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"LOVE'"...........if looked at it......its spelt....said n looks so simple........so small......and so easy and infact.....lots of us use it so casually.....to our friends.....to our loved ones....n infact we hear this word so much so that sometimes I feel that ppl dont even realize wat a heavy n complicated term they have just used......rather......I smile and question...."do they really mean it"....."do they even know the depth of this word"....???? ...Infact in today's precap....Aditya was shouting out his lungs to the world "I LOVE U PRIYA".....and the only thing that I said........"does he really????"
NO......I am not going to do a philosiphical explanation on love.....neither do I intend to do a thesis on it😆😆.......coz LOVE..........is unexplanable....simply because its a feeling....."Ek Ehsaas".....that comes from deep within the soul.......it can be said as the mother of all human emotions.....and it is DIVINE.....
However.....I realise lots of us have been falling for or rather been crying....."OMG OMG....priya loves Aditya......Aditya loves Priya so much"...but after watching yesterday n today's epi....I realized....NOPE....AdiYa are NOT in LOVE.....
Recently I came across a very interesting quote which kinda suits with the current situation of AdiYa:
"Love is the total absence of fear. Love asks no questions. It's natural state is one of extension and expansion, not comparison and measurement."~Jampolsky, Gerald G.
Well along with other abundance quotes on love.......this one so very well holds true......
Yesterday when Priya closed her eyes to sleep....she had flashes of moments spent with Aditya...and she recalled her own words that the day she will not see the face of the guy who ruined her life......will be the day dawn of new life will break .......n happily she goes n informs this to her dad who acknowledges this and ensures that she faces the new dawn eye to eye........Now let me tell u why......its not only coz he is happy for his daughter........but he wants to make sure that indeed Priya is ready to embark on a new journey of life........forgetting her past.....as she depicts it.....
Remember.....I had mentioned in my earlier posts...."elders have a vision".....and sometimes they can sense things we as their children cannot......
Wat happened yesterday when AdiYa met......when today Priya saw SSP and finally her reactions when Adi was crying out his love on top of his lungs......brings that doubt of a parent or rather that certain sense of future to the fore.....and that is...."Priya has not fully let go of her past....she still has FEAR.....fear of being surrounded by the people watching her moves.....fear of SSP n her haunted moments....that may have vanished on her closed eyes but take a center stage the moment her eyes are open n she sees her past live in front of her.....and like Chinu who pointed out very correctly that she needs to confidently step into her new world.........Priya lacks that very confidence.....infact she went hysterical the moment she saw SSP and had Chinu not stopped her and the dad from running away from the situation....Priya would have simply gone back to her despair n darkness......Chinu even pointed out that Priya now has Aditya by her side......yet she still has that fear in her.....WHY IS MY QUESTION???? Isnt love when u can totally forget urself....forget ur entire being and give urself in to the person u love without caring for where u are....who u surrounded by???? Isnt Love when u experience a strange yet very satisfying power in u to face the world with confidence n a smile???? Isnt it Love when u can face ur past....make peace with it and move on with the one u love without having to look back?????
Well I obviously didnt see this in Priya......she was rather very uncomfortable when Adi hugged her out of happiness yesterday.....yes.....she enjoyed his company n conversing with him.....but not the actual outpour of affections Adi was showering on her......which includes the precap scene as well....TIme and again...she is reminding Adi of that letter assuming he has read it.....and is expecting a certain behaviour from him.....she is requesting time n space to fully involve herself in this new found life....to digest wat she is experiencing......so that she can fully justify with her future.....and let go of every FEAR of her existence......and this is why I say she is NOT "IN LOVE".....not yet....
Priya is rather at a stage called "acceptance".....she has accepted that despite having a torturous past.......she too can have a new life....that she too has the right to dream ....to hope....to seek new horizons....and that there can be someone who can love her for her ...with her good n her bad...(as she assumes it) ....that there can be someone who believes in her and that she can have a hand with whom she can walk into the sunset and a shoulder to cry in times of misery.......Priya can safely be termed as being in a period of "transition"....from the past to the future.....from the darkness to the light .....from the state of hatred, depression, guilt, inadequacy, discontentment, prejudice and anger towards joy, peacefulness, happiness, forgiveness, comfort and contentment........
