FOSTER, FEAR AND FORGIVENESS

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Lucky for you this is one of Mera's shorter postsšŸ˜‰šŸ˜›šŸ˜ƒ. A filler episode though it's one where Krishna finally faces Prats after his hearing the truth from his mother's lips and begs her forgiveness. SDS's fears surfaces and SS fosters Ganga on her first day at the Niwas.

Krishna and Prats moves towards the door separating them. He however loses his nerve to face her and he ends up at the Adda where he restlessly paces under the open night skies while his two devars are sleeping like logs. Krishna drops his metal glass trying to get himself a drink of water from the pot. The devars are alerted to the presence of their bhaiyya's well being. When Krishna admits to making a big mistake where Prats is concerned Chandu doesn't hesitate to remind him that no apology or punishment is good enough for his behavior. Krishna is ready to face the music but he just doesn't know how he will face Prats, look her in the eye and ask for her forgiveness? Tunna pragmatically reminds Krishna what's done is done, he's got to apologize anyways, so now he just got to PHREKTIS (what he's going to say to Prats). Krishna gets on with the program and starts his audition in front of his friends even throwing a tapas posture in there as a possibility. Soon the devars are on their cots back to sleeping like logs leaving Krishna to tackle his insomnia. Why are these two sleeping here, don't their parents ever wonder where they have gone all day and night or have they been thrown out of their homes for behaving like bums? Friends means never to have to say you're sorry ...and so Krishna didn't apologize to Chandu for that volley across his cheek last week for playing Prat's messengeršŸ˜•

As the first rays of sunshine hits the Adda Krishna hurriedly wakes up his buddiesšŸ˜†. They have nowhere to go and nothing to do so they can sleep in but Krishna's been up all night thinking about ways to apologize to Prats and he's in a hurry. He shares his conclusions with his buddies. First he's going to ask for forgiveness in Hindi then in English. But whyšŸ¤”? BTW, Krishna, MAAFI is asking for forgiveness while SAARI is just an apology. So better stick to Hindi to ask for Prats's forgiveness. He is done waiting and wants to rush over to the Saxes and get it over with. Chandu says people make little mistakes and say sorry at the drop of a hat, after all Krishna's grave mistake definitely calls for a grand apology. The devars are not sparing their bhaiyya or treating him with kid gloves this time. Instead they are giving it to him straight...just the way a friend should. Tunna is ready to make a cuppa Sax for all of them before Krishna heads out to see Prats. But Krishna has other plans. "Not necessary!" He discloses his plan is to have a cuppa Sax at his sasural with PratigyašŸ˜‰. Let's see if she let's you in the door to start with. If he gets a cuppa chai it will be his first cup at Saxes since the half cup Shamu shared with him while the rest of the family was off to Sangam to do the pooja.

Now hold on a minute! Did the Sax do major remodeling? A balcony wraps around the front entrance to the Sax home. The door directly leads into the foyer at the bottom of the stairs leading to the terrace. Yet today, there are walls where the balcony and steps to the front door as supposed to be. Oh well! Allahabad seems to have plenty of morphing buildings, first the Niwas and now the GH too where the wall colors change overnight and walls appear and disappear at will. And why have the Saxes left their front door ajar this early in the morning? Was someone awaiting an unexpected guest? Today, the door leading into the living room is locked instead.

Hearing a knock Prats swings the doors to the living room wide open and sees Krishna standing in front of her. Their eyes lock on each other like a pair of magnets. At the same time Prats's manners have gone tel lenešŸ˜›. It takes Shamu who strides into the living room to welcome Krishna in and ask Prats if she plans to invite him in or just let him stand out there. Shamu is understanding and tries to put Krishna at ease, tells him not to be too worried about what happened. Good going Shamu! You don't blame him for his mother's shenanighans. Prats and Krishna steal glances at each other as Shamu hovers around awkwardly. Krishna stops Shamu as he leaves the room and confesses he doesn't know how to apologize and he has been a victim of misunderstanding and caused their family pain sadness. He is ashamed and begs for forgiveness. Shamu consoles him that sometimes such misunderstandings between relatives do happen. He encourages Krishna to put the past behind him for all is well that ends well. Good advice Shamu Papa! šŸ‘

