AdiYa (12/1-12/2)-- And I Deny AdiYa Are In Love.. - Page 3

Originally posted by: sidra2007

Awesome post shilpu!! 👏

thank u sidraaaaaa.....🤗

you gave me a new perspective on this - and i somewhat agree.

somewat bhi chalega.....not agreeing bhi dorega 😆😆😆....we all have diff views and I's love to hear em....😳😳

I think it is somewhat difficult to accept this as love (in my perspective) - because it came to easy. what i mean is that i do believe in "pehli nazar" ka pyar - but when watching a show their is usually a great amount of mixed emotions - before accepting love - which was never a case for aditya. He knew what he wanted from the start - and has not been through the emotional waves that we normally see in other shows before someone admits to their love.

I would really like to know wat u meant by that??? coz from wat I have seen.....Adi was more of a happy go lucky kinda guy who has this "up collar" about him in that he knows he is the topper in his college and thus a certain amount of ego.....but I really doubt he knew wat he wanted in life if that is wat u meant to say???? Coz I see it as a lill of over confidence in himself😳😳

So i am one of those people who believes that adversities in life make bonds stronger. Very true and I agree to this 😳😳Though adi proclaims his love to the future - teh true depth of his love will come out post ssp vs. Priya drama I really do hope to see that day and more so that he stands on his reasonings behind his decision for not reading the letterso now its merely puppy love😆😆😆 I love that word u used.....I suppose I cannot term his affections anything as of yet only coz his affections which are truly geunine do not have a strong foundation of trust n honesty and faith in himself which didnt allow him to go thru with reading that letter....and even now when he realizes that he shud have read it.....he still is not able to be honest about it with Priya and this is where he is wrong....and therefore I can only say that his affections can be termed somewhere between infactuation n love....😳😳😳(but i will use the word love here - yea its difficult to fully accept - i will still give it to him.)


I completely agree with ur point on priya - she may think its love - its more of a breathe of fresh air - air that allows her to laugh again. She is in the process of falling in love - but like you said she is still holding on to her inhibitions.

BINGO!!!!!!😳😳😳

okay shilpu - dont know if i made much sense - kinda typed with my trail of thought - but essentially there love has been simple right now - there love will only develop once they are put in testing times. (and i know when you compare there love to TaAnu - it has not reached that level 😉)

No comparing here at all with any other shows or chars sidra........I was genuinely trying to read the chars of this show n understand their characterization n story.....but yes.....It does amaze me when ppl use the word "love" so easily without really getting the depth of the word....
And sweetyyyyyyy......u have been thorough with ur thots n I enjoyed reading em 😳😳😳

Originally posted by: sajni786

Originally posted by: sajni786

Hey DJ............a humble bow for ur charan at my post.....😳 you humble me by saying this

Now as for the movie.....No I have not seen it.....but I do get wat u are trying to say n yes....I agree with u.....

Wat I am trying to say thru that statement is that.....Priya cannot be fully termed as being "in love" with Adi just as yet.....like I said....she is in a transition period where off she is still trying to leave her past behind n move on to her future.....n her past is rather very harsh where her physical space was "brutally" invaded which not only further involuntarily n harmingly invaded her emotional n mental state as well.....and therefore she is comfortable being in his company and simply talking to him.....coz she is slowly trying to welcome him more into her life n her heart after accepting him and opening the doors of her heart n mind to hopes n dreams.......but when it comes to even a slightest touch of physical invasion......she retorts.....and thats coz she is still clinging onto that past which is has yet not made peace with.....or rather addressed it yet.......and until she does that.....she will not be able to fully move on towards her future whole heartedly....without a doubt.... I completely agree with you she is not yet in love with him ......as for opening the doors of her heart and mind .........I think in Priya's case it would be more difficult to open the doors of her mind....... She is a intelligent strong lady and due to her harsh past she now would tend to think more with her mind than follow the heart. Hence though her heart is accepting Aditya she will still take time to adjust to him due to her mind playing games.......... my views can be completely wrong ...........as for her making peace like I said before agar ek baar woh apni dil ki badhaas nikhal de which ever way then she will be fine ............ I feel nothing else can help her heal ............again my views can be completely wrong.........The reason I quotes those lines were that was another way of looking at it I felt apart from what you said which is also correct.

It can be said that Priya rather "loves" the realization that despite having a past as hers.....she is still a living breathing soul and has every right to live it fully as per her wishes.....hoping n dreaming for bright new sunshines n rainbows....and thats coz of her misinterpretation that Adi has actually accepted her knowing thoroughly about her past.......n inturn one can say that Priya rather is opening up her heart to "her interpreted" version of life thru Adi .....She is accepting "her interpreted" version of Adi....who she feels is a noble being.... One should fear the day when she will come to know the truth of the letter and Aditya being SSPs son...... I would love to see if / how she accepts Aditya in her life as a life partner / lover after knowing the truth of him being SSP's son.

