Marriage early or late your prefrence

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Posted: 14 years ago
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What is your pref.. to marry early and have kids or to wait longer for marriage..why would you choose any particular one and what would be typical age of marraige...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Honestly, I don't see the point of rushing into things and getting married at too young of an age. I'd rather be more mature and well-settled before going into marriage. Maybe late 20s? Hard to predict these kinds of things though... Life just happens doesn't it?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Sparkle : Thats really a good topic to discuss, u should have made this a next DOTW but nevermind ! I would say marriage is knid of thing once u tie the knot u won't get out of it, u have stay with the person & two kids beside without any voice. In my view its like enjoy to wot extent u can, stay with ur parents & care for them. Life is not just to tie knot & then settle down without any carrier. I would say the right time mingle is 23-24 might be the best age. I have to rush for now will edit this !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Time doesn't matter....it depends when you feel like getting married, find someone whom you think can share, love , trust and spend the entire life with her/him...........

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Posted: 14 years ago
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What if I dun believe in whole idea of marriage in the first place? Marriage isn't meant for everybody, I believe. There are people who never learn to hold the responsibility they shall be entitled to post marriage. Weddings are all about responsibility and the mind because you need to balance things out. In our country, things work only on the outside - not the inside, couples struggle every bloody day to get through and make things work with their spouse all their lives. I dun essentially find love in the existence of a marriage.

I can elope with a man two times my age as early as I can if he and I possess the same views bout marriage. And I won't marry at all if there's no freaking man who's as witty as I am. Simple! 😎
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Posted: 14 years ago
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marriage late is betr dan being early acc 2 me...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think it should be down to the bride n groom...its not that our parents are going to live our wedded lives for us! i would rather i get to decide when i want to getmarried but asian aunties dont give it a rest
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Marriage is not everything in our life & again its everything if u find d perfect life partnner..Its a thing,once u get into,its hard to come out (if ppl want to) or d whole life u spent regreting..

We r 21st centruries ppl & so many think,Its all upto a person when she/he wanna get married but in everyone's case its not d same..In this century too, we leave such decisions 4parents..So parents should be careful b4 dey decide something..Its a matter of one''s lifetime..as @ d end of d day u goona -stay happy or Suffer?

As an indivisual i think..For marriage 23/24 its d best time as by d time u r quite a done wid ur study & probably well-established as well..Moreover u become responsible to take/manage some1's or a family's responsibilities.

Im not saying 19/20 ppl r not mature or something..Its dat if dat time some 1 tie d knot,esp 4a girl..its d end of her own world,When she needs to see d world,live her life to d fullest,She'll have to get into many things which she might not able to handel properly..& who knows d guy u got married,how he actually is ! If gud den gud orelse more problems :S

Things 'd be different if u r in love,den it'd be s'thing else.. actually more problems lol..Handeling parents n all..I do prefer Love M. over arrange as atleast u know d person to sum extent.

So mainly its depend on,which situation u r in..
Arziya thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#9
Thankyou all for sharing your opinions,

I think Marraige is a commitment one should understand while entering into it... it should be the final decision of girl boy whether parents look for them or they themselves...it should be fulfilled so the decision whn you think you are ready is very imp, one should enjoy the company of the other and not regret the decision of marraige in the first place...23-24 sounds apt to me...but you can always opt to settle your carrier first thn get married :)

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