FINALLYšŸ˜›šŸ‘ā€¦ā€¦ā€¦..Naina offers Krishna a cuppa Sax (it's been a year since SCAM got his first glass of Sax). Krishna is about to take a sip but decides to ask Naina for her forgiveness as well. He explains that when his head is messed up things go wrong. He asks her to forgive him as she would her child. Naina assures him there is no difference between son and damadh and forgives him. He adds innocently that he decided to start his day with a cuppa Sax at his sasural. But was concerned what he'd do if they refused to forgive me? Darn it! He gets a cup of Sax but never gets to drink it. Maybe he will tomorrow after Prats forgives him, it will probably taste better too.šŸ˜›

Krishna accepts biscuits from Arusi and asks for her forgiveness for venting at her in anger awhile ago. Arusi thinks the only person he should seek forgiveness from is Prats, she's not been at peace for a moment for days now. Krishna is ridden with guilt, ignores his tea and approaches Prats. Why are the three Sax gooseberries sitting there like they've been glued to their seats instead of giving this couple some privacy to talk things through? After locking eyes earlier how come they can't look at each now?šŸ¤”šŸ˜²

At the Saxes when it rains it pours. After over a year of insulting and ignoring Krishna the Sax are suddenly feeling very hospitable and magnanimous one fine morning. That too on a day when he shows up on their doorstep and they have no idea whether he is going to come in his calm or ballistic avatar. He gets a warm welcome, cup of Sax and biscuits first thing in the morning. Tea time is any time at Saxes and so it is today at daybreak.

SS like Krishna is beginning his day with a call out to Lady Ganga much the same way Krishna starts his day hollering out for Pratigya. SDS is concerned Krishna has not returned home since last night. SS reminds his buck-buck bleating biwi he's calling for Ganga while she's off on a tangent talking about Krishna. Ganga arrives just then and SS pleasantly announces "MY Ganga has come😲". Now here's where SS is a toss-up. Is he playing a protective father figure to Ganga or does he hope to be in like Flynn? This buzurg Takur has a plan up his sleeve much the way Takurain had one when she went solo recently and it blew up in her face.

He instructs the young lassie to be up early every morning to serve him his first cup of tea and also get his first darshan of her😲. This annoys GD his payback for meddling with his plans for Ganga. He asks Ganga if she was kept awake with GD's snores all night or if she had a restful night. MMM thinks SS is just joshing his family members with his behavior keeping them on their toes and guessing his every move. He even declines it when Piaisya brings him tea and tells her to take it back under his breath. He makes an announcement to the ladies of the house that Ganga will henceforth make his first of cup tea every morning. He asks Ganga to make him a good cup of Sax. SDS sarcastically comments about being concerned about their own matters when their son has been gone away from home all night. SS replies sarcastically "Yeah? He's missing since last night, your motherly love was awakened last night and today you are thinking about Babua. It's not the first time Krishna has gone outside the home, that you are restless. He's not a baby. He is safe in Sajjan Singhs's Allahabad that if something happens he'll be back home safely. SS has always rubbed it in about Takurain's lack of understanding of Krishna. With the arrival of Ganga, Krishna may have postponed airing his mother's kartooth to SS. It won't take much for SS to put the pieces together and come to the conclusion that Krishna's call to him to rush home, his absence at home now and Takurain's nervousness at his absence all lead to Takurain's tamaashas. He's caught up in appreciating Ganga's arrival at his home. SDS is tipping her hand with her anxious behavior and she better hope things don't get any worse for her in coming weeks.