And no with that I am not saying that Adi is not......infact I cannot judge correctly about him right now......coz we dont know how he will react when he comes to know the actual truth...but we certainly hope that he does stand by his words or his reasonings for not reading the letter....... Yes its too early to judge his character.............. but I am not going to keep too many hopes from this fella.

Hope I make sense in my blabber 😊 Let me know

Originally posted by: sajni786

"LOVE'"...........if looked at it......its spelt....said n looks so simple........so small......and so easy and infact.....lots of us use it so casually.....to our friends.....to our loved ones....n infact we hear this word so much so that sometimes I feel that ppl dont even realize wat a heavy n complicated term they have just used......rather......I smile and question...."do they really mean it"....."do they even know the depth of this word"....???? ...Infact in today's precap....Aditya was shouting out his lungs to the world "I LOVE U PRIYA".....and the only thing that I said........"does he really????"
NO......I am not going to do a philosiphical explanation on love.....neither do I intend to do a thesis on it😆😆.......coz LOVE..........is unexplanable....simply because its a feeling....."Ek Ehsaas".....that comes from deep within the soul.......it can be said as the mother of all human emotions.....and it is DIVINE.....
However.....I realise lots of us have been falling for or rather been crying....."OMG OMG....priya loves Aditya......Aditya loves Priya so much"...but after watching yesterday n today's epi....I realized....NOPE....AdiYa are NOT in LOVE.....

I am speechless' its like u took all the words out of my mouth. Saying " I LOVE U " to a person is big deal. Adiya .. both don't even know that much about each other. They haven't had a small conversation to talk about their past.. Likes or dislikes ,family etc.. Saying those 3 words definitely requires more time.. YUP I agree with u 100%😃



Recently I came across a very interesting quote which kinda suits with the current situation of AdiYa:

"Love is the total absence of fear. Love asks no questions. It's natural state is one of extension and expansion, not comparison and measurement."~Jampolsky, Gerald G.

Well along with other abundance quotes on love.......this one so very well holds true......

Yesterday when Priya closed her eyes to sleep....she had flashes of moments spent with Aditya...and she recalled her own words that the day she will not see the face of the guy who ruined her life......will be the day dawn of new life will break .......n happily she goes n informs this to her dad who acknowledges this and ensures that she faces the new dawn eye to eye........Now let me tell u why......its not only coz he is happy for his daughter........but he wants to make sure that indeed Priya is ready to embark on a new journey of life........forgetting her past.....as she depicts it.....
Remember.....I had mentioned in my earlier posts...."elders have a vision".....and sometimes they can sense things we as their children cannot......
Wat happened yesterday when AdiYa met......when today Priya saw SSP and finally her reactions when Adi was crying out his love on top of his lungs......brings that doubt of a parent or rather that certain sense of future to the fore.....and that is...."Priya has not fully let go of her past....she still has FEAR.....fear of being surrounded by the people watching her moves.....fear of SSP n her haunted moments....that may have vanished on her closed eyes but take a center stage the moment her eyes are open n she sees her past live in front of her.....and like Chinu who pointed out very correctly that she needs to confidently step into her new world.........Priya lacks that very confidence.....infact she went hysterical the moment she saw SSP and had Chinu not stopped her and the dad from running away from the situation....Priya would have simply gone back to her despair n darkness......Chinu even pointed out that Priya now has Aditya by her side......yet she still has that fear in her.....WHY IS MY QUESTION???? Isnt love when u can totally forget urself....forget ur entire being and give urself in to the person u love without caring for where u are....who u surrounded by???? Isnt Love when u experience a strange yet very satisfying power in u to face the world with confidence n a smile???? Isnt it Love when u can face ur past....make peace with it and move on with the one u love without having to look back?????
Well I obviously didnt see this in Priya......she was rather very uncomfortable when Adi hugged her out of happiness yesterday.....yes.....she enjoyed his company n conversing with him.....but not the actual outpour of affections Adi was showering on her......which includes the precap scene as well....TIme and again...she is reminding Adi of that letter assuming he has read it.....and is expecting a certain behaviour from him.....she is requesting time n space to fully involve herself in this new found life....to digest wat she is experiencing......so that she can fully justify with her future.....and let go of every FEAR of her existence......and this is why I say she is NOT "IN LOVE".....not yet....
Priya is rather at a stage called "acceptance".....she has accepted that despite having a torturous past.......she too can have a new life....that she too has the right to dream ....to hope....to seek new horizons....and that there can be someone who can love her for her ...with her good n her bad...(as she assumes it) ....that there can be someone who believes in her and that she can have a hand with whom she can walk into the sunset and a shoulder to cry in times of misery.......Priya can safely be termed as being in a period of "transition"....from the past to the future.....from the darkness to the light .....from the state of hatred, depression, guilt, inadequacy, discontentment, prejudice and anger towards joy, peacefulness, happiness, forgiveness, comfort and contentment........

