Should Jogi not explain his situation to Tapasya?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Jogi and Divya know tht what they did for Ichha was out of repentance...but Tapasya doesnt. I am sure Tapasya's young mind might have questioned it like 1000 times that is Ichha so virtuous that her own parents hv given Ichha the place that belonged to Tapasya only? ...Not justifying anything that Tapasya did...but she does deserve atleast this explantion from her dad. She hs asked so many times why did her dad give exctly the same place to Ichha that ws only Tapasya's. (I have seen many kids feeling insecure...when parents show too much affection towards neighbor's child even for some time..)

Why doesnt Jogi EVER confide in Tapasya..that it ws because he was responsible for Ichha's fathers death though he did not intend to do it. Maybe Tapasya will feel less worse about the whole scenario. She will understand that Ichha did not "rob" her father..but it was only Jogi's repentance..but unless Tapasya knows this fact..she might not be able to understand what made her dad share his affection.

I think its wrong on Jogi's part to hide this fact from Tapasya. He should have confided in her long back. If nothing else, she at least deserves to know this much. And even after knowing the gravity of the way it has impacted Tapasya...Jogi is still not sharing this truth with her-is kinda emotionally cruel.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Good post! I always wondered the same too!
Normally, a father-daughter relationship is very secure and trustworthy unless they're very conservative but I guess nothing is normal in Uttaran- its always much beyond normal life, Cvs here try to potray.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: hima_123

Jogi and Divya know tht what they did for Ichha was out of repentance...but Tapasya doesnt. I am sure Tapasya's young mind might have questioned it like 1000 times that is Ichha so virtuous that her own parents hv given Ichha the place that belonged to Tapasya only? ...Not justifying anything that Tapasya did...but she does deserve atleast this explantion from her dad. She hs asked so many times why did her dad give exctly the same place to Ichha that ws only Tapasya's. (I have seen many kids feeling insecure...when parents show too much affection towards neighbor's child even for some time..)

Why doesnt Jogi EVER confide in Tapasya..that it ws because he was responsible for Ichha's fathers death though he did not intend to do it. Maybe Tapasya will feel less worse about the whole scenario. She will understand that Ichha did not "rob" her father..but it was only Jogi's repentance..but unless Tapasya knows this fact..she might not be able to understand what made her dad share his affection.

I think its wrong on Jogi's part to hide this fact from Tapasya. He should have confided in her long back. If nothing else, she at least deserves to know this much. And even after knowing the gravity of the way it has impacted Tapasya...Jogi is still not sharing this truth with her-is kinda emotionally cruel.

i am not a tappu fan................. but i felt the same u posted😊...................... well said yaarrrrrrrr👏............. she is supposed 2 kow the fact behind jogi's luv towadrs ichcha................
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes....it would have been logical to see Jogi explaining things to Tapasya.....but in that case our miss evil personofied will stop commiting crimes 😳 and the Cvs will have to wrap up this show 😆 kyunki unka saara concentration to Tappu ke gunaho aur unse bechari Tappu ko bahar nikalne mein hi laga rehta hai 😆 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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U r right Hima ji. I really curse Jogi for this!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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tapu has every right to know about jogi's situation but right now its too late .... the damage has already been done ..... tapu hates itcha and i don't think she will ever start loving her .... in tapu's mind, itcha took everything from her so knowing that itcha's dad died because of jogi is not going to help right now ..... first thing jogi and tapu nees to is to re-built their relationship .... i do really think that tapu loves her dad but i don't like jogi's behavior towards tapu .... he is very angry at her, i understand that ..... but they need to reconnect again .... it will take lots of time .... right now tapu feels that she doesn't have anyone and jogi is very disappointed at her but is not taking in responsibilities .... for me i feel jogi does love itcha more then tapu ,.... he understands itcha better then tapu .... jogi shouldn't have taken responsibility of itcha as it shows clearly that he neglected his own daughter .... it is very disappointing to see this because he is a good person but i really think he is not a good father ....

so right now it will not make much difference as it is very hard for him to forgive her and vise a versa ....

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: trupat

tapu has every right to know about jogi's situation but right now its too late .... the damage has already been done ..... tapu hates itcha and i don't think she will ever start loving her .... in tapu's mind, itcha took everything from her so knowing that itcha's dad died because of jogi is not going to help right now ..... first thing jogi and tapu nees to is to re-built their relationship .... i do really think that tapu loves her dad but i don't like jogi's behavior towards tapu .... he is very angry at her, i understand that ..... but they need to reconnect again .... it will take lots of time .... right now tapu feels that she doesn't have anyone and jogi is very disappointed at her but is not taking in responsibilities .... for me i feel jogi does love itcha more then tapu ,.... he understands itcha better then tapu .... jogi shouldn't have taken responsibility of itcha as it shows clearly that he neglected his own daughter .... it is very disappointing to see this because he is a good person but i really think he is not a good father ....

so right now it will not make much difference as it is very hard for him to forgive her and vise a versa ....



precisely my thoughts!👏 very well said! Jogi is a good man with the right principles but he has unknowingly neglected his own daughter and is responsible in a big way for her present situation but the depressing thing is he refuses to acknowledge this and STILL doesnt understand her! He had no right to love ichha more and spoil his own daughter's life!😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yeah i think they should tell but i also feel that its too late.. if she knows it now also she cant change herself she has turned into a complete evil
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: payel_roy

yeah i think they should tell but i also feel that its too late.. if she knows it now also she cant change herself she has turned into a complete evil


now she need only 440 volt shock, nothing else😆😆😆😆.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhay119


now she need only 440 volt shock, nothing else😆😆😆😆.

😆😆do u think only 440 volt shock will be enough to melt her steel heart😆???/

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