SA|JW-'Original' Riddhima concept-PG.10&NOTE-pg.13

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Posted: 14 years ago
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To start off with I shall say - " This forum NEVER ceases to amaze me".

The main point of discussion of this topic - The zillionth times Shilpa Anand and Jennifer Winget has been pittied against each other, in numerous comparision topics.

What I have never been able to understand is WHY do these two ladies need to be compared each and everytime? WHY is there ever a NEED to compare?

I for one, believe that there's absolutely NO point in comparing two different individuals in any aspect.Be it in any field.Tell me how, two persons with different capabilties be compared?


There's a rule in this forum which gets applied to every member by default -
If you like KaJen, then you automatically dislike KaSh/KaSu/Other couples.
If you like KaSh, then you automatically dislike KaJen/KaSu/Other couples.
Like wise, if you are a KaShian, you are already at a war with KaJenians.
And again, if you are a KaJenian, you are at war with KaShian without even having the knowledge of why these two groups are at war in the first place.And I hope one day, it shall fade away.

The condition of the forum is such that, the moment you enter you are sorted into groups, there is no such place for the ones who are actually prefers being neutral.I have never been able to really understand the reason behind the animosity which exists between these two groups.

As I was saying, WHY do we need to compare Shilpa Anand and Jennifer Winget?
Both these actresses who played Riddhima, have different capabilities, different skills, different personality.

Shilpa Anand - who essayed the role of Riddhima, the very first Riddhima, the original Riddhima.She has showed her potential in whatever character she played.No doubt, she gave Riddhima the initail push, made the viewers love the character, and the character inturn gave her recognition.Till the time she played Riddhima,she's done it beautifully.

Jennifer Winget - when she stepped in as Riddhima, she was bound to be compared with the previous actresses who played Riddhima.And yet, she proves her mettle with good her acting skills, and once again made viewers love the character Riddhima.

Take an example here, SRK is reffered as the King Khan of Bollywood, but does that mean Salman Khan cant act? No, people do it mainly because SRK has more hits to his credit.
But this does not take away the credit for what they are known for - Good Acting Skills.

Or take real life example here, a student excels at mathematics, but does that mean he isnt good at English? No, it means he has a slight edge over in mathematics.

Just as in Shilpa and Jen's case, just because one has played Riddhima very well doesnt mean the other cant or that one is superior over the other.It just means they are different, and different in a good way.

The two very important parts of a show/play/film are the - start and end.
Now that DMG's over, I can say that Shilpa gave Riddhima a beautiful start and Jennifer gave it a beautiful end.(Though I admit the story is equally important, but whatever harm or good was done to it was the job of thr creatives and the actors arent responsible)

Personally, I have liked Shilpa ever since the start of the show and Jen ever since she started playing Riddhima.Both these actresses have played Riddhima's character they way it was needed.Both were and are beautiful in their own way's and hence I dont find the need to compare them.Whom you like more or dislike is a matter of perspective and should be left to one's ownself, rather than indulging in bashing, or comparing the actors.

Since this is a public forum, everyone has a right to express their own opinions.
But the way you do it matters, you can always express opinions/criticism in a decent manner.

I guess that's all I had to say.
ShiJen - You both are different and yet good in whatever you do.So, keep it up :)

P.S : The topic wasnt intended to offend any of the groups.
Please do not take it in the wrong sense.I have friends from both these groups, and they are all very dear to me.

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There you go, some pics of Shona and JJ together :)

Credit for pics : ..-Marj-..
Edited by herms_angel - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I simply love you for opening this topic! Thank you soo much! I completely agree with you. There is absolutely no point of comparing Shilpa and Jenni together. Both are outstanding actresses and have done their part really well. Likes and dislikes are always gonna be there, but you need to express your dislikes in a respectful manner.

Originally posted by: herms_angel

There's a rule in this forum which gets applied to every member by default -
If you like KaJen, then you automatically dislike KaSh/KaSu/Other couples.
If you like KaSh, then you automatically dislike KaJen/KaSu/Other couples.
Like wise, if you are a KaShian, you are already at a war with KaJenians.
And again, if you are a KaJenian, you are at war with KaShian without even having the knowledge of why these two groups are at war in the first place.

I'm glad you stated that. It's true for most of the people and neutrals pretty much don't have any place in this forum. It's either this way or that way, which according to me, is pretty childish.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Couldn't agree with you more.

Comparison is a complete pointless and baseless issue. Every individual has it's good and bad qualities, which can not be taken away by any means.

