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Hello there! Nice post.😊I was going to make a post myself but you've pointed out some of the things going on in my mind so I thought I'll reply to you here. ^^
The first scene of today's episode was so bittersweet..I am so glad Anant did not misunderstand Navya's viewpoint.. He did not question her on her nonchalance about the whole issue, did not ask her why she wasn't trying to understand his plight, did not blame her for not being there for him when he needed her the most.. I didn't think I'd like today's episode even one bit especially with the comments going around about Navya and her constant rona dhona which will get extended for a long time. But I did like it, somewhat. Okay, honestly, I only liked the first scene. You're right about it being bittersweet but...I think Anant didn't misunderstand Navya because she wasn't nonchalant. It's quite the opposite. The girl is clearly heartbroken. She was breaking down and crying everywhere but now she has put herself together and in yesterday's episode, she had made it clear that she's making a sacrifice for others. Even if they haven't said the L word to each other, she loves him but she feels that she owes this much to her parents who love her and trust her so much.
When I say she is being nonchalant I am referring to her actions in the last 2-3 episodes. .The show took a leap of about 4 days and during that time we saw how Navya avoided Anant..I feel in a way she should have been there to listen to what he has to say..As Anant himself said yestererday he feels suffocated everywhere he goes and the only one who could understand his situation is shutting him out..I totally understand Navya's decision to end things with him but that does not mean she has to avoid him all the time..Especially when he has come to her, asking for some comfort, some answers from time to time..
When I say she is being nonchalant I am referring to her actions in the last 2-3 episodes. .The show took a leap of about 4 days and during that time we saw how Navya avoided Anant..I feel in a way she should have been there to listen to what he has to say..As Anant himself said yestererday he feels suffocated everywhere he goes and the only one who could understand his situation is shutting him out..I totally understand Navya's decision to end things with him but that does not mean she has to avoid him all the time..Especially when he has come to her, asking for some comfort, some answers from time to time..
He understood her..He could see how much it was hurting her to do all these..Loved when he said "Why can't you think about yourself for once? Why can't we think about ourselves?". Beautiful way of putting it.😊 I was left with a lump in my throat at the end of this moment. I feel for Anant, mostly. At least Navya is living in a place where she gets love, is understood. On the other hand, Anant is living with people who don't even want to know how he feels. His own people are only concerned about their own agendas. Even though I'm a female, I can really relate to Anant. I think the moment struck a chord with me because I know what he's feeling. He doesn't have anywhere to go, confusion is eating up his mind. I really feel sorry for him.& I think, this isn't running away. He just doesn't have any SHELTER, where he can find some solace or peace of mind.
I was angry with the CVs earlier this week for the recent character progress in Anant but they have once again shown that there is a bigger picture. BUT I'm still angry with the so-called traditional Bajpayees and the Banarasians. They will never make sense to me.
Lovely way of putting Anant's state of mind in words, couldn't agree more..Navya has a loving family..Appy and Ritz are there to listen to her..But poor Anant has to deal with his mess all alone..O
Lovely way of putting Anant's state of mind in words, couldn't agree more..Navya has a loving family..Appy and Ritz are there to listen to her..But poor Anant has to deal with his mess all alone..O
I feel somewhere her admission of her plight would have provided a little bit of comfort to Anant's troubled mind..😊Laddoo598, this would be a great comfort to both Anant and those watching his suffering. But I feel that this would have made things worse for him. If Navya has really made up her mind that she's not going to do anything about this, then telling him about how much she's hurting, how much she loves him, I think that would be putting a burden on him. What I want is for her to go speak to her dad, who is the person she probably feels the closest to, and ask him the rights and wrongs of this. This would be a huge risk, yes, but it's time they realised that they need some mature advice. I feel that Navya's dad would try to think objectively about this and let her have her say even if the rest of the family is scandalised. I want her to realise that this sacrifice is not needed. Anant is a great guy and they haven't done anything wrong, so to speak, so there's no reason why this charade has to go on any longer.
Hmm I see where you are coming from..Navya does not need to proclaim her love but at the same time she should not shut him out too..She should sympathize with him and comfort him as a friend at least..When he told her that feels like running away from all this, he feels suffocated at home and all, her reaction to his confession seemed dull to me..Wahi same old 'Hum e yeh sab bhul na hoga Anant, family ko dukh nahin pohochana chahiye" He knows all this already. Remember, he was the one who backed out first, he was the one who thought about the reaction of the families first..What he needed at that point of time was some comfort, some sympathy..She should have told him that she understands him..Just a simple "Main samajh sakti hu Anant" would have gone a long way..I thought if Anant knew that all this was just as hard for Navya as it is for him then he would feel a bit of comfort..Again thats just my point of view..
Hmm I see where you are coming from..Navya does not need to proclaim her love but at the same time she should not shut him out too..She should sympathize with him and comfort him as a friend at least..When he told her that feels like running away from all this, he feels suffocated at home and all, her reaction to his confession seemed dull to me..Wahi same old 'Hum e yeh sab bhul na hoga Anant, family ko dukh nahin pohochana chahiye" He knows all this already. Remember, he was the one who backed out first, he was the one who thought about the reaction of the families first..What he needed at that point of time was some comfort, some sympathy..She should have told him that she understands him..Just a simple "Main samajh sakti hu Anant" would have gone a long way..I thought if Anant knew that all this was just as hard for Navya as it is for him then he would feel a bit of comfort..Again thats just my point of view..
Lets see if Navya actually manages to find Anant or someone else gets to him before she does..I am still skeptic about Navya's mom finding out about her and Anant so soon..There is already enough drama going on, we don't need another twist.. Maybe Navya's mum finding out is the right thing to happen here. In my opinion, too much screen space is given to the wrong type of drama, Navya crying and feeling helpless, calls going back and forth about where Anant could possibly be, the Bajpayee house circus, etc etc. It's time to close the generation gap and show us that 2 young people who love each other don't have to elope or resort to other drastic measures to be with each other.
I feel its too early to get the parents involved already..Anant and Navya are still not aware about the extent of their emotions for each other..If they were they would not go for the break up option without even trying to save the relationship first..If they themselves are not ready to fight for the relationship then whats the point of letting the parents know? I feel both of them need time to think things through, to talk between themselves and decide if they are going to go to separation or stay together..The spotlight needs to be taken away from them..Once this engagement horror drama ends the CVs can start Renu's track..After seeing Renu's marriage in trouble Navya's parents will be a little more liberal towards her relationship with Anant, seeing how arranged marriage at a young age did not work too well for their other daughter..And the shoft of focus to Renu's track will also give AnYa enough time to realize that there relationship is worth fighting for..
Thanks for the thought provoking reply Aimin..Will look forward to your posts in the forum..😛
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