'If Aishwarya was unprofessional, so was Abhishek'

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Madhur Bhandarkar is pissed. Amitabh Bachchan is upset. Card-carrying feminists have raised a banner of revolt. Film directors are rushing to their lawyers.

The only one who hasn't said a word is the one who caused it all: We are talking about Abhishek Bachchan, not Aishwarya Rai, who broke the news of her pregnancy two weeks ago and had to sign off playing heroine in Bhandarkar's Heroine.

In all the verbiage generated over Aishwarya's pregnancy and her supposed lack of professionalism, we forget one thing: while women bear the real burden of lugging a kid around before birth, and hence are the obvious targets of jilted film producers and script writers, the responsibility for a pregnancy should rest in two places – the two partners who decide to go forth and multiply.

The lifetime costs of pregnancy and child-rearing have to be amortised between two persons — not the woman alone. Ben Stansall/AFP Photo

If Aishwarya was unprofessional, so was Abhishek. If pregnancy clauses need to be stuck onto new contracts involving heroines, maybe we need counter-guarantees from the spouse, too. If it takes two to make a baby, how come only one shoulders the blame for scrapped or delayed films?

Before we get into the meat of the arguments and counter-arguments, let's first agree what this debate is not about.

Some feminists would like to believe Bhandarkar's fevered comments on being let-down by Aishwarya are male-chauvinist and anti-motherhood. It is not. Nobody, not even Bhandarkar, questioned Aishwarya's right to have a child of her own. He was only pissed about the fact that he was left holding the baby – an aborted film. And that she told him about it so late in the day.

Movie directors would like us to believe it is all about costs. Not quite. Sure, if a key actor gets pregnant or injured, costs soar. When Amitabh Bachchan was injured seriously while shooting for Coolie, the producers saw their costs skyrocket. But surely producers and directors have heard of insurance? Pregnancy or injuries to key actors can be insured against.

It's also not about professionalism. While there is no shortage of unprofessional conduct in the Indian workplace, Aishwarya wasn't exactly shirking work or trying to mislead people about her availability for work. She may have delayed the announcement, but who knows what the reasons were? Only she can tell us why she delayed telling Bhandarkar about it. Maybe she had good reasons for doing so. For example, what if there was a danger of an early, spontaneous abortion?

Exclusive pictures of Aishwarya in character on the sets of Heroine, now stalled. Raju Shelar/Firstpost.

Of course, many film producers and women — including Herione's scriptwriter Anuraadha Tiwari— are upset because Aishwarya's no-show has thrown them all out of work. But that's collateral damage that could happen to anyone. When Kamal Amrohi canned the making of Pakeezah, hundreds of film industry people would have suffered loss of wages of business. Reason: a relationship accident, when Amrohi and Meena Kumari split up. The film was finished 14 years later when the two made up.

It's also not about gender discrimination. Women get pregnant, men don't. So it makes eminent sense to have contracts asking women to not get pregnant in case their roles are critical to a project, or company or function. To make it fairer, maybe their spouses ought to sign up too. If one romantic romp is all it takes to get your partner into contractual trouble, you should be signing on the dotted line, too.

Two issues remain. One is minor. What if accidents happen in spite of contracts? The answer is simple: get insurance and just get over it. But for women, the choices are no laughing matter: when accidents happen, they have to choose between contractual or professional obligations and abortion. The second choice comes with a huge emotional cost. This is a choice only women can make, and it is a tough call. All contracts have force majeure clauses: things the contracting parties have no control over. A decision by the woman not to abort should be treated as force majeure — with low or no penalties.

The other issue is fundamental: Pregnancy is an issue only with women. All employers know this and factor it into their costs. It's not about Aishwarya and actors. It's about any woman in any workplace. This is the single most important reason — apart from gender discrimination – why women's wages are almost always below that of men. It's not fair, and it's up to us to pass legislation to ensure equality.

There is only one possible solution. The lifetime costs of pregnancy and child-rearing have to be amortised between two persons — not the woman alone. If that sounds unlikely or absurd, then perhaps we have to accept that sometimes two wrongs do make a right. If a woman has to bear the greater burden of childbirth, then maybe she deserves an unfair pass when it comes to pregnancy.