Coming to Shilpa Anand and Jennifer Winget, both have essayed the role of Riddhima marvelously. Where Shilpa raised the character, Jennifer wrapped it up beautifully. My personal favourite is Jennifer, but that doesn't mean that I hate or dislike Shilpa. Both have individually performed brilliantly. Rather than comparing, we should thank them and appreciate them for the fabulous job they have done. Without them the character Riddhima, would've not have the same charm, as it does now.

All in one, rather than basing anyone, we should learn how to respect and appreciate everyone's views. Bashing and hating will lead us nowhere, so why not value everyone's opinions and live in a peaceful and happy environment.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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agree wid wateva u said...

n yeah must have taken a lot to right the crect thing=)...

so true thrz no grup for the neutral ppl...:p...bt still thr r the ksgians;)...i myself didnt dislike jennifer winget ...bt i remember as soon as shilpa enterd the shw sum "fans" strted making tpics criticizing the dhanno seq n all...so it was obvious it wud instigate Sa fans...i guess the main fight strted frm thr...dunno..:|

nyway...i wud too be happy mif this war ends:)...i m a SA fan bt i too have frenz on both d sides so guess i understand=)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Medzi_ARian... Thanks a ton :)
Yeah, I know.That's why I have been compelled to open this topic.
Jen and Shilpa are good in their own way, and I see no scope of comparision.I have always loved them both as Riddhima.
About the being neutral, I know I think it gets difficult for people to accept that a few can actually like them both equally.So, its either this way or that way.But yes, I shall also state that if there are people I dont understand, I have also found people who are quite sensible, and I'm glad I met them :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks for the post😊

Honestly i use to question myself that as well...where do fans like me fit??😕but i have finally got my answer long back & im doing what i want to do, i dont give a damn what others think of me!!

i love, respect & appreciate both shilpa & jen...& this kash & kajen fights don't change my opinion of any of them...coz i follow my heart & dont care to think what others feel or say...i really pitty those people who indulge themselves in mocking each other...whats the point...i guess only people with weak heart change their opinions & in the end, it hurts them only...i have witnessed this with some people, but surely time has done justice & some people got a good slap of their face, wont like to mention who im referring to (its not a kash or kajen related).

I do not know if the comparison will ever stop or not...but it has happened & why it happens no one knows, but i feel the reason behind all this is some fans of each group, 1 group thinks they r better then another & bang fights starts, i myself have witnessed some disgusting things people have said, only makes me feel sorry for the person, who has so much hate in them😕
...some fans think they r it & express their feeling very rudely, to purposely hurt others & that frustrates me, but i know their is no point in explaining to such crazy people, coz they just wont understand!!! & those who have chosen side (i know one group is more then another) then it just goes to show that u are all weak & just proved to others that u actually are like one of them, wonder why we even questioning such people, if we have changed just coz of them!!...honestly its sad...if that i was the case then i guess i should be just a shilpa fan & stop luving jen at all, just coz my loyalty got questioned by her fans, should i stop it & hate jen???...like someone mentioned not everyone is "bad"...i know some kajen fans who are very nice as well & are my friends as well...but that does not mean i will stop luving jen, just coz of some fans of hers question or suspect me on my luv for her!!...im not that weak, but sad to see that others are, especially from 1 particular group!!!

i wish people would express their feelings in a more respectful manner...by putting themselves in others shoes & thinking abt other fans groups!!

I feel sad to read that some people choose side, coz of people making them do it...honestly if that was the case...i would not have been loving shilpa & jen & also respecting them the same way i do...coz i have been hurt by some people as well, but that did not make me weak & just choose one side...i luv them both a lot & for some stupid people from fan groups im not going to change my view, i know for a fact that both kash & kajen have faced this issue, especially when arsh came back, then friendships have been cracked, coz of people choosing both or one more then another:(:(...oh well everyone has their own view...but i wish people stood up for the people they like, regardless of others sending them hate mails & stuff, coz its only a few who do it on purpose & everyone else get punished...just an example if i was forced to choose a side just coz some1 was suspecting me of my luv for both of them...i would not leave my other good friends, just coz of some stupid idiots!...but it sad it has happened for both fan groups...😔...we are not here to prove things to anyone & no one has right to question us!!!!



