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barbie2011

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Hey all; I know the tite is a little different but I could not think of anything better.I understand, we all are hoping that anant will break the engagement based on the SBS segment, and SBS has not lied till now ,so there is no reason to doubt their news.

There are some thing that I am not able to understand if they are really necessary? And these questions kept disturbing me and I wanted to share it with you all and see what you guys think abt it. Please share your view and advices. I know its alittle lengthy but please take your time to read it and please comment.

1) why is it necessary for Anant to disclose about navya rgt now? He can just tallk abt cancelling the engagment saying he is not ready for it or he does not think shagun will be a good fit. or he needs some more time to make this decision..

If he discloses abt Navya rgt now(irrespctive of how the zombis wouldreact)...what abt Navya's family?

Navya has not been expressing her feelings becasue she was thinking abt Anant's family happiness, so how will she react when the news reach her family. she will be in more trouble, and i guess then she will also stop stammering(lol).

2) Also, why are CV's dragging this so much, the engagement should break, but what is the need to humiliate the entire family in front of outsiders,😕 by doing this in the day of Engagement, this is not needed. They should show more diplomatic and thoughful way of communicating with family rather than making a fool of them in front of the entire society. I understand ,everybody(including myself) is waiting to see Udi bab's face when that happens😆 but still I'll not like to see him humilated in front of everyone..that's just my POV.

3) Navy's confusion is really getting irritating now. She cannot sail on two boats. She is behaving as she feels but she is not understanding how it affects Anant. I remember, Ritz dialogues when ,navya told them abt ILU. Rits said does Anant even understand how it will affect Navya..will anyone think, how does Navya's changing behaviour affect Anant also...I understand that Navya did all the things out of her love and concern for Anant. So as that is true, and now you know he loves you too, why would you want him to get engagaged to someone else? why do you want to stop him by taking some action? For a momment, if we believe she is strong enough to accept this and move on..should she not think abt how will anant accept this and will he ever be happy? also what abt shagun?(even if I hate her and want her out ASAP, I need to address her in my POV, because Navya should think abt shagun as just another girl, becaseshe doe not know thereal shagun as we all do.) Should navya not think that this will affect her life too. why should she stop anant form breaing the engagement, if is she does not have courage to be in the picture, thats upto her, but she should atleast support Anants decision to save Anant and Shagun from a forceful reaction.

I guess I am done with my questions,I know there are a lot of Why's in there and my rambling. I dont know how you all would react but let me tell you one thing...by writing this out, I am feeling much better... I guess i am too emotinally involved withNavya...

and i do not know if it is a god thing or bad???

Pease comment if you find any sense in my rambling.I hope you do..or else

P.S>This is just my POV.. I, in no means wanted to hurt anyones emotions, so do not take it personal, please respond.

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Deadlydynamite

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Posted: 14 years ago

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ok barbie calm down dear so many Qs relax

let me answer them

1)No it is not necessary to disclose abt Navya now .More imp is not to get married to some1 u dont even love as it will not only spoil Anya's life but that cartoon's life even .i hate to say this but that cartoon (whatever n however she be) she doesnt deserve heartbreak but then she easily believed her sister n now is infatuated with Anant(calling it love) so it shud be sooner

2) i know there shud not be any drag n this thing shud be stopped b4 engagement u r absolutely right abt Family's reputation but then again sweety this is a daily soap n even its a serious business all they want is TRPs for which they require hi points .N we all know in India all kinds of celebration festivals pregnancies are all high points .if they break the engagement much b4 the Big day it might not capture eyeballs blame it to the Indian viewers mentality they r a sucker for melodramas high points in serials .Engagements n Marriages r biggest trump cards for any show so u see thats the reason all major twists are intertwined around such celebration only

n sadly it wont change so even here the case wont be different this might happen in Maha episode only to catch more eyeballs

