26th April - Ab Mujhe Koi Intezaar Kahan (Kes-Gul)

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think this song suits Gulaal and thats why i named the thread...
What can i say about JK, the woman is so stubborn lol - D wont ever agree to marriage coz of what has happened and what he did, and bringing Gul-Kes closer there is alot of obstacles in their way if you think about the tension their is between them and how Kesar is with her and what he knows and Gulaal knows he is distant and angry with her and now accepts it, and also how Gulaal views certain things and also lets not forget Talli lol
Ladies in the kitchen cook everyone's fave dishes it seems, no Sudha and JK there, again you saw how Gulaal looks after everyone and is aware of each person's likes and she keeps them happy and puts their needs first and like Talli says what about her and her faves, doesnt she want to cook what she would like, and we all know Gulaal, she will eat what others will eat and so on
Paanbha's elbow is hurting her and Kesar comes in and says he will apply the balm on her - its nice seeing mother/son scenes and how Kesar is with her and finally PB asks why he didnt take Gulaal with him and we see his expression change, and again what i had said last week on friday is kinda what PB said to Kesar, he was wrong and their are certain ways that one should not be careless with rituals./traditions and relations, and the past few days Kesar has been hearing this about it from different ppl, and like PB is spot on Gulaal has done alot for this house, and put her happiness and everything on line and Kesar was alittle harsh with his response, and PB snapped at him but then JK comes in and says what she said in the precap lol - the discomfort looks on each of their faces of what JK was referring them to... yep they are hubby and wifey but its never been dwelled upon at.
Kesar says he has to go and gets up and both look at each other, and Kesar swiftly walks past, seems like she might of dropped whatever she was holding... the sudden movement of how Kesar went past was felt by Gulaal and we saw it on her expression when he left, the harshness it must of felt i guess
I do think in one way JK is right in what she says in bringing them closer as they are married and its now time to act like it in a way and mostly important is Gulaal's future what will it be..., but then there is her selfish way why she wants it to happen as well which isnt right as well, JK is right esp if we how Kesar's attitude towards Gulaal looks from other ppl's pov - coz from all their pov it looks like Kesar is going so far away from Gulaal and wants to, and is his hatred to being married to her and all that
Again i say JK is right in the sense if we look at facts, in what she told Paanbha thatwhole speech on marriage, deeyavatu and Gul-Kes on one hand she is right and makes sense (we all know why she did it but what she spoke was in somewhat truth as well) and i cant believe she put her finger on that Gulaal is somewhat lonely and how she lives, she is lonely and never tells anyone esp more so now that Kesar is like how he is with her...
I like how Talli is with Gulaal, she kinda takes care of Gulaal and all that, and Talli is right - Gulaal has lost herself in a way with taking care of others needs and looking after them and day and night doing her daily things, she has forgetten herself in what she likes and what she prefers and we see Gulaal finally talk freely on what she liked to do and what she likes... i think the last scene makes you feel for Gulaal so much - you kinda ache for her, and you can clearly see that this woman isnt living a life at all, she is just existing - everything she does and is involved in is the house and for everyone, the four walls of the house... no colours, no joy, no life - she isnt waiting for anyone or anything - all she knows and sees is what she has been doing the last 10 yrs and so on

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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanks for the nice update. kesar looked oh so disturbed. his look at gulaal was so meaning ful ... deep look penetrating into her full of meaning ... does she even consider him an adult any more? does she recognise him as her husband? he seemed to be asking gulaal ... do u realise what i am to you?
but as usual he let his eyes talk ... love those eyes. lovely.
and the way he brushed past gulaal his passing touch like a breeze made gulaal suddenly aware of a lot of things ... of what kesar actually has become now ...
i dont know if its right or wrong especially with so many people in the forum simply out to berate gulaal - kesar marriage ( poor woman was given no choice but to sleep with some1 she hated ... if she tried to save herself for the family's sake she is still criticised as being a pervert ) am heart broken ove rit ... ye duniyaa aisi hi hai ... sau achhyi ek taraf or ek buraayi ek taraf.
but kesar gulaal relationship is refreshing , innocent and pious. just becuase of age gap it dsnt become a perverted thing. love is always beautiful , it is always pure ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanx a lot Lennie dear :) ur soo good with this :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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awesome post lennie .i think you must be really a very sensitive person who can understand emotions so well👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i really feel sorry for gulaal i want kesar to forgive her cause there might have been a reason due to why she didnt tell him bout Vasant's murder
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Posted: 14 years ago
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What a horrible place for any person to be in 😳 Where you don't know what your likes and dislikes are. It's such a depressing state :( This is why I feel Gulaal wouldn't even realise if she had any feelings for Kesar till someone forced her to think!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: manzilmukul

