as mentioned in another post...
she is vulnerable and lookin for love. maybe wants to get even with devyani...or to give her benefit of doubt, maybe testing the waters with ssp and get something concrete against him, instead of all the grey borderline stuff...so she can kick some ass...hopefully his...
he is screwed up except with her...whom maybe he genuinely loves...after all devyani is too freaked about portraying the perfect image of a maryada wife...and a control freak for whom image is all and controlling everyones life a must...ssp does blame her for gaurav issues...
not ethically right...but cv way of testing our thresholds as veiwers...keep pushing the envelope...there is a fine balance and a delicate relationship between jeeja saali relationships and very easy to tilt over...but uttara i am not sure if this is for real because she is emotionally vulnerable or an act...he adores her and she is the only one who has the special glasses to see the vulnerable caring side of him...but then she did kill to survive and did give rastogi a taste of his medicine...by roping devyani in at that time...interesting in hindsight how rastogi was in the same hotel, where they saw ssp coming out of...only one clandestine place in rohtak
i had read somewhere once in english literature that widows had the best lives: morality of having been married, pity and social acceptance and respect for not being married anymore and the freedom to do whatever the hell they want...and getting away with it most times...
funny but the metamorphisis of uttara, and the glow after being released from an abusive relationship...flying high...not a surprise but made me think of it...
or maybe it is a reality pinch for devyani...who needs enemies with friends and relatives like these...in this household...with imli on the side...for extra tartness...no pun intended...
somehow my gut is still screaming...that this is part 1 of an act yet to unfold...or maybe women always get the bad rap, but men flirt and get away with murder and the feminist side of me coming out...but why is she alone to blame...even if she is going along for the ride and her personal ethical moral compass is no longer functioning anymore...! she like everyone else there, going with the flow or taken with the wave of emotions...
I am not approving of her behaviour, let me make that very clear but still willing to give her the benefit of the doubt,... for now!
at the end of the day, we are all human...and not necessarily all saints...and emotionally vulnerable seeing what her life has been all about...domestic abuse, seperation/rejection from daughter...sees her sister who has it all good and maybe the green dragon of envy is cropping up and taking over...
very interesting...
but just my humble opinion and long winded take on the current status quo.
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