varsha FIT to be a mother?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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lets forget her not being able to be a biological mother for a momment

lets say none of that factored in

is she FIT for raising a child? being a mother? caring for a little life?

i am sorry but to me it seems the only reason she wwants a baby is
1)vaishu was having one and archu was startign her new life
and 2) because she couldnt have a child

in many ways i think she just wants a child just because she wants a child. its not about nurturing, caring, being htere for thier highs and lows and helping them guide through life

it seems like shes looking it as a fad and wants one.
i really cannot see her mother a child day in and day out.
i feel after a few sleepless nights she will have satish do the hard work.
she will grow tired and bored an want something new.

here she is screaming at manav and archana for causing her to not become a mother.
who is to say she wont scream at her child and accuse them for ripping away her career? her independence?

i have NEVER once seen varsha visit her niece and spend time with her. few visits to the orphange doesnt mean shes ready to be a mother.

she wants things on her terms,
what if the child isnt "up to her term" would she call them a dissapointment? it that fair to the child?

when manav slipped up on the whole abortion issue i was SO happy. i feel no shred of smpathy for this woman. yu are her friend and family only if you do what she wants, when you dont, you are her enemy tyring to make her miserable.

lemm know ur thoughts, i might be harsh on her but i dont trust her with a innocent child. sorry

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with you.

I think Varsha is not prepared to be a mother just yet. She needs to starts thinking and behaving more maturely and realise the universe doesn't revolve around her before even thinking of being a mother. Else she will emotionally scar an innocent child for life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I dont believe Varsha is yet ready to be a mother and have a child...May be some day in future but not now...Her reasons are not the right reasons for having a baby at this time..
She flip flops so much..Who knows tmrw she might not want child again..What would she do than?
Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Jullie
Good to see u here🤗🤗🤗

and man srsly
i agree to you. I feel she is being selfish now. She shud 1st see at herself before blaming Archana Manav for anything. Why did she abort the Child? Just bcoz she had a tiff with her MIL, she wnt on to kill and unborn child. And after doing that her family including Satish and her MIL forgive her too. And now she says its difficult to forgive Manav Archana as they have ruined her happiness? Sorry to say lady but you have done it yourself.

Now she is over reacting. She isnt thinking about it pratically but being Emotional and wants to put the entire blame on someone so she chooses Manav for it. She basically wants to get rid of this Crisis and blame others is one easy thing to do and thats what she is doing.



Edited by -Preeti- - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nice post and i sooo agree wid you...
Varsha became desperate to become a mother only after vaishali's pregnancy and everyone's taunts(during the party)..and she never thought of adoption unless Archu suggested her..

dunno abt biological child but a women lke varsha is soo unfit for raising a orphan...her love,affection is always temporary untill the person is fine and takes care of and if the person commits a mistake she wont see anything anywhere but starts yelling at dem lke a Greedy owner to his servant.. and the best example is varsha-manav..i wont mention Archana here bcos she migh be mentally disturbed here..

but wat manav has done for her is really unforgettable and he helped her more dan anyone in dis show but still after reunion her behaviour sucked and i've never hated anyone like her..
so as it applies for Archana also..she didnt took a minute to broke all relations wid her who took extremely care of her since childhood..

so how can one expect she'll take care of dat orphan nicely when she didnt took a minute to break all relations wid her own blood sister..

sushant called her right..Hypocrite😆
Edited by Gene_Nisha - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nisha
i love that reply😆

I agree
Manav is one person who has done a lot for Varsha, specifically. He was the one to save her and help her get back to her family after that Ashwin Incident. And then he helped her when her MIL and Mother disowned her after the abortion. Varsha reacts spontaneously towards situation. She never thinks about the if's and but's and thats what always puts her into such sitautions.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thnx Preeti 😆
actually i used to lovee varsha before Sasha's marriage..she used to maintain a perfect balance at everything but right after her marriage every incident only she was at fault..be it her clashes wid Bhavna,started loving satish after Ashwin incident etc..
it was all satish's fault i would say..he is the fairest man in the whole PR but wen it comes to Varsha he only spoiled her dat the women doesnt wishes to remember the person who saved her and made her life all happy in the past..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree and Manav has done many things for varsha
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Varsha still has a lot to learn before she can be a mother, she still has that selfish attitude as before. Its like Manav said, she should have been honest with the adoption agency and she could have went to him personally asking that he not say anything she didn't do that. I am not liking her attitude towards Archana and Manav right now, they've done a lot for her and to see her treating them this way is sad. She shouldn't envy the fact they've been blessed with a child, she was too but she screwed up. She needs to stop being jealous and stop putting Manav and Archana down.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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varsha is jealous of archana and vaishali, she is just admant, if thinks is not according to her she thinks they are wrong and start accusing them, manav have helped her lot even when she aborted her child she stayed in manav house, she has no respect to nobody, she is selfish, mean, i hate her and vaishali they both are selfish.

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