Ridhima an Individual: Not Sid's or Arman's Ridz

Friends,

Why this anger ? Why this disguist ? Why dont you people wait for the epi.

Even lets say the worst expected happens. Ridz surrenders herself to Arman. Why so much angry on her. Don't you all think she tried her level best to be loyal to marriage. Is there anybody who disagrees with that ? Even when she is constantly troubled by the memories or worries or whatever of Arman, did she ever tried to be disloyal ?

If the surrender really happens (as it appears in precap), it just means she has been struggling to move on, and is infact thinking she is moving on but some where she is still stuck to her past. If this really is the case, we should applaude the girl for trying her best to be loyal. And if this happens, she should be relieved, so that she can go back Arman with whom she can live her life than forcing herself to live a different life. In this situation, even Sid will be spared of having to live with a woman whose heart belongs to someone else. Dont you guys think Sid deserves that ?

Agreed, she should have taken divorse before involving in such things. But did she really want a divorse ? No, she tried her best to be loyal to marriage and her heart failed her ? So, why why so much angry on her ? Please most of you are girls. Keep yourself in her shoes and think. How much she must have been suffering if this is the case ?


Please think properly before answering. Why why actually this disguist ? Sincere request !! Stop seeing her either as Sid's Ridhima or as Arman's Ridhima .. She is Ridhima, an individual and has her own identity. She is not a commodity or an object that should belong to one of them. Rather she is an human being who can have her own set of feelings.


Another important thing : Why are you calling her as cheater ? Why ?
If a person does something wrong purposely behind their spouse's back or has relation with someone else then you can call her as a cheater. Here, what we see ? The girl was thinking she should remove all the barriers between herself and Sid, she was trying to start a new relation with Sid. What is her fault in such situations, she meets Arman and momentarily looses herself. Her heart has failed her and she did not think of this outcome even in her wildest dreams ? Did she ? They why call it as a Dhoka ? Please friends think about ?

RID in an individual I just want to use one word

B........h

This disgist towards her is because she misleaded sid n gave him false hopes of a life together....she is not doing a favour to sid by being 'loyal' coz that is the least that can be expected from anyone in a marriage..i agree when they first got married circumstances excused her mental state...she was not ready for sid n it was clear..but then with time she had accepted sid..later if after gving her husband all the hope in the world she does a flip flop then nothing on earth can justify it...what is sid's fault in all this??why should he be a convenient use and throw object for riddhima??why should he pay the price for her indecisiveness??if she dsnt want a divorce and at the same time is stuck abt her past dont u think she is doing a great injustice to sid by not revealing her inner demons to him n deluding him to the actual realities??she is a paragon of truth n always demands her husband should be 100% truthful to her then isnt it expected that she wil do the same?

p.s--she is not an object but she definitely knows how to treat ppl as objects in her life

Originally posted by: pavs

This disgist towards her is because she misleaded sid n gave him false hopes of a life together....she is not doing a favour to sid by being 'loyal' coz that is the least that can be expected from anyone in a marriage..i agree when they first got married circumstances excused her mental state...she was not ready for sid n it was clear..but then with time she had accepted sid..later if after gving her husband all the hope in the world she does a flip flop then nothing on earth can justify it...what is sid's fault in all this??why should he be a convenient use and throw object for riddhima??why should he pay the price for her indecisiveness??if she dsnt want a divorce and at the same time is stuck abt her past dont u think she is doing a great injustice to sid by not revealing her inner demons to him n deluding him to the actual realities??she is a paragon of truth n always demands her husband should be 100% truthful to her then isnt it expected that she wil do the same as what she preaches..

p.s--she is not an object but she definitely knows how to treat ppl as objects in her life

I agree with most of your points. Yes she gave false hopes to Sid. But only one question ? Did she do it on purpose ? Did she not try to be loyal all the time ? She just lost herself in a moment when Arman was reminding her of her past. Atleast hope she realizes what she actually wants with this incident .



If the precap is as is shown, then dont you think it is better Sid is relieved ? I love our Sid to have a beutiful life with another woman than being stuck to this woman.

Firstly i dont believe a married woman/Ridz should even be put in this position by her ex lover, its wrong and i blame Armaan for this, coz he got her in this situation as he went to her didnt he - thats the fact isnt it

Hmm, that is a POV I haven't come across yet. Needless to say, that is quite sensible. I love the way your thoughts are portrayed so calmly without bashing anyone. 😊

Lennie and Akanksha0701

Thanks for the reply. Both of you replied similarly and I can see a logical reason there. It is nice.

But my main point is why to blame Ridhima as cheat or Dokha etc ? I dont think she did any Dokha and so my sincere request to is to understand her position. Just keep yourselfs in her position and you will definitely understand this.

PS : This CVs dont create scenes in a smooth/continuous fashion. One day they show her all worried only about Sid and totally Arman is nowhere in Picture the next day it is the reverse situation. This is causing I think all the confusion .

Originally posted by: kvva

I agree with most of your points. Yes she gave false hopes to Sid. But only one question ? Did she do it on purpose ? Did she not try to be loyal all the time ? She just lost herself in a moment when Arman was reminding her of her past. Atleast hope she realizes what she actually wants with this incident .



If the precap is as is shown, then dont you think it is better Sid is relieved ? I love our Sid to have a beutiful life with another woman than being stuck to this woman.

do u think that can justify anything???what she did is wrong even if she lost in a moment that can also not justify her sin...she was the only person who gave all the hopes to sid,she forced Sid for remarriage then why this backstabbing???just because she lost in a moment???

Even as a human..........She cannot be justified for losing herself like that in the arms of her past.............NOTHING.......and I mean NOTHING...........can justify infidelity.........