REDEEMING SUMITRA DEVI SINGH

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MERARAI

@MERARAI

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Posted: 14 years ago

Mrs. Sumitra Devi Singh wife of Takur Sajjan Singh aka Nir Buddhi or Behoodi, hit a high note and a low one on the same day. She thought she'd nailed Prats with the kerosene kalas switcheroo and when it came to bite her in the back in an instant she chose self-immolation as a way out of the mess she's created and decided to turn the tables on Prats and evoke sympathy from her family instead ...was it just a moment of temporary insanity?

Today, SS rejected her as his wife, banished her to a corner cot and treated her with contempt. Did some of that contempt towards her have to do with the predicament she has placed the family in with his ladla Krishna forced to face the situation she has created?

GD, Kesar, Kesamma and to some extent KN are the silent spectators. SS, SDS and Krishna are in smack in the middle of a mess that is just gathering steam with Krishna's burning Prats's things and set to tear down the Dhaba.

SS and KN have rejected her presence in close proximity and denied her plea for help. Krishna much as he wants to be there for his mother is fighting his hell a t the moment (is he even considering his responsibility in banishing Prats from his life).

It's a given that at some point, Takurain's plans are going to blow up in her face.. With her character taking such a fall from grace how do you think POPS will redeem her?

What do you think she can do to redeem herself in the eyes of her family, particularly Krishna. If she goes to Prats and begs her forgiveness and pleads with her to return to the Niwas will that be good enough. Will Prats still be the guillible girl after all is said and done or will she forgive but refuse to be a resident of the Niwas or trust Takurain, having learned a life altering lesson she intends to put to use. After all a wolf is still an wolf even if disguised in sheeps' clothing.

So speculate away about the possible ways Takurain can walk again with her head held high.🤓

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babithaj

@babithaj

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Posted: 14 years ago

she never ever can walk with her head held high, atleast not in front of Kriya... she will die bcos of guilt... tht would really bring her redemption... I may sound harsh here... but this is what i think n want to happen to her gatia acts...🤔

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maya sethi

@Mayavi-26

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Posted: 14 years ago

frankly speaking meera even if in case sds go and ask for forgiveness frm P, which can happen , if pops show P forgiven sds, its ok but if they show her going and staying in tht Tn again like nothing happen then she completely lose her self repect and dignity, then there wont be differnce btween keasar and her.( remember v all disguised with keasar more the day when she falls easily for her mothers trick and accept kn again in her life )so p as a educated women shd maintin her dignity and self respect and shdnt go to tht wrost haunted house.

Edited by maya.sethi17 - 14 years ago

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dhakarn

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Posted: 14 years ago

Good post di,

i for one felt her tears yesterday when she was rejected n insulted by her husband n son real...i still feel pity for her bec all she wanted was a little bit of love from her husband n son which she didn't get all these years...when she saw P getting undivided attention , love n care from K she burned with jealousy...when she saw SS too praising P like he has never done to her made amma a devil...she wanted her son n husband back...n if she has to resort to falsity n treachery she was all for it...she had all the hope in the world when she told SS not to worry bout her as she will be alright just after coming back from the hospital...she felt that she had won the love of her husband too, in addition to baba...but the moment SS insulted her exixtence in his life by acknowledging that all he was interested was in her body n Sakthi walked away, i felt something hit her ...still it wasn't strong enough bec she chose to torture n insult piyasia , her only outlet now, thus sinking further lower... but when K came n sat by her she was struggling with something...maybe pain...but i don't know , but i think amma is a redeemable character...if the CVs show her realizing that she didn't obtain what ever she craved for by destroying another woman n her son's love n show her thinking over it n then we may see a new woman...but if she becomes all the more angry at the world around her n P for having everything in the world which she so wanted but couldn't get depite all her attempts , then we will have the same amma in future too who will become more evil ...😕

but ofcourse, all she has to loose is her baba to realize how poor a mother is she...😊 if she can face the hatred in baba's eyes n live with it, then there will be no problem for kriya...but if she becomes a total maniac if baba ditches her then nothing could save her

Edited by dhakarn - 14 years ago

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Gujar

@Gujar

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Posted: 14 years ago

I do have some residual empathy for her, but she's her own worst enemy perpetually resorting to tactics that prompt her to dive further down south in deed. She must've sussed out the kind of guy SS was & adapted accordingly for the most part yet kept screwing herself up in a bid to obtain importance along with SS & K's love, her tactics & overall 'kartoot' overshadow the empathy factor by a long mile, never once occurred to her to actually distribute genuine concern & love via Pratigya which in turn would've opened all avenues to K but her cunning & jealousy kept seeping through.

Her love for her children is questionable at times, she is primarily a self absorbed character her only joy is to savour the schadenfreude if you give her an inch she'll take the full mile. Redemption being a long way off IMO :)

Edited by Kabeer. - 14 years ago

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elle45

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Posted: 14 years ago

I don't see any sort of redemption for someone who has not truly changed. Even if she apologises to Kriya, I do not think it will be from the bottom of her heart.

In case she does change truly, it would likely be due to Pratigya. When SS and Kesamma team up, Krishna discovers the truth, then Amma will be left all alone. Krishna will bring Prats back and they'll be living happily but Prats will start feeling sorry for the state Amma is in, with no one to care for her. Initially Krishna will stop Prats, because he resents Amma for all she did, but Prats will say "Kuch bhi ho, she is our mother"

Amma will initially push Prats away due to her hatred, but when she sees Prats caring for her despite how she tried to destroy P's life, then slowly the Devil will start converting and will realise that Prats really isn't that bad.

I think then when she asks for forgiveness, Kriya will forgive her.

