varshu has no fault towards varun :(

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I strongly disagree with the above post .

Actually I clicked the like button by mistake ...now I don't know how to take it off...😕

First of all Varun is not najayez and even if he was ...a child is a child ...it's not his fault how he came in this world ...

Varun is a lovely kid and I feel so bad to see vaishali treat him the way she does ...

Today she knew that she had slapped him wrongly , still she did not apologise to him...

That child looks at her for love but all he gets is hate ...

Just adopting someone is not enough ...one has to treat all children in the house equally ...

Her sister Archana has an adopetd son ...but she loves that boy even more than her own son ..To me even that is wrong ..Both children shoudl be treated equally ...the adopted one and also your own ...

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I strongly disagree with the above post .

Actually I clicked the like button by mistake ...now I don't know how to take it off...😕

First of all Varun is not najayez and even if he was ...a child is a child ...it's not his fault how he came in this world ...

Varun is a lovely kid and I feel so bad to see vaishali treat him the way she does ...

Today she knew that she had slapped him wrongly , still she did not apologise to him...

That child looks at her for love but all he gets is hate ...

Just adopting someone is not enough ...one has to treat all children in the house equally ...

Her sister Archana has an adopetd son ...but she loves that boy even more than her own son ..To me even that is wrong ..Both children shoudl be treated equally ...the adopted one and also your own ...

Originally posted by: arkamu

why do we expcet her to be extra sweet to That najayaz varun.

Originally posted by: AishuJSKfan

I too disagree.
First of all, Varun is not a "najayaz" child as you put it because his parents were married. Dharmesh was married to Madhuri before he even met Vaishali. Actually, it was Aniket who was illegitimately conceived!
And btw, you wrote Varshu. Varshu refers to Varsha. Vaishu is the nickname given to Vaishali.
And if your Vaishu has adopted Varun, then why can't she treat him like her son? He is not some servant's son, but her legally adopted child. And if you start saying that adopted children can never be as close to the heart as non-adopted, then you are saying that the thousands of the kids around the world who are adopted have no moms or dads. That is just wrong. And you said that "she bears him and it's enough." Children are gifts of God, not some burden. It's actually Varun who has to bear having her as his mother! If she accepted him as her son, she should treat him like one.
I just feel really bad for Varun because he always gets the short end of the stick. He lost his real Mom, and now this sauteli mom is ruining his life.

I too disagree, Dharmesh had every right to get mad at Vaishali for the way she treated Varun. What is Varun's fault in this? His mother died and before her death, Vaishali promised to take care of Varun. Vaishali's treatment of Varun is inexcusable, like Tanya pointed out Manav and Archana are raising Sachu as their own and have never once made him feel as if they were not his parents.

I strongly disagree with your post.

Varun is not an illegimate child.Madhuri was the legal wife that was the reason she had to divorce Dharmesh to give the legal status to Vaishali. Anyway, no child should be given any labels, the child is innocent why punish the child for the parent's misdeeds?

Vaishali is directing all her misplaced anger and hatred towards Madhuri towards Varun which is plain wrong. Constantly finding fault and putting down the child is not acceptance. Varun is a motherless sick child, he is craving for mother's love, its heartbreaking to see him looking at Madhuri's photo when Vaishali is mean to him.I wish Dharmesh slapped her for slapping Varun in the market.She knows she is wrong now but still refusing to apologise.