Takurain is all concerned about Krishna not having returned home all night. Is she concerned Krishna's track leads to Prats's door again? Is she trying to find a way to stop Krishna from spilling the beans to SS about her gatiya actions?

Ganga brings SS his cup of Sax and he enjoys his drink mightly pleased with the taste of it. He gives Ganga a few health tips …tells her not to drink tea as it'll make her complexion darker. He instructs her to eat healthy nuts and ask Kesriya for anything she needs. Bitten by the green monster, SDS takes a second shot at SS in anger and mutters "a lot of concern for outsiders, but not concerned about his own son". Why is she so anxious about Krishna not returning home? Her worst nightmare may have come true with Krishna back at Prats's parents trying to patch up his marriage. Ganga a new arrival and Prats returning to Niwas is likely to usurp the Queen of Mean off her throne. KN knows his brother well and reminds SDS she is unnecessarily worried "awakened by love he's probably at MMGJ sleeping at his sasural. as he enjoys the second cup of Sax Ganga had made that GD declines earlier."

Krishna is once again unable to look Prats in the eyes as he attempts to apologize.He admits to having made a big mistake and regrets scolding and disrespecting her. He is sorry he had shut his mind and refused to hear a single word from her. Since hearing his mother's truth, at his wit's end he has started hating himself. He's been roaming all night going crazy thinking about all the things he'd said to Prats. Krishna admits "I didn't know where to go, who to go to and talk about my mistakes. I didn't have to courage to face you or look you in the eyes. As the criminal before you I ask for your forgiveness again and again to wash away my sins. He holds his ears and pleads "So please forgive me Babu". Prats fights back the tears and turns her face away. There we go! She's now doing the nautanki that is Krishna's trademark behavior. For once he is keeping his restlessness under control.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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HIII Mera dii, GE to u and GM to me...šŸ˜› The epi was just a filler for me nothing much happend, thy are streching KP confrontation where P'll refuse to go with him...šŸ¤” It's gud to see K is trying hard for forgiveness from P, but do such kind of mistakes deserve saari...? I know i'm sounding rude but it's almost lyk first u murder someone and then say saari... In my opinion his srry is not sufficeint to redeem his character. Krshan has to work really hrd to get in the eyes of veiwers again. BUt it was really nice to see sussena's welcoming K so warmlyy, though he don't deserve such kind of respect after what he has done with their daughter...
The only way through which cv's can redeem him again is by showing him doing efforts to save ganga from amma. BTW do u think sajjan has bring ganga to teach amma a lesson...??? i oubt on that...šŸ˜• s.s is the person who'll only see his own phayedaaa, he must b having some plan in his mind and cv' s r gonna take dis suspence longgg. Lyk he played a smart game to stop ksr not leaving TN with ksrrma, i think something lyk dis is going in his mind...
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šŸ‘šŸ¼ This episode has been brought to by CHAI sax special blend😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pragati.T


HIII Mera dii, GE to u and GM to me...šŸ˜› The epi was just a filler for me nothing much happend, thy are streching KP confrontation where P'll refuse to go with him...šŸ¤” It's gud to see K is trying hard for forgiveness from P, but do such kind of mistakes deserve saari...? I know i'm sounding rude but it's almost lyk first u murder someone and then say saari... In my opinion his srry is not sufficeint to redeem his character. Krshan has to work really hrd to get in the eyes of veiwers again. BUt it was really nice to see sussena's welcoming K so warmlyy, though he don't deserve such kind of respect after what he has done with their daughter...
The only way through which cv's can redeem him again is by showing him doing efforts to save ganga from amma. BTW do u think sajjan has bring ganga to teach amma a lesson...??? i oubt on that...šŸ˜• s.s is the person who'll only see his own phayedaaa, he must b having some plan in his mind and cv' s r gonna take dis suspence longgg. Lyk he played a smart game to stop ksr not leaving TN with ksrrma, i think something lyk dis is going in his mind...