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MERARAI

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: elle45
I don't see any sort of redemption for someone who has not truly changed. Even if she apologises to Kriya, I do not think it will be from the bottom of her heart.

In case she does change truly, it would likely be due to Pratigya. When SS and Kesamma team up, Krishna discovers the truth, then Amma will be left all alone. Krishna will bring Prats back and they'll be living happily but Prats will start feeling sorry for the state Amma is in, with no one to care for her. Initially Krishna will stop Prats, because he resents Amma for all she did, but Prats will say "Kuch bhi ho, she is our mother"

Amma will initially push Prats away due to her hatred, but when she sees Prats caring for her despite how she tried to destroy P's life, then slowly the Devil will start converting and will realise that Prats really isn't that bad.
I think then when she asks for forgiveness, Kriya will forgive her.

Elle 🤗

Nice to see you be an active poster these days.😃

The Takurian we have seen so far has always been an opportunist. She is also a true example of big ego, false pride (bragging about being Takurs and their place in society, etc), insecurity, and yearning for love.

She has forgotten the first rule of life...if you want to receive love then be loving. For one gets what they give freely to others. She had the love of her children but that was never enough or expressed in a way she approved or accepted. She bought into her own theory of how love looks and feels. Her behavior is directly affected by the way SS treats her. She hasn't realized that in this lifetime she will never be loved by SS the way Krishna loves Prats. They may be father and son but they also are different in many ways.

She is idle and lets the chatter in her head lead her into a lot of mischief. SS has always gone after her for instigating trouble in the house...remember the first havan when he said to her "she is your bahu, you are not her evil stepmother". SS has a very good read on her as a person and sees her as a troublemaker. We have seen times when things are going well, he actually invites Takurain to sit by him and she is all smiles. I

Enough if Krishna and SS were to give her all the love she craves and express it the way she yearns, she will still look for what is not right. Fundamentally, it's not really about love at all, it is her need to control everyone and everything around her. Love after all is acceptance. She may accept love the way it's expressed for a while for fear or losing SS or Krishna. But the minute she feels secure in the relationship she will shake things up by creating mischief again. That is basically how she entertains herself. Fear and control rule her.

Unless she is jolted out of her skin with an incident that breaks her, she will continue this game of cat and mouse in the name of wanting love. When she feels Krishna slipping away from her she will regret, ask for forgiveness and once she lulls them into acceptance, one little thing gone off course and she will be back to hating and causing trouble for Kriya. SS himself has said that she's useless, she'll never change. SS does have a good read on his family members. And even after all that he said to Krishna at the hospital deep down he knows trouble is brewing and when it will come to roost in the Niwas is just a matter of time.

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hussainramso

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Posted: 14 years ago

Amma will never change and doesn't deserve forgiveness...ooh kehtai hain na cheetah apna isspot nahin badalta, She is consumed by her hatred and jealousy of KP relationship. Amma won't stop until the day that bond dissolves.

Any scenario to try and redeem her will be unbelievable for me.

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MERARAI

@MERARAI

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Atticus
Amma will never change and doesn't deserve forgiveness...ooh kehtai hain na cheetah apna isspot nahin badalta, She is consumed by her hatred and jealousy of KP relationship. Amma won't stop until the day that bond dissolves.

Any scenario to try and redeem her will be unbelievable for me.

Atti😃

A leopard never changes it's spot and never will she. Now it's KP's marriage. But soon she may be angling to trouble Kesar, let's hope the preggie bahu sticks to GD's side until she pops the baby. KN and SS shoved her aside yday, she is not going to forget that so easily. She will lay in wait and strike when they least expect. SS was right, she's a troublemaker.

I don't think she will redeem herself, she enjoys life when things get messy and she is the one conducting the misery in the family. GD was spot on about her need for control. She's already done the pachtava early on when she tried to convince the family she erred and she loves Prats just to lull them before she began her nasty game. She has lived this way for too long.

The abuse from SS has hardened her that love is just a pretence and four letter word that has no real meaning to her. Why else would a mother go so far as to destroy her own son's happiness in the name of love knowing fully well he'd be in the loony bin without his wife in his life. She saw how he fell apart at the hospital when Prats was shot. Nothing seems to penetrate that busy brain of hers that is constantly brewing new ways to topple her family members lives.

SS knows her well he doesn't think she will ever change and he may be right on about that.

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hussainramso

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: MERARAI

Atti😃

A leopard never changes it's spot and never will she. Now it's KP's marriage. But soon she may be angling to trouble Kesar, let's hope the preggie bahu sticks to GD's side until she pops the baby. KN and SS shoved her aside yday, she is not going to forget that so easily. She will lay in wait and strike when they least expect. SS was right, she's a troublemaker.

I don't think she will redeem herself, she enjoys life when things get messy and she is the one conducting the misery in the family. GD was spot on about her need for control. She's already done the pachtava early on when she tried to convince the family she erred and she loves Prats just to lull them before she began her nasty game. She has lived this way for too long.

The abuse from SS has hardened her that love is just a pretence and four letter word that has no real meaning to her. Why else would a mother go so far as to destroy her own son's happiness in the name of love knowing fully well he'd be in the loony bin without his wife in his life. She saw how he fell apart at the hospital when Prats was shot. Nothing seems to penetrate that busy brain of hers that is constantly brewing new ways to topple her family members lives.

SS knows her well he doesn't think she will ever change and he may be right on about that.

IMO I don't think Amma perceives anyone other than P as a threat ...all others are the proverbial bheegi billi in front of her.

She wants to rule over the hearts of the men in the house and with P out of the way she thought it was possible to control K and SS.