All I can say is WOW..loll. The explanation u gave can tell right away that their love is not that strong yet. From priya's facial expression u can sense the insecurities she still carries with her after wat happened to her past. She cant fully trust aditya '. Every time she needs encouragement from her father or others to move forward with her life with Aditya. Constantly reminding him about the letter.. shows insecurity .. she still has doubts .
That weakness shows that she doesn't completely loves him.. I mean there is luck of trust and confidence in their relationship right now.

Now u may question me why I say Aditya is also not "in love" when its so out in the open.....when it can be so evidently seen.....Well thats becoz the very base of love is not there.....the base of any relation......which is HONESTY.....
Aditya has been yearning to be with Priya ever since they met.....he "wants" her....he wants to express his feelings....with words...with actions....He has tried to understand her....he has even respected her as a woman....he has even given her his ears to hear her out and he also has stood up for her....but when the crucial time came for him to hear her ultimate truth......to let their relation begin....he turned around.........yes he respected her decision to show him her past....but he could not take the courage to go thru with it......He rather believed in his own love for her....and I totally adored that about Adi....but now wen Priya has given the green signals to Adi that they can begin their new journey....Adi is not telling her the truth of the letter scenario.....
Fine....some may say that he is doing that coz he fears losing her as he loves her so much......but then.....he himself said that his love is stronger than any past of hers.....then I ask....why the FEAR???? If he has faith in himself.....in his love.....then the least he can do is to let Priya know the truth of the letter and let her know the reasons behind his denial to read the letter......
Wat he is doing now is misleading Priya into a relation that can only create further misunderstandings n ultimately destroy wat could have turned into a beautiful n blissful relation......in its true from.....
Adi is giving everything including.....affections.....respect....understanding....loyalty...comfort in this relation except for that one main ingredient.......and that is HONESTY....which is derived from FEAR......and that is why I say......Adi is NOT "IN LOVE" with Priya.....not yet....
Adi is rather at a stage that is a notch higher or edging over "infactuation" but it definitely is not LOVE.....its the "in-betwen" phase....

"why the FEAR????" I had the same question.. I mean he is soo confident in his love.. so he should tell her the truth' I don't think Adi really knows wat love is . He probably believes in first sight love or destiny etc. This makes him act naive.. destiny doesnt mean u cant put effort or face ur fears cause ur meant to be with that person. He can't ignore all her past..no matter what.. ur past will always play a major role in ur relationship.. The letter meant soo much for priya.. cause of fear he didnt read the letter... Fear is a big sigh that he still doesnt love her.



The day both Priya and Adi let go of their individual FEARS......and move towards each other with completeness.........will they fall "IN LOVE".....in its true form!!!!!!!!!!....😳😳😳
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Agree lolllllllllllllll' but I don't want it to happen fast 😆

Love n Luck to All....
Rab Raakha....🤗


PS. These are strictly my POVs....but I would love to hear ur comments...😳😳😳

PS. fabulous post .. icant believe we have the same opinion 😆

Originally posted by: DJ..

Originally posted by: reshusaluja

Shilpuuuu 🤗

Awsome analysis👏

I too think that Priya is not In Love with Aditya right now but may be my reasons r diff of thinking that 😕 as every relation needs time to grow and so as love and i truly don't believe love at first sight funda bcoz for me to fall in love u need to know that person and AdiYa don't know each other much in my POV so i can't say they r in love...

and as far as u mentioned abt that fear which Priya has even being with Aditya so i will again say it would not be because she is not in love but because it needs time to get that strength even from the person whom u love which can make u forget your worst past...

sometimes it becomes very difficult to come over bad experience of your past and sometimes almost impossible

even though u love that person but ur past experience will not let u trust any person...i m not saying that Priya don't trust Aditya its just a matter of time which she needs to make her trust stronger and take his full support to come over it..

I don't know what i wrote is making sense here or not bcoz a lot of things r coming in my mind some r not even related to Maryada's story😆😆 so i m stopping here and will come again when my mood will be diff😆😆