Balancing Life -Is it easy ?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I saw the Shaan balancing his parents divorce , his own flaws which stops him from enjoying the best moment of his life , his past and finally his better half and buddy loggerheads at each other...
No second opinion on Shaan was rude and insenitive when he badly spoke to Khanak and walked out of her yesterday episode spoiling all her preparations ...
My heart and brain both also say Shaan was being his self today.the time with Sam or others ..Does he have to change himself becoz he loves and married Khanak ? Their love gave Khanak the freeedom to be herslef ,so Khanak doesnot take most of his things seriously to heart ,coz she knows it was not done with intention to hurt ...They make neither of them stand on any pedestal...they are two simple people who love each other and have their own set of flaws...
Khanak background never bothered him ,so people talking on that never bothers him...unless things go out of hand he would give back someone commenting on that ... We love coz this factor is not important to him ...However He did stop Sam ...and simply Sam is guest of few days and no point making things heavy ...already life mein maa -baap ka tension hai...
He was actually trying to balance his fren who he has met after years and wifes perecption of situation ....Now with two ladies who give back as good as they get its not a easy task...
@ His wife - He said to Khanak why sams saying ILU matters to you coz it doesnot mean anything of that sort to me...I love u only Khanak ...Khankas apne use please khaa.....his expression of helplessness coz he knows how special please ,sorry and thank you are for Khanak ...he said by habbit and not the way he says please to khanak...
Kahank was very open about what bothered her ...these two have that level of comfort ...that dant manjaan and jao fren ke paas...Loved that in her....She understands Shaan's upringing is different but when that hurts her Khanak did not go back and cry in kitchen ,she just gave back
Sam- bindas and mufat coz she just says what she feels (not always a good habbit ..maybe that would have run her into trouble with Rahul), good at heart coz she came all the way for her fren and remembers his likes and dislikes...
Infact today sams flicker of emotion when Khanak says you wont know true love was superb ...and the retaliation saying if your love is true they why ur huby needs a fren..it was only giving back not meant to be heavy ...She liked Tashu as Shaans partner and thought she knew Shaan ...But Khanak proved her wrong on both counts ...so even if she may have said he needs his best fren she knows Shaan is bowled over by his wife ...the jadu mantar dialogue proved it and also proved that Shaan's love for his wife is clearly visible to Sam...Give Sam some time yaar ...
Guys we wanted to see how Khanak adjusts to Shaans lifestyle??...his is comfy around his buddy and it is harmless ...maybe he has been that way always , its just first time Khanak is seeing him in that backdrop....but it bothers her which is nautral...and Shaan needs to make her understand that its harmless ...
So life can throw tough situations ,they just need to be frank as Khanak was being and keep things in control as Shaan was miserably trying ...
Its too soon to pass judgement ...so lets wait for few more epis and get entertained with open mind....

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Posted: 15 years ago
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100000000% agreed

every1 upset pls pls pls this is wat would make u love yr shaan back n hopefully v all would b looking frward to the sr wid a hppy mood😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Loved you post Priya....All very valid points....Lets see where this track goes....Time to be patient😃...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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May ...I chose to make this post over cooking dinner ...thats dedication 😆 ......abhi its too soon to see through the track ...so lets have patietnce for some time ....love this show and hope everyone enjoys this show with open and happy mindframe
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Originally posted by: priya1209

May ...I chose to make this post over cooking dinner ...thats dedication 😆 ......abhi its too soon to see through the track ...so lets have patietnce for some time ....love this show and hope everyone enjoys this show with open and happy mindframe

Well with people like you around,,,We will all stay happy and positive😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes totally agree u guys r like logic makers
u mayb gaayu zenn aditee veena n many more srry im fgetting names but put the oints so well that v can c the positivity evemn in the negative part


kudos to u gals
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ahhhh.. lovely.. .and I completely agree with you .. give each one of them time (each character).. and we will know what is going on this is too much happening for them and for us😳.. and i think we are all so confused with emotions that it is hard to gather what we feel..

I would love to comment more but i need to get going..
Love your topic Priya.. you said exactly what i am feeling.. .

