CHUBBY Mom or BOLLYWOOD Diva?

However, with the exception of Kajol, many new age moms have not maintained their careers well. Sridevi, Madhuri, Juhi, Karisma disappeared into thin air. Karisma might have a comeback movie, but will people care now? Hopefully, the same thing will not happen with Aish.

Can these women still be a source of inspiration for women all over the world? Can Aish get her hour-glass figure again? I guess we will have to wait and watch. In the meantime, please share your thoughts. 😊

In terms of work Kajol has Karan and SRK, who've offered her films after she became a mother... I liked her a lot in Fanaa and MNIK.. She is vlearly very selective with her work and doesnt do too many films now.

YES, we ARE women, and like it or not having children and being a "mom" does make our bodies change from those of an untouched 15 year old.

Yes indeed.

The question is do we go to films to have our noses rubbed into the fact that some people are more in keeping with the fashionable ideal of what is sexually desirable...or do we go to films to see people like US glorified that we might vicariously live our dreams and see ourselves as heroines; as people who are multifaceted and whose entire souls and personalities don't suddenly change to some cliche of all suffering parenthood, simply because we gave birth and outgrew our teens.

In all actuality personalities stay largely the same---habits may change and so may goals but the basic YOU stays the same. So what the hell is so WRONG about a "chubby mom" still having spirit, and spunk and curiousity?

Now, I am assuming that few of the people reading this are teen or twenty-something guys who basically want to see a woman who is "do" able on screen and think that if they don't want to have sex with a woman she has no right to exist unless she's their family.

That's total crap. Everyone is someone's family and obviously everyone who DOES exist has a right to do so...and wa ALL have personalities. Even people who don't decide on an abortion and therefore become "moms" and even those who aren't physically built to be on trend with the fashions for boyishly thin and tall women.

So hell yeah, I want to see someone like ME appreciated. In fact, I'll go you one better. If you DON'T like people like me...chances are damned good I won't like you and your films enough to bother to waste money on them. Insults cut both ways.

Tha's why where I live we try (not that we succeed all the time) but we TRY to also show people who don't look like Jennifer Anniston in a good light. Everyone wants to feel worthy and worth while. Incidentally that's why I LIKED Bollywood films in the first place. I got fed the heck up with the idea that I had to look like Gwyneth Paltrow or some other tall, raw-boned blond white woman to be worthy of screen time.

Diva is an attitude, and not tied to age or stage of physical development.

Ummm...Aish never had an hour-glass figure so I don't think she has anything to worry about😕. Karishma was the only one who had an amazing firgure during her last few movies and now she looks mind-blowing. I am personally a Madhuri fan and I think she glows even after being a mommy😳

Kajol is an exceptional actress..personally Ash is nothing compared to her. Kajol was amazing in Fanaa, U, Me and Hum, and of course My Name is Khan - these were all movies she made after she became a mother. In the past few years, I can't remember an Ash movie which made me go wow, so hopefully when she does return after motherhood, she'll give us something worth watching.

Kajol's mostly only worked with Dharma and YRF after marriage i think, so she had great support. Others not so much. Juhi is doing it on her own now, but i doubt about the others. Yah one leaves and are respected, but they're never loved as much as they were when they were at the peak. New craze keeps on popping in. Whether it's with hollywood or bollywood. Britney Spears and Justin Timberlake were such famous disney stars, yet today they're almost forgotten to be a part and it's more about Selena and Miley. Similarly, it's the case in Bollywood. We still love them, but no matter what it's more about Ranbir, Imran, or Ranveer today. So many ppl are sick of the Khans (not me, i love em) however it's a fact. I don't think people wanna see these girls again because everyone thinks oh they're married isne kya movie karni hai yaar, amma lagti hai (literally ive heard that typa language). Theyre more interested in sexy young chicks. I watched Murder 2 and boy the sounds in the theatre... Everyone was going crazy for Jacqueline and the sex scenes... It was uncomfortable! But when these girls were fit and young back in the days, everyone was crazy for them too, so i guess it balances out. New fads come out old ones disappear. A few years later, these same girls will be remembered as the waheeda rehman, rekha, zeenat aman, etc.