Now u may question me why I say Aditya is also not "in love" when its so out in the open.....when it can be so evidently seen.....Well thats becoz the very base of love is not there.....the base of any relation......which is HONESTY.....
Aditya has been yearning to be with Priya ever since they met.....he "wants" her....he wants to express his feelings....with words...with actions....He has tried to understand her....he has even respected her as a woman....he has even given her his ears to hear her out and he also has stood up for her....but when the crucial time came for him to hear her ultimate truth......to let their relation begin....he turned around.........yes he respected her decision to show him her past....but he could not take the courage to go thru with it......He rather believed in his own love for her....and I totally adored that about Adi....but now wen Priya has given the green signals to Adi that they can begin their new journey....Adi is not telling her the truth of the letter scenario.....
Fine....some may say that he is doing that coz he fears losing her as he loves her so much......but then.....he himself said that his love is stronger than any past of hers.....then I ask....why the FEAR???? If he has faith in himself.....in his love.....then the least he can do is to let Priya know the truth of the letter and let her know the reasons behind his denial to read the letter......
Wat he is doing now is misleading Priya into a relation that can only create further misunderstandings n ultimately destroy wat could have turned into a beautiful n blissful relation......in its true from.....
Adi is giving everything including.....affections.....respect....understanding....loyalty...comfort in this relation except for that one main ingredient.......and that is HONESTY....which is derived from FEAR......and that is why I say......Adi is NOT "IN LOVE" with Priya.....not yet....
Adi is rather at a stage that is a notch higher or edging over "infactuation" but it definitely is not LOVE.....its the "in-betwen" phase....
The day both Priya and Adi let go of their individual FEARS......and move towards each other with completeness.........will they fall "IN LOVE".....in its true form!!!!!!!!!!....😳😳😳
😳
Love n Luck to All....
Rab Raakha....🤗
PS. These are strictly my POVs....but I would love to hear ur comments...😳😳😳
NO......I am not going to do a philosiphical explanation on love.....neither do I intend to do a thesis on it😆😆.......coz LOVE..........is unexplanable....simply because its a feeling....."Ek Ehsaas".....that comes from deep within the soul.......it can be said as the mother of all human emotions.....and it is DIVINE.....
However.....I realise lots of us have been falling for or rather been crying....."OMG OMG....priya loves Aditya......Aditya loves Priya so much"...but after watching yesterday n today's epi....I realized....NOPE....AdiYa are NOT in LOVE.....
Recently I came across a very interesting quote which kinda suits with the current situation of AdiYa:
"Love is the total absence of fear. Love asks no questions. It's natural state is one of extension and expansion, not comparison and measurement."~Jampolsky, Gerald G.
Well along with other abundance quotes on love.......this one so very well holds true......
Yesterday when Priya closed her eyes to sleep....she had flashes of moments spent with Aditya...and she recalled her own words that the day she will not see the face of the guy who ruined her life......will be the day dawn of new life will break .......n happily she goes n informs this to her dad who acknowledges this and ensures that she faces the new dawn eye to eye........Now let me tell u why......its not only coz he is happy for his daughter........but he wants to make sure that indeed Priya is ready to embark on a new journey of life........forgetting her past.....as she depicts it.....
Remember.....I had mentioned in my earlier posts...."elders have a vision".....and sometimes they can sense things we as their children cannot......
