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@venture
Laxmi, well said, my worry is my children, I want them to be a good human being, I lecture them all the time,and try to be an example but these days parenting is a daily challenge, as you always hear, so and so is allowed why am I not allowed!.
Yes Sheems...😛. being a mother i understand your worry dear.... I did quite a lot of preaching to my kid yest. 😆😆and then paused for a sec. and said what if he rubbished my words thinking..."Mumma enough.... mai pakh gaya hoon...."😆.... a mother always has this fear for her children dear...though the concern and worry keeps growing and changing with every phase in their life, its' always there.... .
U so rightly said.... What i ultimately expect from my child is to be a good human being.... yes dear ...that is what matters....though every mother survives to see her child successful in life the ultimate success in her upbringing is the time when his character stands out.... if he turns out to be selfless, honest, determined, responsible.... then a mom can say i am successful in my life as a mother......
Character ultimately stands out if a mother puts some efforts in her upbringing....... with this rapid change in lifestyle.... i keep reminding him to not forget his roots... and the traditions we believe in.... fear the luxuries have replaced the word 'comfort' , getting into wrong influences due to the peer pressure....and so on ....
so yes dear parenting truly is become a challenge ....but i guess show trust and expect him to trust u.... that way it might get easier....😛
Shiv Shakti