** there is a reason that i loved Madz.. 😳 she loves Shaan..
** there is a reason that i am liking Sam... everyone need a good friend..
** there is a reason that i love Khanak.... for what she is.. a toughie.. never gives up and never fears challange..
** there is a resason i love Shaan... errmm...errmm.. really do i need a reason!? 😳😳 I love him ! *sigh*
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya1209

I saw the Shaan balancing his parents divorce , his own flaws which stops him from enjoying the best moment of his life , his past and finally his better half and buddy loggerheads at each other...
No second opinion on Shaan was rude and insenitive when he badly spoke to Khanak and walked out of her yesterday episode spoiling all her preparations ...
My heart and brain both also say Shaan was being his self today.the time with Sam or others ..Does he have to change himself becoz he loves and married Khanak ? Their love gave Khanak the freeedom to be herslef ,so Khanak doesnot take most of his things seriously to heart ,coz she knows it was not done with intention to hurt ...They make neither of them stand on any pedestal...they are two simple people who love each other and have their own set of flaws...
Khanak background never bothered him ,so people talking on that never bothers him...unless things go out of hand he would give back someone commenting on that ... We love coz this factor is not important to him ...However He did stop Sam ...and simply Sam is guest of few days and no point making things heavy ...already life mein maa -baap ka tension hai...
He was actually trying to balance his fren who he has met after years and wifes perecption of situation ....Now with two ladies who give back as good as they get its not a easy task...
@ His wife - He said to Khanak why sams saying ILU matters to you coz it doesnot mean anything of that sort to me...I love u only Khanak ...Khankas apne use please khaa.....his expression of helplessness coz he knows how special please ,sorry and thank you are for Khanak ...he said by habbit and not the way he says please to khanak...
Kahank was very open about what bothered her ...these two have that level of comfort ...that dant manjaan and jao fren ke paas...Loved that in her....She understands Shaan's upringing is different but when that hurts her Khanak did not go back and cry in kitchen ,she just gave back
Sam- bindas and mufat coz she just says what she feels (not always a good habbit ..maybe that would have run her into trouble with Rahul), good at heart coz she came all the way for her fren and remembers his likes and dislikes...
Infact today sams flicker of emotion when Khanak says you wont know true love was superb ...and the retaliation saying if your love is true they why ur huby needs a fren..it was only giving back not meant to be heavy ...She liked Tashu as Shaans partner and thought she knew Shaan ...But Khanak proved her wrong on both counts ...so even if she may have said he needs his best fren she knows Shaan is bowled over by his wife ...the jadu mantar dialogue proved it and also proved that Shaan's love for his wife is clearly visible to Sam...Give Sam some time yaar ...
Guys we wanted to see how Khanak adjusts to Shaans lifestyle??...his is comfy around his buddy and it is harmless ...maybe he has been that way always , its just first time Khanak is seeing him in that backdrop....but it bothers her which is nautral...and Shaan needs to make her understand that its harmless ...
So life can throw tough situations ,they just need to be frank as Khanak was being and keep things in control as Shaan was miserably trying ...
Its too soon to pass judgement ...so lets wait for few more epis and get entertained with open mind....

Very good analysis Priya, very humane one atleast, towards Shaan.
I agree he is a huam being with just as many flaws as you or I
Sometimes we tend to create larger than life images about the people we idolize
I am going to take your word for it and give the guy another chance!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya1209

May ...I chose to make this post over cooking dinner ...thats dedication 😆 ......abhi its too soon to see through the track ...so lets have patietnce for some time ....love this show and hope everyone enjoys this show with open and happy mindframe

You sound like me, I did all the morning posts amidst cooking rajma chawal, breakfast and making sure everyone was having a good day off at home!😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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lovely post priya......and I absolutely loved your analysis.....

Thanks for spreading the positivity........

we all love Shaan.........Shanak...........and RBO

and we all are busy in our own lives, but still sit down to discuss, analyse and re-analyse fictional characters............that itself shows our love enough........

It's just that we attach ourselves emotionally sooooo much that we stop thinking from all point of views..........

as for me.....I have always been more biased for Khanak.......so the moment Shaan pointed fingers at her the first time, I started getting a little restless................but kept forgiving him for the sake of my love for him and RBO.............

I hope you ppl will understand as I do, when I see you defending Shaan and Sam ( Pri)...........well we all love one character more and just keep feeling for him/her more.............

I have nothing against Sam at all..........so I completely agree to your take on that........she is only acting normal.............absolutely no qualms........

Khanak is Khanak...........the saving grace is the way she stands up for herself......be it Shaan or Sam...........she gave them back, to both.

But, as for Shaan...........poor boy.................I do love him......... but, whatever the justification................Mannnnn, I love my Khanak more than him and he definitely messed up with her simply by walking out on her...............
how many of us would forgive boyfriend / husband for angrily walking out on a simple 'birthday party preparation' and then getting extra cozy with an old friend...........it is not that simple.....phir yeh to SR thi........that too 2 times this coy lady waited for him.....

yes I am ready to give him and the plot some time........to make up and say sorrys and justify his behaviour and rudeness..........but you know...what makes me sad is that he won't............

Anyways.......will try to reason him out and justify him like I always did for the most silly acts of his......................one more simply

anyways...............thanks for positivity..............it was indeed an awesome analysis and much needed one..............

Edited by rbo_fan - 15 years ago

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