SS in one interview said he's got to fix someone's thinking...who else needs a big fix in her thinking but Takurain and now Komal too.

POPS are doing a nautanki here, letting viewers wonder if this girl is for Krishna especially with Prats refusing to return to his house with him. Krishna is not that dumb after the recent fiasco nor is he disloyal to Prats that way. This is could well be a track where Krishna proves to Prats that he knows the difference between right and wrong. A chance for Krishna ban jayeee subsidary of Prats ban jayeee.šŸ˜†

So now you have started reading my posts.šŸ˜ƒšŸ‘




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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mia12

šŸ‘šŸ¼ This episode has been brought to by CHAI sax special blend😃


That it is. In one day he was treated like royalty all because he learned the truth adn came to ask for forgiveness, he has graduated from the Sax school of Sanskaar.
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Hi Mera,

How are you? Been reading your posts. But no time to post any replies.

When K is not around, P shows lots of love and sympathy for K, but when he came to beg forgiveness, she behaves as if she is angry. She has right to be angry, but if you are really angry with a person, then her behaviour would have been like krishna (before he learnt the truth). i.e. Even though she loves him, she should still get angry at him even when he is not around.

What we actually see if the P defends K to everyone, and does not get mad at him at all during the whole fiasco, but now suddenly she is mad at him. That sounds odd to me. What do you think?


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Good Post...
Pratigya should forgive Krishna... But look at the bright side, matb we can have scenes Krishna wooing her all over again... 😊 But i hope they dont drag it, it was suppose to be short seperation... but its kindd of long now... 😭
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Originally posted by: magesh18

Hi Mera,

How are you? Been reading your posts. But no time to post any replies.

When K is not around, P shows lots of love and sympathy for K, but when he came to beg forgiveness, she behaves as if she is angry. She has right to be angry, but if you are really angry with a person, then her behaviour would have been like krishna (before he learnt the truth). i.e. Even though she loves him, she should still get angry at him even when he is not around.

What we actually see if the P defends K to everyone, and does not get mad at him at all during the whole fiasco, but now suddenly she is mad at him. That sounds odd to me. What do you think?



Hi Magesh

Prats has always been one to stew in her emotions and over-think things rather than express her feelings. Krishna was the opposite when he met Prats. She has tamed him some but she has learned little from him. She is still guarded, emotions always under control that only flow out of desperation or when the clock runs out for thinking. Look at how she sat around at maike defending her silence as the only choice she had so Krishna doesn't get hurt hearing the truth about his mother. Ultimately when the talaak papers came she had no choice but to act for desperate times calls for desperate measures. She let things stew for long even after she was repeatedly warned by Shamu (her mentor), Naina and Arusi not to let things stay that way for too long as it may make things worse. But she was ziddi about it in a dumb sort of way and refused to budge, instead sat moping around.

Prats is just doing the nautanki she's learned from Krishna over the past year. He was conned by his mother, she did try to explain but few people have an open mind to hear the truth about their parents or family members. Somehow facing the truth about family or friends affects their own sense of ego on some level. People take pride when its' wonderful stuff but get defensive of criticism of family members.

Krishna has regretted and admitted to his mistake, asked forgiveness of each of the Sax family members. What more does she want? It takes courage to see the truth for what it is be it family, friend, stranger or foe. Krishna fell for his mother's tricks for she was very convincing.

As I said in the last paragraph of my orig. post, Prats is wasting valuable time in her marriage by asking Krishna for guarantees. Even if he does give it to her it will be nothing more than mere words.

Why not let out the anger, yell at him like she did at the temple, pour her heart out and cry, release the pain, hurt and anger and the fear she felt while living through it all instead of pretending she is in control and that thinking about it cognitively will fix it. Thinking and emotions are two ends of the same spectrum, one of the mind and the other of the heart. Mind can mislead but never the heart/soul. She has always been a slow processor. She's had time to sit and wallow in her plight all these days she's been at maike. Instead of moving forward her pride is standing in the way and she wants Krishna to prove himself. Good luck lady! Next time they have a fall out about something her expectations of him will be higher for she would have moved the goal post. She is busy trying to reform Krishna but forgetting that she has much to learn in her journey in life as well. One can never be a good role model when stuck in their ways.

