is like that by nature, and that can frighten people too.

Anyway...let us see what happens! They probably might show us a flashback of MohUr yet 😊

Baapji may soften later, but it's going to be a long, hard road before that can happen, so I have a feeling it's going to be one of her biggest challenges besides Mohan! But I don't see Baapji letting go of his aadat without a fight, even for Kastur.

Edited by Elizabeth Darcy - 14 years ago

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Lennie

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

I think and hope Baapji and Kastur will have a better relation then what everyone does in the house with him, and the way Kastur presents herself and who she is, thats got to win him over in a way, give her that respect, but along the way i think if Baapji had to change some of his views and behaviour in terms of how he is and comes across, i think Kastur will have a better hand at doing that and making him see sense and all that

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