Rama - A Heartless Or Selfish Woman ?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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This question has been on my mind ever since I saw Mohan-Rama's conversation. According to me, right from the beginning, Rama has only thought about her own well being , not even Shagun's btw.😳 She wanted Anant-Shagun to marry for her OWN convinience. Going by her theory of sisters marrying in the same house = less fights/politics, she wanted to make the future convinient for herself, and not Shagun. If she really loved her sister, she would have thought about the pros and cons of getting her married in that zoo clan. On one hand, she accused Mohan, of her being "victimised" in the family, on the other hand, she wanted her sister too, to get into that mess? Also, coming to her evil theory of sisters ruling the VP house,😳 she was again thinking about herself, only wanting to use Shagun as a source of "help".

This latest conversation was pretty much the last nail in the coffin. She even had the audacity to threaten him 🥱 Exposing her = Exposing AnYa ! ? I feel really bad for the guy. Even after being forced into a marriage like that, he somewhere took the initiative before, of understanding her, trying to build feelings in a non-existent relationship. But , more than that, I feel sorry for Rama. I don't know whether she would even ponder upon what Mohan actually said to her.🤔 The lady surely does not realise what a gem she has got in her husband .

So guyz, I want to know your views on the same.

1. Is Rama, a heartless woman? Or she has a heart that only loves herself ?

2. Are her actions beyond redemption now? Or, will some realisation dawn upon her with those "rishta nibhaana" words from Mohan?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Fab post, Naina...👏.

I feel that at the moment Rama is blinded by only one emotion - anger. She is hurt, and has hence turned more, revengeful... The hurt is more, for the tables were turned against her, by a complete stranger - Navya (unknowingly)...
She will not change for the better, so quickly. Only an elephantine jolt, will awaken her... ,remains to be seen, when , that happens...
And, I agree, she is an egocentric woman, for whom only 3 people matter the most - I, Me, Myself...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Rama is just selffish woman who only sees her benefits...she does not even care for her husband what can you expect from a woman who blackmails her own husband?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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For Rama, getting Shagun married to Anant was for gaining control of the zoo clan 😆 Her main target is "Hari Om Prabhuji" bcoz she knows that dukhi aatmas are harmless ...So she wanted her dumb sister shagun's help to tackle bua dadi 😉

And coming to the latest convo, she never expected that her evil intentions will be exposed so soon... She believed that she can easily fool her husband but in reality its not so easy. Her plans will definitely backfire and very soon she will have to start planning to save her marriage let alone think about spoiling other's life...😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aanchal15

Fab post, Naina...👏.

I feel that at the moment Rama is blinded by only one emotion - anger. She is hurt, and has hence turned more, revengeful... The hurt is more, for the tables were turned against her, by a complete stranger - Navya (unknowingly)...

Agree. She is blinded by anger and hurt. She disliked Navya from the time , Navi wasn't even in a relationship with Anant. Hence, all the hatred, anger, hurt, revenge is a result of her selfish motives.

She will not change for the better, so quickly. Only an elephantine jolt, will awaken her... ,remains to be seen, when , that happens...

She seems immune to any kind of jolt for now. Mohan learning about the truth too, did not affect her😕 What would be that elephantine jolt, I wonder?🤔 Her marriage on the verge of breaking? Evil soul will still think of herself in that situation!🥱

And, I agree, she is an egocentric woman, for whom only 3 people matter the most - I, Me, Myself...

Thanks for replying Aanchal🤗

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nice post Naina..👍🏼
Rama has always been very selfish..Its always about her happiness..I agree with you when you say she wanted Shagun to marry Anant because this way she would have a brainless wonder for a sis in law whom she can control and manipulate to her heart's content..Shagun would not pose any threat to Rama's position in the house..At this point of time she is blinded by the need to take revenge..And somehow I feel this revenge is to nurse her own hurt ego..
And she really has stooped quite low but I would still want to her to reform only for Mohan's sake..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Piyualka - Thanks for the reply :) True. She is a blinded selfish woman. Hope she has a change of heart and realise Mohan's true worth😊

@Savithacrao - Yep, her main target was Hari Om Prabhuji. Thats exactly what I meant. She only wanted to use her sister as a means to take charge of the zoo clan.🥱 Her selfishness could potentially ruin the life of her sister. Thanks for replying :)

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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Tanu - Thanks for replying.🤗 And, I completely agree with everything you said. Now that Meeta is supposedly going to send Navya away, who is she going to take revenge from?😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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She is immature to realise wats right n wats wrong... She just thinks momentarily n takes steps in a hurried manner... All i could say is be it Rama/Shagun/Navya... no one can be a happy-bahu in that loony family... 🤣 🤣

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