3)now thats a very big Q😆 but lemme answer yes navi shud think abt Anant but then gain we cant really blame her u remember when during the emotional outburst of Anya in the car when anant was pouring out his feelings he said 1 thing that he has to chose between navya n his family navya knows how close Anant is to his family n natuarally she is the lead so she has to be tyaag ki devi so she will never want Anant to chose .If anant at that time rather than being helpless might have told he wud talk to his family abt their relation rather than whining around in despair it might had instilled faith n courage in Navya for understanding him more .Since anant himself is emotionally weak then how can navya had asked her to chose .she might have thought abt the repercussions therafter he is just 19 n we know how lunatic his family members so she cudnt take that risk too but m sure if anant breaks his engagement then Navya stance will change n abt the support thing The chances might be dimmer she might not want to hurt shagun given her selfless nature but then again if Anant is able to make her understand that it will only save sagun from heartbreak she might support him .U know she can never disobey Anant .Anant jab bi haq jamata bekarar navya ji uski sab baat man leti hai😉

ok bristi now even i want to add something here there is 1 thing which sometimes irritates me abt Anant that he talks much but no action he says he ll do this that but he doesnt do much he shud remember Action speak louder than words .so b4 talking much he shud pull up his socks n do something.no offence to any1 here😳

hope my anwers might eased ur tensions a bit

Edited by manojshonafan - 14 years ago

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barbie2011

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: manojshonafan
ok barbie calm down dear so many Qs relax
let me answer them
1)No it is not necessary to disclose abt Navya now .More imp is not to get married to some1 u dont even love as it will not only spoil Anya's life but that cartoon's life even .i hate to say this but that cartoon (whatever n however she be) she doesnt deserve heartbreak but then she easily believed her sister n now is infatuated with Anant(calling it love) so it shud be sooner
2) i know there shud not be any drag n this thing shud be stopped b4 engagement u r absolutely right abt Family's reputation but then again sweety this is a daily soap n even its a serious business all they want is TRPs for which they require hi points .N we all know in India all kinds of celebration festivals pregnancies are all high points .if they break the engagement much b4 the Big day it might not capture eyeballs blame it to the Indian viewers mentality they r a sucker for melodramas high points in serials .Engagements n Marriages r biggest trump cards for any show so u see thats the reason all major twists are intertwined around such celebration only
n sadly it wont change so even here the case wont be different this might happen in Maha episode only to catch more eyeballs
3)now thats a very big Q😆 but lemme answer yes navi shud think abt Anant but then gain we cant really blame her u remember when during the emotional outburst of Anya in the car when anant was pouring out his feelings he said 1 thing that he has to chose between navya n his family navya knows how close Anant is to his family n natuarally she is the lead so she has to be tyaag ki devi so she will never want Anant to chose .If anant at that time rather than being helpless might have told he wud talk to his family abt their relation rather than whining around in despair it might had instilled faith n courage in Navya for understanding him more .Since anant himself is emotionally weak then how can navya had asked her to chose .she might have thought abt the repercussions therafter he is just 19 n we know how lunatic his family members so she cudnt take that risk too but m sure if anant breaks his engagement then Navya stance will change n abt the support thing The chances might be dimmer she might not want to hurt shagun given her selfless nature but then again if Anant is able to make her understand that it will only save sagun from heartbreak she might support him .U know she can never disobey Anant .Anant jab bi haq jamata bekarar navya ji uski sab baat man leti hai😉

ok bristi now even i want to add something here there is 1 thing which sometimes irritates me abt Anant that he talks much but no action he says he ll do this that but he doesnt do much he shud remember Action speak louder than words .so b4 talking much he shud pull up his socks n do something.no offence to any1 here😳

hope my anwers might eased ur tensions a bit

Thanks for replying manoj, muje laga, ki mera post itna lamba aur bematlab tha ki koi reply hi nai karega...your reply made me feel better...

and i agree with what you say...As i said i am too emotionally attached withNAVYA, to think this just as a Daily saop...and this TRP is just not there for me...

To your action, I agreeto what you say, but now it looks he is redy to take soem sserious actions, lets see kal kya hota hai..