Prats is in essence punishing him for putting her through the pain and agony of the past few weeks. Now if that's not an ego trip what is?


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Originally posted by: riyya6

Good Post...

Pratigya should forgive Krishna... But look at the bright side, matb we can have scenes Krishna wooing her all over again... 😊 But i hope they dont drag it, it was suppose to be short seperation... but its kindd of long now... 😭


Prats is on a nautanki run. Generally, women want their mistakes to be forgiven and forgotten immediately but the men have to pay for it longer until they are satisfied. Find that strange, Prats needs to forgive and move on. Krishna was tortured by his mother and now biwi wants her turn too? Grow up Prats and move on. Life is too short to be playing nautanki.
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Originally posted by: MERARAI


Hi Magesh

Prats has always been one to stew in her emotions and over-think things rather than express her feelings. Krishna was the opposite when he met Prats. She has tamed him some but she has learned little from him. She is still guarded, emotions always under control that only flow out of desperation or when the clock runs out for thinking. Look at how she sat around at maike defending her silence as the only choice she had so Krishna doesn't get hurt hearing the truth about his mother. Ultimately when the talaak papers came she had no choice but to act for desperate times calls for desperate measures. She let things stew for long even after she was repeatedly warned by Shamu (her mentor), Naina and Arusi not to let things stay that way for too long as it may make things worse. But she was ziddi about it in a dumb sort of way and refused to budge, instead sat moping around.

Prats is just doing the nautanki she's learned from Krishna over the past year. He was conned by his mother, she did try to explain but few people have an open mind to hear the truth about their parents or family members. Somehow facing the truth about family or friends affects their own sense of ego on some level. People take pride when its' wonderful stuff but get defensive of criticism of family members.

Krishna has regretted and admitted to his mistake, asked forgiveness of each of the Sax family members. What more does she want? It takes courage to see the truth for what it is be it family, friend, stranger or foe. Krishna fell for his mother's tricks for she was very convincing.

As I said in the last paragraph of my orig. post, Prats is wasting valuable time in her marriage by asking Krishna for guarantees. Even if he does give it to her it will be nothing more than mere words.

Why not let out the anger, yell at him like she did at the temple, pour her heart out and cry, release the pain, hurt and anger and the fear she felt while living through it all instead of pretending she is in control and that thinking about it cognitively will fix it. Thinking and emotions are two ends of the same spectrum, one of the mind and the other of the heart. Mind can mislead but never the heart/soul. She has always been a slow processor. She's had time to sit and wallow in her plight all these days she's been at maike. Instead of moving forward her pride is standing in the way and she wants Krishna to prove himself. Good luck lady! Next time they have a fall out about something her expectations of him will be higher for she would have moved the goal post. She is busy trying to reform Krishna but forgetting that she has much to learn in her journey in life as well. One can never be a good role model when stuck in their ways.

Prats is in essence punishing him for putting her through the pain and agony of the past few weeks. Now if that's not an ego trip what is?




You have a great way of putting your thoughts to words. šŸ‘ Nice Analysis.

As you said, Never once pratigya felt that she lost trust and love for K. Actually she was more concerned about him. When she has not actually lost her trust and love for K, saying so really makes her fake.

Instead of generally saying trust and love lost, if she had got K to get the dhaba back into service on his own, prove that he is resourceful and can be a man on his own, it would have made more purpose.

I dont know what should K do to regain trust and love of P? He has already begged forgiveness. What other action she expects? Maybe she should spell it out.

But P always only voices out fundas to K. She never tells K explicitly what to do. The same thing happened, when K was searching for the right job Never once P suggested what kind of job should K look for.

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