Wat happened yesterday when AdiYa met......when today Priya saw SSP and finally her reactions when Adi was crying out his love on top of his lungs......brings that doubt of a parent or rather that certain sense of future to the fore.....and that is...."Priya has not fully let go of her past....she still has FEAR.....fear of being surrounded by the people watching her moves.....fear of SSP n her haunted moments....that may have vanished on her closed eyes but take a center stage the moment her eyes are open n she sees her past live in front of her.....and like Chinu who pointed out very correctly that she needs to confidently step into her new world.........Priya lacks that very confidence.....infact she went hysterical the moment she saw SSP and had Chinu not stopped her and the dad from running away from the situation....Priya would have simply gone back to her despair n darkness......Chinu even pointed out that Priya now has Aditya by her side......yet she still has that fear in her.....WHY IS MY QUESTION???? Isnt love when u can totally forget urself....forget ur entire being and give urself in to the person u love without caring for where u are....who u surrounded by???? Isnt Love when u experience a strange yet very satisfying power in u to face the world with confidence n a smile???? Isnt it Love when u can face ur past....make peace with it and move on with the one u love without having to look back?????
Well I obviously didnt see this in Priya......she was rather very uncomfortable when Adi hugged her out of happiness yesterday.....yes.....she enjoyed his company n conversing with him.....but not the actual outpour of affections Adi was showering on her......which includes the precap scene as well....TIme and again...she is reminding Adi of that letter assuming he has read it.....and is expecting a certain behaviour from him.....she is requesting time n space to fully involve herself in this new found life....to digest wat she is experiencing......so that she can fully justify with her future.....and let go of every FEAR of her existence......and this is why I say she is NOT "IN LOVE".....not yet....
Priya is rather at a stage called "acceptance".....she has accepted that despite having a torturous past.......she too can have a new life....that she too has the right to dream ....to hope....to seek new horizons....and that there can be someone who can love her for her ...with her good n her bad...(as she assumes it) ....that there can be someone who believes in her and that she can have a hand with whom she can walk into the sunset and a shoulder to cry in times of misery.......Priya can safely be termed as being in a period of "transition"....from the past to the future.....from the darkness to the light .....from the state of hatred, depression, guilt, inadequacy, discontentment, prejudice and anger towards joy, peacefulness, happiness, forgiveness, comfort and contentment........
Now u may question me why I say Aditya is also not "in love" when its so out in the open.....when it can be so evidently seen.....Well thats becoz the very base of love is not there.....the base of any relation......which is HONESTY.....
Aditya has been yearning to be with Priya ever since they met.....he "wants" her....he wants to express his feelings....with words...with actions....He has tried to understand her....he has even respected her as a woman....he has even given her his ears to hear her out and he also has stood up for her....but when the crucial time came for him to hear her ultimate truth......to let their relation begin....he turned around.........yes he respected her decision to show him her past....but he could not take the courage to go thru with it......He rather believed in his own love for her....and I totally adored that about Adi....but now wen Priya has given the green signals to Adi that they can begin their new journey....Adi is not telling her the truth of the letter scenario.....
Fine....some may say that he is doing that coz he fears losing her as he loves her so much......but then.....he himself said that his love is stronger than any past of hers.....then I ask....why the FEAR???? If he has faith in himself.....in his love.....then the least he can do is to let Priya know the truth of the letter and let her know the reasons behind his denial to read the letter......
Wat he is doing now is misleading Priya into a relation that can only create further misunderstandings n ultimately destroy wat could have turned into a beautiful n blissful relation......in its true from.....
Adi is giving everything including.....affections.....respect....understanding....loyalty...comfort in this relation except for that one main ingredient.......and that is HONESTY....which is derived from FEAR......and that is why I say......Adi is NOT "IN LOVE" with Priya.....not yet....
Adi is rather at a stage that is a notch higher or edging over "infactuation" but it definitely is not LOVE.....its the "in-betwen" phase....
The day both Priya and Adi let go of their individual FEARS......and move towards each other with completeness.........will they fall "IN LOVE".....in its true form!!!!!!!!!!....😳😳😳
😳
Love n Luck to All....
Rab Raakha....🤗
PS. These are strictly my POVs....but I would love to hear ur comments...😳😳😳
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