Thanks for replying again

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Deadlydynamite

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: barbie2011

Thanks for replying manoj, muje laga, ki mera post itna lamba aur bematlab tha ki koi reply hi nai karega...your reply made me feel better...
and i agree with what you say...As i said i am too emotionally attached withNAVYA, to think this just as a Daily saop...and this TRP is just not there for me...
To your action, I agreeto what you say, but now it looks he is redy to take soem sserious actions, lets see kal kya hota hai..
Thanks for replying again

even i m quite attached to Navya but then again we cant ignore the truth its a show for us its more than a show r emotions attached but for the channel its just a business which they want to be profited so they will use all possible ways to grab eyeballs viewers consideration takes a backseat here

N abt anant from the last week he has done only talks nothing more so i m disappointed in him he shud have clearly said to UDI baba yesterday only he had some time b4 his baba came y is he so damn scared as that taklu gonna eat him alive .Pyaar kiya hai to nibhane ki himmat honi chahiye .So anant brace urself n dont disappoint me today atleast😆

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barbie2011

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Posted: 14 years ago

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@manoj: I agree to you manoj..lets hope aaj kuch acha deknemile...

I will get going and catch some sleep now..navya ke chakkar mere raat ke 1.30 baj gaye...kal jaldi office bhi jaana hai...talk to you soon..

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harini

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Posted: 14 years ago

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even i agree wid ur thinkin...y to bring abt navya ryt nw...anant shd nly stop d enagement n say she cant think himself gettin engage wid dat cartoon ...n if he disclose nythin abt navya to nybdy den defi ...navya's family wil cum to knw...n ol dat stuff n i don wan der enagemnet n marriage cermony nw itself let dez two spend sum more clg days ...clg romance ...😳😳😳😳
n abt ur 2nd point...its perfectly ryt dat anant's family shd nt b humiliated infront f everybdy ...so before engagemnt itself anant shd do sumthin atleast before a day...bt m very excited to see rama n shagun's reactions😆😆😆😆 ...dat lady rama hw she said to navya dat cum for d engagement wen she knws dat sumthin z b/w anant n navya😡😡😡😡😡...aaarhhh ...
n abt ur 3rd point ...i don think navya wil say nt to stop d engagemnt😳😳😳😳 as per d article dey said navya n anant wil meet n discuss together hw to tackle dis engagement problem😉😉😉 ...so chill she wil defi help anant ...bt before she wil pretend lyk he shd nt stop n ol bt ritz , appy or may b her self mind itself may push navya to fight for der love...as she also anant as much as he does😳😳😳

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anantanant

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Barbie, good post...you are asking all sensible questions... As Manoj says it is a show and there's trps and profits involved...any sensible person in Anant's place would've said something by now...remember Shaheer in the IF interview said Anant should share his feelings with his family, but he does not know what's in store in the script?

Sadly, we viewers get entangled in the story so much it stops being a show for us ( i was going mad last weekend, looking for promos, updates, anything abt the show and I check the forum at odd hours like a crazy person!)

I guess we need to keep the perspective that it's a show at the end of the day, daily one at that, so it will come in its own pace with its twists and turns... let's just enjoy the good bits and hope we get to see some good stuff along the way...

That's why I like the forum - it's a good place to vent feelings, laugh together, find other souls who are equally happy/mad/exasperated...and for whom (like you and me) Navya (serial) is more than a show!

Sorry for the long(ish) rant, hope it helps :-)

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Reshmi

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Posted: 14 years ago

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hi barbie,

i'm also disturbed with the present story line...its giving me headaches...

Anant should'nt disclose abt Navya right now...He can tell his dad and baba that he cant marry such a dufer like Shagun...He can explain the reason for his sickness(skipping Navya part)...Mohan bhiyya can narrate his situation and help Anant...

Artices and SBS confirmed that the engagement wont happen...The show makers just want to drag the engagement cancellation drama until the maha episode...Hope the mess will b cleared sensibly without dragging further...

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without-fathom

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Excellent and thoughtful post Urmi 👏

You raise some questions that have been glaring in the face for a while now - and these are factors the CVs need to give serious thought to. When I said in my other posts that I was disappointed with Mohan's role in the Anant - Mohan conversation, I was referring to something like this. The CVs misused their screen space utterly, but doing nothing except getting Mohan to tell Anant how dire and urgent the matter was, repeatedly, paraphrased differently each time. They could have done far better with Mohan indicating some direction - say for example, Mohan pointing out what you are, telling Anant to focus his talk with Baba/Dad on cancelling the roka, and not going into the Navya aspect right now. It would have been a 10X better scene to see the brothers actually make conversation about a solution, and about the best way to go about it, instead of just saying over and over how important it was to do something now! Sigh, so much for my rockstar!