In the meanwhile, Abhishek, it won't hurt to send Bhandarkar a small consolation cheque.

http://www.firstpost.com/living/the-ash-bhandarkar-fight-time-for-abhishek-to-pay-up-37450.html

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Aishwarya's pregnancy is not a feminist issue.I am a feministbut still here I am with Madhur.A pregnant woman can not do the film "Heroine".It is a fact.If it was a film like "We Are Family" or "K3G" then she could have worked until 6-7 months of pregnancy.But here the film is "Heroine".It can not be done with a 5 months pregnant woman.If today the scriiptwriter of Heroine got preggy and Madhur replacewd her then it would have been a feminist issue.But Ash's issue is not feminist.Ash and her family is wrong.That's it.
And Abhisheikh?The less said the better.Were is he hiding his face?Why always his Papa hasto come forward to clean the mess created by him?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: JONAKIHATESYOU

Why always his Papa hasto come forward to clean the mess created by him?

you reminded me of Maya's title for the Autobiography of Aish --> Hamara Dil Baapke Paas Hai


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Edited by mogliF21 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Its not bout the cost but i think madhur already said if something happened to aish, the guilt wud've killed him.

"Aish must have had a good reason for delaying the news"...biased much?

Still team madhur.👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
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What a sordid Pandora's Box our darling bahurani has opened by her recent actions.
If one romantic romp is all it takes to get your partner into contractual trouble, you should be signing on the dotted line, too.
It started with How unprofessional of Ash to not declare her pregnancy before signing a movie, then it was how unprofessional of Ash and Abhi not to practice birth control while working/planning on vital projects, now it is How unprofessional of Abhi to have conjugal relations with his wife. I wonder what will be the next salvo against this beleaguered couple. I have started to feel sorry for them right now.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Things should have been more clear on both sides. MB should have clearly stated his expectations of the character of Heroine. Madhur B isn't doing charity there. Movies today are a MILLION dollar business. At the end of the day, its all about being Professional.


One thing is clear. Aishwarya Bacchan should have at least told Madhur B about the latest development whenever the pregnancy was confirmed. It does take 2 mths to get a pregnancy confirmed but 4 months is absurd. The Bacchans took Madhur Bhandarkar for a ride.

The argument is not about women expecting while working.One has to remember she is an artiste and she needs to portray a character. Its not the same like working for a Multinational company.

Ash is not the first actress to become pregnant. Kajol has had two kids during her acting career without creating any problems . At the end of the day I feel Bachchan's probably thought they would get away with this one too.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Now this whole controversy is getting really boring. This is not an equality issue, its an issue about professional ethics.

Ash should apologise to Madhur and move on. Madhur must speak to her privately, give her a piece of his mind, then accept her apologies and move on.

And Big B should for once be gracious and say No Comments.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: JONAKIHATESYOU

Aishwarya's pregnancy is not a feminist issue.I am a feministbut still here I am with Madhur.A pregnant woman can not do the film "Heroine".It is a fact.If it was a film like "We Are Family" or "K3G" then she could have worked until 6-7 months of pregnancy.But here the film is "Heroine".It can not be done with a 5 months pregnant woman.If today the scriiptwriter of Heroine got preggy and Madhur replacewd her then it would have been a feminist issue.But Ash's issue is not feminist.Ash and her family is wrong.That's it.

And Abhisheikh?The less said the better.Were is he hiding his face?Why always his Papa hasto come forward to clean the mess created by him?

I completely agree with you... During Cannes Film Festival when Madhur and Aish came forward to talk about Heroine, she should've been more clear. She did hide the truth from him. She was most defintely pregnant than as it was just few months away. Not having said the truth and thinking that she can completely the film - that's the issue.
This article is baseless. There is no way a man (husband) will sign any kind of contract when he's not part of the film. Can you imagine, you're being dragged to courts because you can't keep your pants zipped... 😆 What husband & wife do with their personal life is their business - however, in this case, honesty would've been better.
I feel like Bachchan's are always targeted a lot since Aish came in the picture.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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aish is pregnant --> heroine is shelved -->madhur is pissed --> Amit is upset --> Abhishek is silent --> we are bored
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why is everything in India made out to be a gender issue? A woman's heel broke in public so people laughed --> sexist society. Why don't they laugh when a man's shoe is torn? A man is driving while his wife is sitting in the passenger seat --> sexist male. Why can't he let his wife drive?

I mean, seriously, in this whole gender equality mission we have made small, mundane things so damn difficult to do without invoking one or more raised eyebrows. This is about professionalism and worth ethics, how the smurf did it get converted into a gender and motherhood issue overnight? No one asked Ash to not produce babies, all she should have done was inform the director and the production house that she was pregnant. How is that sexist/anti-motherhood/anti-feminist/biased? Oh wait, maybe it is important to preserve the sanctity of motherhood by not speaking about it in public. That would really be a dhabba on motherhood, wouldn't it?

Ash should apologize not only to Madhur but his entire team for putting them out of work, and jeopardizing the work and effort they had already put into the film. Amitabh needs to get a life, a vacation on an island where there is no trace of Indian media will do him good. This is completely Ash's call and she needs to come out of her hiding.
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