One more the fact people keep saying that jen or shilpa got bashed first ,before the war started & thats we fight back & all...then let me just inform u all that they're is no start to such things & u cant make claims & blame others,thinking that its only them doing wrong & thats v respond, not otherwise. E.g. Just read 1 fan saying that coz jen pics were burnt they started to dislike kash fans & blamed them for the start of fight,but what if they claim was wrong,how do they know it was kash fans & not others,during da same i saw crap being said abt shilpa as well,but that doesnt mean i start hating kajen fans,thats stupid why to make assumptions blame others for no reason & no mistake of theirs, even if people's assumptions are right for any fan group,that doesn't mean i blame the whole group for mistake of only a few...that only increases the differences & separates us!
I saw myself that when article came saying shilpa may replce jen as ridz,it created a big fight between 2 groups,now who was wrong their?so lets not say that v dont do wrong,until we are provoked..coz reality is no fangroup is perfect & no fangroup knows where to draw the line (so one can claim to best fan group),some people from both groups have put down others at some point on purpose,its only some people who do it & whole group gets bad name!...proud fans from any-group are people who use they brain & are sensible to all...even here i read some mentioning past stuff...i mean whts the need now,why is it happening here as well over original issue,if some people see the original issue as problem & start mentioning in their comments then naturally others will respond with their view,coz thats not the only issue that break ups us in 2 groups!...but glad misunderstandings got cleared before going out of hand,but sad that even here v r pointing fingers on other fangroups & saying that they r the only problem makers & thats why v fight,not otherwise,maybe we should understand the real meaning behind ones comments,coz they may also mean well as a comment has both ppsitive & negative way of saying & others understanding as well:)so lets put ourself in their shoes...before making such claims:


There is not need to take away credit from Great actors,especially if we liked them before & insult them just coz we dont like their fans & want to went out our anger & frustration ...thats the most disgusting option to support our favorite,by bashing & bringing others down...i will say wat i have witnesses those fans who turned into arsh or kash fans once again, never said anything bad abt kajen, coz they still respect kajen a lot, especially their off-screen friendship & even on-screen, but sad to see that those who were once kash fans & not anymore, have different approach, not all though only some, hope to see all fan groups change for the better:)...it really hurts when always kash fans are blamed, just coz 1 or 2 do mistake whole group get bad name & same for kajen, its not fair to this stuff, but sdly even here people are saying that "only thing" that is problem or rks them is SA being called original...then why claim jen as only best...think from both pov, no one has bad intentions, so stop blaming only the opposite fangroup...& stop saying everyone, coz not all are like that, just place yourself in same shoes & then speak, coz when on own everyone understands & when opposite, all blind...it hurts:(:(


Anyway lets just keep following our heart...& be proud of our choices...i live for myself & love who i want to...i don't need to prove things to others😊


Take care😛
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@tanya_dmgroxxx - Hey, first thanks for the comment.
To say, there exists many groups.
I never said, there isnt a group for neutral people.What I meant by it was, its a kind of mentality of the forum that if one likes A, it cannot like B.Nor did I intend to pinpoint any of the members/groups.
See, extremists exists everywhere, you cant really say from where and when it all started.There's really no concrete proof of that.
The reason I said, the animosity should come to an end soon, is because I'm fond of both the groups and I have friends from both of them.So, all I wish is peace :)
Edited by herms_angel - 14 years ago
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@ Ayesha87 - Thanks for the comment :)
I understand where you are coming from.
Its not that I'm still searching a place for myself in the forum.
I quite happy and content with what I have got.
I'm not trying to convince people to change their opinion or something, I'm happy with my choices and I'm glad people I know understand that.
Like I said before, extremists exists everywhere and there are the ones who take pleasure in such stuff.No particular group in any case can be held responsible for the animosity or be blamed for anything.
Its good you follow your heart, for that shall keep you happy :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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superb post 👏👏👏👏👏👏 n i agree with wat all yu said but the problem here is some people r stuck with 1 thing that shilpa anand was ORIGINAL riddhima i agree she was but they forget if she was original then last riddhima was jenni n just bcoz a character of riddhima did something that doesn't mean jenni should be bashed for it no one here understand a small thing yu don't need to be a hardcore kashian or a hardcore kajen fan yu only need to be a nice kash or nice kajen fan thats it
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RES :D
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Nice post dear ! 😃 Yeah I agree with you, WHY people compare them both with each other's ??
Them both are my fav, so I will never ever compare this two Beauitful girls with each other's ! 😳
Loe your topic, thanks for making the sweeet post ! 🤗 May God blees them both !
Edited by Taani96 - 14 years ago

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