As for Navya's twin side predicament - yes please, someone needs to pull an end to her gemini tactics already! I understand she is in a dilemma - but here is the guy assuring her beyond himself of fixing this - she has not a word of back up to give him? If I was him, I'd have serious issues even standing up for myself, forget her!

Anyway - thanks for the post again, and the PM! Good job raising those points!

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skydome

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Hey all; I know the tite is a little different but I could not think of anything better. I understand, we all are hoping that anant will break the engagement based on the SBS segment, and SBS has not lied till now ,so there is no reason to doubt their news.

There are some thing that I am not able to understand if they are really necessary? And these questions kept disturbing me and I wanted to share it with you all and see what you guys think abt it. Please share your view and advices. I know its alittle lengthy but please take your time to read it and please comment.

1) why is it necessary for Anant to disclose about navya rgt now? He can just tallk abt cancelling the engagment saying he is not ready for it or he does not think shagun will be a good fit. or he needs some more time to make this decision..

If he discloses abt Navya rgt now(irrespctive of how the zombis wouldreact)...what abt Navya's family?

Navya has not been expressing her feelings becasue she was thinking abt Anant's family happiness, so how will she react when the news reach her family. she will be in more trouble, and i guess then she will also stop stammering(lol). You are right, it is not necessary to disclose about Navya now. Anant can say that he is only 19- needs to complete is education and that he is not mentally prepared to get engaged to Shagun now.

2) Also, why are CV's dragging this so much, the engagement should break, but what is the need to humiliate the entire family in front of outsiders,😕 by doing this in the day of Engagement, this is not needed. They should show more diplomatic and thoughful way of communicating with family rather than making a fool of them in front of the entire society. I understand ,everybody(including myself) is waiting to see Udi bab's face when that happens😆 but still I'll not like to see him humilated in front of everyone..that's just my POV. True, the engagement should end in a more private way (not after it is officially announced and not infront of all the guests - that is the on going trend, I hope Navya CVs will be different)

3) Navy's confusion is really getting irritating now. She cannot sail on two boats. She is behaving as she feels but she is not understanding how it affects Anant. I remember, Ritz dialogues when ,navya told them abt ILU. Rits said does Anant even understand how it will affect Navya..will anyone think, how does Navya's changing behaviour affect Anant also...I understand that Navya did all the things out of her love and concern for Anant. So as that is true, and now you know he loves you too, why would you want him to get engagaged to someone else? why do you want to stop him by taking some action? For a momment, if we believe she is strong enough to accept this and move on..should she not think abt how will anant accept this and will he ever be happy? also what abt shagun?(even if I hate her and want her out ASAP, I need to address her in my POV, because Navya should think abt shagun as just another girl, becaseshe doe not know thereal shagun as we all do.) Should navya not think that this will affect her life too. why should she stop anant form breaing the engagement, if is she does not have courage to be in the picture, thats upto her, but she should atleast support Anants decision to save Anant and Shagun from a forceful reaction.

I guess I am done with my questions,I know there are a lot of Why's in there and my rambling. I dont know how you all would react but let me tell you one thing...by writing this out, I am feeling much better... I guess i am too emotinally involved withNavya...

and i do not know if it is a god thing or bad??? Here Navya is confused (guess because she is too young - only 19), but again her special characteristic is she is more matured than the present generation. And also what about her family ?????? Till now we have not seen any involvement/ concerns about her family's POV with Navya and Anant's relationship... Will her family think that it is appropriate for Navya to get involved in a relation at such a young age (they are already having problems with her older sister)..

Pease comment if you find any sense in my rambling.I hope you do..or else

P.S>This is just my POV.. I, in no means wanted to hurt anyones emotions, so do not take it personal, please respond.

Thanks for opening the discussion.

The above questions are also questioned by many viewers. We pray and hope Navya's CV concentrate on the story, the character and not on stretching things unnecessarily for the maha episode or to make it more attractive for viewers to put exciting events of YRKH, Navya and Pratigya on one day ... this recent trend is not the best way to go (this is an urgent request to Navya's CV, director, producer)

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