Ridhima an Individual: Not Sid's or Arman's Ridz - Page 4

Originally posted by: sajni786

@kwa.......

I dont think u and I stand at the same window here and I dont think there's a point in carrying on with this debate coz u n I have different views on cheaters......for me if u cannot gauge ur feelings or not even know ur feelings.......then u are cheating urself.....but I guess that doesnt hold true for u.....

So its ok........loved this discussion with u tho 🤗

Thanks. Yes, she is cheating herself. I agree with you completely. My only difference is that you cant name her as a Dokha baaz and all the other names that people are calling.

Yes, probably I am more linient towards woman. You know why ? because even though our society is progressing, still the restrictions on woman are much more than the man. They more supressed and are not allowed to have their individuality. That is why I just love Sid. He is a dream character. The man (actually a Child man) has the guts to give this woman all the freedom that nobody can even imagine.

Even I loved the discussions with you and most probably I think we match in your opinions, but just there is a small difference in the end .

Well this is a POV which is new and fresh. Giving it a thought,i agree that Riddhima tried to move on with Sid and tried her best to forget her past and move with a smile on her face but judging by what's coming ahead,i don't really support her because nothing justifies her melting in Armaan's arms.

Its obvious that Armaan is at bigger fault right now as he didn't really care what he is doing but i feel Riddhima shouldn't have really stayed there. If we recap the end of the precap,she actually had a somewhat content expression on her face. I don't know how the episode will go but judging by the precap,it doesn't look good.

Armaan,obviously,is very very wrong at the moment. I felt it was emotional blackmail from his side, Riddhima's basic morals are weak so why even go to the character??

Originally posted by: JShukla

Well.......... I don't agree here......It takes 2 to tango......... Sid's proximity never led her to such a situation......... which tells us that she has the control.......... and when she loses it in Armaan's proximity, I believe her place is with Armaan..\And emotionally, she was never really loyal to Sid.......... Even on her honeymoon, isn't she shown thinking about Armaan...... So yeah, here Ridz is wrong. If we are trying to justify her act by saying that she is a pati vrata sati savitri..... then no....... she isn't......never was. I hope Sid gets Rid of Rid very soon

This just proves again that her love for Arman is much more deeper than for Sid. But her attempts were not false. I infact, loved her when she kissed Sid. Did she not do it with her full heart. So, she is moving on and would have completely moved on has she was given the chance. Unfortunately before, that itself she was confronted with her past, which hampered the process to a great extent.

Infact, in my opinion, she was ready to move on with full heart even before Arman made his first reappearence. Dont you remember how happy she was when she went to meet Sid in Pune. Probably if she met Sid then, she would have taken her marriage to next level and slowly would have completely moved on. And then, Arman's precence would not have made much difference to her.

Originally posted by: ana24

dear am not blaming ridz alone here....defo armaan is the main culprit but ridz is the one who is married n dat was the time she had to show restraint.....if ahe had den it would be the perfect way to portray that she does wana be sid's completely....but alas CV's n RM had somethin else in mind....

what ever you said riddhima is wrong she played with sids emotions and feelings she just used him like a toy. gave him false hopes that she belongs to him and you said ridz has tried to be loyal no she has no respect for that marriage she doesnt put on any sindoor mangal sutra or anything that makes her belief that she is somebodys amanaat thats why she allows her ex to take advantage on her and sleep with her on her honeymoon pathetic shame on you riddhima shame on you are a disgrace to women.

Originally posted by: kvva

Yes, your comparison is correct ? But is her mistake as grave as the one you compared with ?

I am sorry I completely disagree with you in the rest of the points. I dont think she will repeat it, once she knows her feelings. Infact, she is honest because she went and confessed it to Sid. Did she not ?

Wen You See where Ridz is coming from yes.....it is just as big. Sid gave her ample space to realise wots in her heart....... I still remmber how A and r reacted wen Sid accused them of cheating him in the lonavala episode. ? Besides why did she not ask herself wat is preventing her to consummate with her hubby? why is she not able to repeat ILU after his numerous confessions.......that is clue enough. Anyways, I don't really appreciate weakness of character. Besides, she has been really mean to Sid........ the way she would yell and scream at him in hospital..far from respectful. She could have realised that spouses in love donn brush off each other with a rude wave of hand in public...... ...... And yes.......... I do hope now that she has realised her folly, she better appologize to all concerned specially Sid .......... and divorce him in peace without expecting him to take her back😡 Anyways... since we do not agree..........it is best we discontinue......... it was noce discussing with you........Thanks and Bye

Originally posted by: JShukla

Wen You See where Ridz is coming from yes.....it is just as big. Sid gave her ample space to realise wots in her heart....... I still remmber how A and r reacted wen Sid accused them of cheating him in the lonavala episode. ? Besides why did she not ask herself wat is preventing her to consummate with her hubby? why is she not able to repeat ILU after his numerous confessions.......that is clue enough. Anyways, I don't really appreciate weakness of character. Besides, she has been really mean to Sid........ the way she would yell and scream at him in hospital..far from respectful. She could have realised that spouses in love donn brush off each other with a rude wave of hand in public...... ...... And yes.......... I do hope now that she has realised her folly, she better appologize to all concerned specially Sid .......... and divorce him in peace without expecting him to take her back😡 Anyways... since we do not agree..........it is best we discontinue......... it was noce discussing with you........Thanks and Bye

Thanks again. But I completely agree with this new para of yours. She should have taken the clues and understood them. And yes she must must must appologize to Sid.