awesome post lennie .i think you must be really a very sensitive person who can understand emotions so well👍🏼

Thanks😊
I wouldnt call myself sensitive, i guess the ppl who know me wouldnt call me sensitive, but understanding emotions in tv shows and books is something i can a depth with i guess 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

What a horrible place for any person to be in 😳 Where you don't know what your likes and dislikes are. It's such a depressing state :( This is why I feel Gulaal wouldn't even realise if she had any feelings for Kesar till someone forced her to think!

Gulaal's always putting everyone else first and so on, and her needs and everything comes second, and i dont think even she knows she has any desire or needs, she just does what she does everyday coz thats how she's lived for the last 10 yrs and even more now its more obvious coz Kesar filled some of that in, now Kesar is not being around her and with her, which makes her seem so lonely etc
She doesnt think that what she likes and dislikes is important - for her its her home and her family and all that, as we always see esp today
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nice post lennie but i m highly disgusted with talli since she has entered she has eaten 10-20 min in every epi ...she is such useless character in the serial i wait all day to watch gulaal kesar dushyant motaba panba durgesh jamna kaki... and all i have to see is talli standing in each space... all her scene are so forced ..wht the hell we do if jamna kaki scolded her ...jamna kaki has every right to like or dislike talli she doesnt care for kesar vasant and gulaal so whts a big deal if she didnt let talli enter her room ...her wish and that confrontation scene between gulaal and talli was also so forced ( i would be happy to watch gulaal sharing her thoughts with fiaba panba her mother rewa or kesar ) but y the hell that talli wht they want to show us that gulaal and talli shares a great bond so they will become a good sautan in future...if talli is so concerned for gulaal she understand that she is lonely person and she always thinks about other person then y didnt she realize that she will make gulaal life more miserable by taking her husband ...doesnt she know that everyone see gulaal as kesar's wife and they are confortable with it ...y the hell she is dreaming of someone else husband ...she was promised to get marry in childhood so what a child is even told about chandamama, fairies, ghost , prince coming in white horse but as child grew he/she realizes that everything that is told or promised in childhood is not correct ...y dont she apply her brains she is getting hint that kesar is more concerned about gulaal and gulaal future will be in darkness if talli marries kesar but no she is clueless as ever ...basically she wants to be a well wisher but doesnt even want to realize where gulaal happiness lies ...so all her concern for gulaal seems so artificial ...sorry darling but u fail miserably...
i want to talk about gulaal and kesar but right now frustrated seeing talli... will give a passe and read some nice post
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Arti - i found Talli okay with how she was with Gulaal in this episode, seeing as i am just talking about her in this episode
As for everyone seeing Gul-Kes as married, which yes they are but they arent husband-wife are they as such in the proper sense, and not everyone is comfortable with it, yes everyone and all villagers have accepted the deeyavatu and so on, but to actually accept that they want to be hubby-wifey will be another issue esp in the family for Motabha especially, forget the family but Kes-Gulaal themselves if it is going to be Kes-Gul way that is
Talli's in love with Kesar, which we all know and knew that would be the outcome and Talli has no reason other then to see Gulaal is just Gulaal towards Kesar (as Talli as always seen Kesar-Gul are attached to each other and dote on each other, Kesar always did when they were younger), and they dont share that married relation as such
Time will tell if Talli sees what is right in front of her if she sees Kesar-Gulaal as more and so on
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